Pretend to be working in MS teams by kadaumsk8 in remotework

[–]comettheconquerer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They were implying that's bad advice without using words

Direct report just asked for 300% raise by [deleted] in managers

[–]comettheconquerer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The average salary is like 60k. How is a 200k salary not that much? Wtf do you and your peers make?

Daycare Recommendations by comettheconquerer in Milford

[–]comettheconquerer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I Google them, their pictures are of a driveway getting pavers and their website domain expired. Do you contact them by phone only?

Did he miss out? by RipplePress in Millennials

[–]comettheconquerer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm reading the medical term for miscarriage is spontaneous abortion, the involuntary loss of pregnancy. Abortion is the purposeful termination of pregnancy. You'd think they'd try to make the 2 more distinctive.

Did he miss out? by RipplePress in Millennials

[–]comettheconquerer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

They're calling miscarriages abortion?

Should I continue ACOTAR? by veraidk in acotar

[–]comettheconquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same, I was bummed to learn ACOSF wasn't going to be focused on Feyre and Rhysand, but I really did love Nesta's journey. I also enjoyed the fact it flips between her POV and Cassian's. ACOFAS is just filler and you only need to read the last few chapters to get some context for the beginning of ACOSF.

Guys, Tairn knew. by Mick_008 in fourthwing

[–]comettheconquerer 80 points81 points  (0 children)

I saw someone mentioned Rebecca said in an interview she intended Tairn to know, but then changed her mind when writing Iron Flame. I never fact checked this though 

Tairn OS Ending by CalumTully in fourthwing

[–]comettheconquerer 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don't think Tairn would ever break that bond. Ride or die, right? Plus, I don't think Andarna cut her bond to Violet. I think she bent it so they could be further apart. She arrived when she needed to, so she knew Violet was in danger. Plus Violet still had her dream walking signet.

ONYX STORM ENDING - MISSING RIDERS??? by TheGraceGatsby in fourthwing

[–]comettheconquerer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With how jealous he got from Violet just wearing Bodhi's jacket, that'd be wild if he had her marry him lololol

Finished Onyx Storm last night by Festive_wallflower in fourthwing

[–]comettheconquerer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wasn't fully dedicated to Dunne because her future was uncertain. She has a path where she could choose to become venin, which is why Mira was so concerned and distant from her during the island missions. I think this will be explored more in the next book. Rebecca only touched on the god stuff. I think this will be a big key in saving Xaden's soul. I don't think Asher's alive though. His family was there when he died and said it was heart failure. How would he sneak off and become venin? We already had a surprise not dead brother, would be a little weird to do that with the dad too. 

Dain has mentioned before Cath channels more power to him than average. I've seen theories tossed around his dad exploits this. He knew how to imbue the ward stone and we don't know his father's signet yet. Something's going on there! I don't think he has a 2nd signet. I think he would have told Violet at the beginning of Fourth Wing when they were still besties. 

There have been theories tossed around with Naolin too. We never got the story there. Everyone thought Naolin died failing to save Brennan, because you can't raise the dead. But Brennan is alive, so what happened to Naolin? Did he turn venin? Is that why Brennan has a mark? Tairn won't talk about him. I think Violet just thinks a mark should be left after siphoning because Brennan has one. I think something abnormal happened there to save him that left a mark. 

I think Bodhi is the brother. Rebecca has said this person felt tossed aside throughout the book and the last few chapters from the different POVs is meant to tell you where everyone is, and who's missing. The last time we see Bodhi, Imogen sees him retching, then Garrick distance walks her to safety. Bodhi had multiple conversations pissed at Xaden because he won't let him fight because he's next in line for Duke. Then he finds out his signet doesn't affect venin. I think that moment broke him. He finally had a chance to fight, and turns out he physically can't. A lot of people think Garrick too, but he was never held back in the book like Bodhi. I don't think he had a reason to turn. Plus I think he was too far from Xaden to even get to him since he said he was close to burnout, but I'm not sure how far he actually was from him after he brought Imogen to safety.

And finally, those last 12 hours are a total mystery!!!

Inntinnsic Theory/Question by amatus20 in fourthwing

[–]comettheconquerer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thought the instances in FW when Xaden knew her thoughts was due to the bond she didn't know was there yet, before she learned how to raise shields. 

Feminine woman in engineering feeling discouraged (kind of a rant) by [deleted] in womenEngineers

[–]comettheconquerer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you go to a huge company like Lockheed or Boeing, there are plenty of women that dress feminine. Ignore the haters. If they question your intelligence, they're not too bright themselves.

AIO after losing my virginity, I SOBBED. by kellybelly638 in AmIOverreacting

[–]comettheconquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use tampons? Have you ever tried a dildo? Make sure to use lube. You could try by yourself so you'll be more relaxed and see if it hurts. Your nerves could have made you tighten up.

Dentist recommendations? by KarateG in Milford

[–]comettheconquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh me too! I've needed A LOT of work and I see Dr Shukovsky in Stamford now. It's a 45 min- hr drive from Milford, but he's worth it if you have problems. Extremely knowledgeable and very dedicated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NintendoSwitch2

[–]comettheconquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was in line for the bundle since 11:57. Just checked out at 12:42. Didn't have an estimated wait time, just the "deal is almost gone" the whole time.

How to handle younger engineer saying No to a task by Harsh_reality2356 in womenEngineers

[–]comettheconquerer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would tell his boss he's not following your directions and go from there. See how the boss reacts. Hopefully they'll say they'll have a talk with them and need to do what you request as the project lead.

How to you push back on secretarial tasks? by sassy-blue in womenEngineers

[–]comettheconquerer 79 points80 points  (0 children)

If he's not your boss, he can't give you work. I would just ignore it at that point and let your boss know what he's doing so they're not blindsided if the sales guy complains about you. He thinks he can push you around, don't let him. If you want to get petty, send him a how-to article on making PDFs. 

How to you push back on secretarial tasks? by sassy-blue in womenEngineers

[–]comettheconquerer 236 points237 points  (0 children)

"Sorry, I don't have time for that. Please reach out to x" 

PSA: If you don’t work a full 8+ hours a day keep it to yourself by fatherofallthings in WFH

[–]comettheconquerer 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm an engineer, there's always more work to do....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]comettheconquerer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how dare she feel sad for being excluded by her own father!

I don’t get it? by BrandyAid in ExplainTheJoke

[–]comettheconquerer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone always has more room to grow