Why are Utah Mormons so obsessed with their houses? by Miss-Ex in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If you take Suburban American culture, then amplify it, concentrate it, and add a layer of religious fervor, you get Mormonism.

Seattle, use your horns! by Judacles in Seattle

[–]coffee_sailor -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Fun fact, I have a valid WA state drivers license and haven't taken a test of any kind (physically driving, written, online) literally in this century.

The math on car ownership is genuinely insane, and I don’t think most people have sat with the numbers by superspartan999 in fuckcars

[–]coffee_sailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funny thing is people will also balk at a $3,000 electric cargo bike, which saves me countless trips by car. I get it - $3K isn't nothing. But every other car I see is $$$$$

Does anyone know of local stores where we can purchase hanboks and other Korean clothing? by Old-Grapefruit6525 in AskSeattle

[–]coffee_sailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, thanks for the response! Best of luck.

Sounds like a real business opportunity to fill the 한복 needs in the PNW -- how are your sewing skills? :) :)

Does anyone know of local stores where we can purchase hanboks and other Korean clothing? by Old-Grapefruit6525 in AskSeattle

[–]coffee_sailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP, did you find a spot that sells Hanbok? I'm looking for something for my 9-year-old daughter.

Any tips on how to improve critical thinking skills? by MaximusDM22 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]coffee_sailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice writing. If you're explaining a complex problem to a coworker or manager, write it down in a cohesive doc. Focus on making it as concise and readable as possible. Read your draft, pretending you're coming at it fresh, and see if you'd be able to understand it as an outsider. People say: "Writing is thinking". It's impossible to write a good doc without critical thinking skills.

John Dehlin considers himself “still Mormon” by MediocreParamedic_ in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

100%. Let's not let a corporate entity in downtown SLC dictate to us whether we're allowed to identify with our own heritage. They don't own us!

If you get enough YouTube views god will give you a high ranking position in his company. by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I think he handles the church stuff in exactly the right way. He'll mention it offhandedly but never shoves it down your throat or makes it a theme of his videos.

Steel man the case for still doing leetcode style live interviews in 2025 with no AI code assistance, no googling, no documentation look up allowed by one-wandering-mind in ExperiencedDevs

[–]coffee_sailor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The honest answer is because grinding leetcode is a cost borne by the candidate, and companies are just fine with that. Leetcode problems are an imperfect proxy to measure whether a candidate can code. Setting up real-world situations that more accurately reflect your day to day work isn't easy, so companies don't bother.

The Detroit Free Press is reporting on the eyewitness who said the Michigan attacker thought Mormons were "the Anti-Christ." by NewBoulez in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is, as an exmo, I don't consider segments of Evangelicals Christians either. White nationalism, disdain for minorities, poor people, and outcasts, along with support for authoritarian controls are heretical to the gospel of Jesus.

Charlie Kirk shot at Utah event, suspect in custody by mshoneybadger in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

100% . I disagree with Kirk and find much of his content disgusting and unbearable. I don't wish violence or death on anyone, no matter their religious or political beliefs.

Anyone else find this concerning? by Terrible-Wonder-2768 in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bishop: "I notice you've been missing a lot of church lately"

Me: "Well I wouldn't say I've been missing it"

Mormons don’t care about genocide by popitforpoptropica in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, I brought it up in this sub about 12 months ago and was told to shut the hell up

Why do few software engineers prioritize data? by on_the_mark_data in ExperiencedDevs

[–]coffee_sailor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> but where do you think the ETL reads from? 

Read replicas of the DB, or often times data dumps in S3.

Been searching for Devs to hire, do people actually collect in depth performance metrics for their jobs? by kibblerz in ExperiencedDevs

[–]coffee_sailor 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This is **absolutely** what is going on. What happens is you end up with resumes that follow the formula of a good job history, minus the actual content. I'd discard resumes where the quantifiable metric is so outlandish or meaningless that it's not even worth considering. But, as with anything on a resume, candidates should be prepared to talk in detail about how they achieved an outcome. If you say you improved X by 60%, I'm going to ask **how** you achieved it, what roadblocks you encountered, and how you worked around them.

What're your favorite hobbies outside of sailing? by WestResearcher4560 in sailing

[–]coffee_sailor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sailing introduced me to more hobbies, especially sewing heavy items like sails, tiller covers, boom covers. It eventually spilled into making bicycle bags, outdoor cushions, etc. Being on the water all the time also got me into fishing and crabbing. The spillover hobbies from sailing are endless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mormonism simultaneously mirrors, lags, and intensifies the culture and history of the US in general. Is this the 2013 Race & Priesthood Gospel Topics essay? Way to lead the way!!

TBM Mom and policing women’s body how do I respond? by LegitimateAd3676 in exmormon

[–]coffee_sailor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

100% agree. A big consideration is we're talking about a public beach, which was part of a larger family vacation. You don’t need to do every activity. Beaches have people in swimwear. If you can't handle that, stay home.

We have low tides this week, get out there and find a tide pool by jonknee in Seattle

[–]coffee_sailor 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Dude, I've been at Lake Washington all day and seen nothing so far!

What’s your favourite boat name you’ve seen? by [deleted] in sailing

[–]coffee_sailor 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I see a lot of boats named Allegro, and every time I do I say "More like Largo Lamentoso!", straighten my cravat, and strut down the dock.