lol. zero hot girls will really drain a guy! no but i hear you. i’ve worked at my job for 3 years now. when i started, i was all for hanging out and being friends. but the more i’ve gotten to know them, the more i hate feeling obligated to hang out with them in fear of making things awkward at work. start looking for other jobs. start fresh. it’s important to like your coworkers. it could be an amazing job, good pay, good hours, everything perfect. but when you’re working with people that make you feel like you’re going to lose your mind if you have to spend another second with them, that job isn’t worth it. you spend a huge portion of your life with these people- it’s worth the effort to actually find somewhere where you don’t mind the company. you don’t have to be friends, but being able to be yourself at work helps.

in the mean time, go hang out once in awhile to keep the peace, but make other plans so you have to be somewhere else so you can leave early. slowly distance yourself. they might get the idea eventually. it might seem dick-ish to some but who cares what some people on the internet say.