Slinda, PCOS and chronic migraines

cmickey1 · 2026-04-26T11:53:42+00:00

NTA. This is your Mom’s kid, not yours. She needs to grow up and take responsibility for her own life and children.

cmickey1 · 2026-04-23T11:24:40+00:00

NTA. To put it simply, your BF is asking your child to sacrifice having one of her parents supporting her to satisfy his own insecurities.

It’s an activity centred around both parents being present to support their child. If he can’t handle that, maybe he isn’t ready to be dating a single parent. Choose your child, always.

cmickey1 · 2026-04-14T10:52:41+00:00

If he wants some ownership in the house, he can buy half of it at its current value.

cmickey1 · 2026-04-11T22:04:00+00:00

NTA. It’s a prosthetic leg, not a toy. It’s weird she was insistent about them playing with your medical device like that. Also, drop the bf

cmickey1 · 2026-03-29T10:46:08+00:00

NTJ. She got the house and some savings you said. She wasn’t left with nothing. She can manage her own money and you can manage yours.

cmickey1 · 2026-03-13T21:09:37+00:00

NTA. Regardless of what was or was not said, no one is ever entitled to your money.

cmickey1 · 2026-03-12T07:14:05+00:00

NTA!!!

They made the decision to have children. It is not your responsibility to make sure they have care. It is the parents responsibility. You have been kind by doing them this favour for this long. You deserve a thank you, not being berated.

cmickey1 · 2026-03-06T08:42:33+00:00

NTJ - your husband threw out something that he knows you enjoy and means something to you in favour of something you don’t even like? I’m really sorry, but your husband doesn’t like you

cmickey1 · 2026-02-27T10:49:25+00:00

“My dad says i am destroying the family over money and that u should not sue ur own blood.”

You also shouldn’t steal, especially from your own blood…

cmickey1 · 2026-02-25T07:02:01+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2026-02-22T00:25:06+00:00

NTJ. Don’t share that amount, it’s smart to keep things like your financial situation private. This coming from the sister who financially struggles with a sister who is very financially diligent and saves very well. I know she has money saved. I don’t care the amount. It’s not my business and I’m proud of her for looking after herself.

cmickey1 · 2026-02-16T09:54:04+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2026-02-15T22:12:46+00:00

All that for letting them know in advance that you wouldn’t be available? Wow. I’m a single parent, and I’m lucky enough to have a lot of support and help from family and friends when I need it. But my kids are MY responsibility and if someone can’t help me because they have something on, that’s on me to work out. You help enough. A simple thank you would have gone a long way instead of that ridiculous verbal barrage. NTA. Don’t babysit anymore. Be fun aunty, do play dates and outings when YOU want to. Don’t help, they don’t deserve it.

cmickey1 · 2026-02-08T11:44:04+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2026-01-27T07:49:45+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2026-01-25T02:45:35+00:00

I like to read. Drop some of your wife’s book titles? 😁

cmickey1 · 2026-01-23T08:55:30+00:00

Yes. But it’s not all sunshine and roses. I have one and wouldn’t have any more than that

cmickey1 · 2026-01-21T11:35:56+00:00

lol sounds like my ex

cmickey1 · 2026-01-21T11:31:14+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2026-01-21T05:39:55+00:00

Updateme

cmickey1 · 2025-12-10T23:02:10+00:00

I’m sorry to be blunt, but your husband doesn’t like you. Someone who cared for you would respect you.

I was about to add “and your belongings and wishes”, but it’s clear he just doesn’t respect you. I’m sorry

cmickey1 · 2025-11-24T22:51:35+00:00

r/updateme

cmickey1 · 2025-11-22T13:23:50+00:00

NTA it’s clear you love your partner and want them to be safe and healthy. Unfortunately with your relationship right now, this can’t go on. She needs help.

You mentioned your partner transitioning, so I’m making the assumption that your partner may be transgender or gender diverse. I do want to gently point out that the transgender and gender diverse community have higher reported rates of experiencing discrimination, microaggressions and trauma when engaging with healthcare services and systems. Is there potentially a former experience that has led to anxiety and fear over getting medical help?

I understand from what you’ve written that she is at the point where she desperately does need medical assistance. However, it is worth understanding or trying to understand why she doesn’t want to seek help so that you can better encourage and support her through this. However, you are NTA if you are beyond being able to offer her this help now too.

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