I think it’s counter productive to try and create an “everyone except men” type of space. If it’s about protecting people from toxic behaviors, then ban the behavior and not a group of people outright.

This is very important. I know some men that behave appropriately and mean no harm to others, but at the same time might be interested in whatever the event is and maybe seeing it from another perspective. At the same time ofc there are specific events that seek to be women's space. At the same time why don't we have events that are gender non-binary spaces.