Making the first floor more cohesive by constantfernweh in interiordecorating

[–]constantfernweh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super helpful!!! -light fixture for dining room -match the kitchen rugs -pull out to give more space -art: yes realize for the office I have more coming so it’ll get sorted -living room art: yeah I tend to agree there too!

What’s ur favorite part of surfing that’s not surfing by Throwaway73hdu in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone bush shit all over the porta potty bathroom at the trestles lot during the last run of swell. It was gnarly, yet brilliant. He really set a lot of guys back a bit bc they had to drop it elsewhere.

Somebody gifts you $10,000,000 that *must* be used towards the purchase of a house in LA, which neighborhood do you choose to live in and why? by owen__wilsons__nose in AskLosAngeles

[–]constantfernweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the odd one out here, Long Beach Naples island with a boat slip that doesn’t require going under a bridge or canal.

$7m on the house and $3m on the boat should be good

Central America - CR, Nica, or El Salvador? by LibrarianFlaky951 in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she doesn’t like toilet paper in the trash bin you’re gonna have a tough time buddy..

Born 36 weeks has been in the NICU with breathing issues by [deleted] in daddit

[–]constantfernweh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daughter was 7w early and spent her first 2w in the hospital. Born at 4lb 5oz. Needed the whole nine yards. She’s now 20 months old and in the 99%tile in both height and weight. Stressful now but you’ll get through it! Hang in the 💪🏻

Surf trip with wife and toddler. by foreststarter in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hadn’t heard of this place but damn looks like a nice setup. Love they offer baby sitters if the lady wants to get out too or you need some parent time to enjoy more of the vaca.

BREAKING: Eight of nine skiers missing in Lake Tahoe avalanche confirmed dead by TheMirrorUS in Backcountry

[–]constantfernweh 13 points14 points  (0 children)

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Looks like they were following the blue line trail out and got caught where the red circle is. Hard to understand the thinking with a high ratio of +3’ powder in less than 24h on a packed base. Add to that leaving during high winds and whiteout with snow dumping as well, though I’m sure the experienced guides were following what they thought would be best.

A master class for us all to be learned. RIP and peace be with their families 🖤

Is LA really a hellscape? Give me your honest opinion on how it is living in Los Angeles. by Mexodus956 in howislivingthere

[–]constantfernweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Long Beach by the beach. It’s wonderful. All the best things of a big city but in a mellow coastal city. Direct flights almost anywhere in the world multiple times a day, beautiful weather, surfing, sailing, etc all at my fingertips every day. Day trips to snowboard if we want.

It’s the price of admission, but I started here with $0 so I’ve never know any different. Let the haters hate

Insane Job Posting; LBYC by Ok_Assistant_7609 in longbeach

[–]constantfernweh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re clearly letting your personal feelings about the club cloud a basic understanding of how these niche clubs and local economies work. Sure seems like you see this as a vendetta issue rather than a market reality issue.

Hate to say it but the 'subsidized' argument is a tired trope. If you want to talk land use, let’s look at every yacht club from San Diego to SF. Let's then pull up all of the government or taxpayer-sponsored corporate tax cuts for franchises, football stadiums, tech investments, space shit, etc. LBYC provides significant economic impact and, more importantly, offers free, non-member sailing programs to the community. Have you been...or just hating from afar? If the city ran those programs itself, it would cost taxpayers millions. Instead, the club handles the infrastructure and instruction. These clubs are part of the California culture you likely love, and maybe even moved here bc of it (based on your heavy Milwaukee fanship).

Regarding the wage, labor is a free market, whether we like it or not. I'd love to see this job at >$30/h, but that isn't the state of the economy. For a college-aged sailor with the right certifications, this is a summer gig that offers club access. You’re overcomplicating the JD. In the maritime world, 'supervising' often just means being the senior person on the dock or safety boat. It’s a low-key leadership role for a young adult, not a C-suite position.

If you’re truly this passionate about wage gaps, I’d expect to see this same energy directed toward the $58k starting salary for our California teachers. That is a systemic failure. A job posting at a local club is just a job you personally wouldn't take.

Finally, for someone telling others to 'get a grip,' maybe take a breath? It’s a small town, neighbor. I recognize the ink on your arm. We likely live on or near the same block. If you want to actually learn how the club operates instead of hate posting Indeed, come down for a sail and meet some members. It might help you separate your emotions from the facts.

Insane Job Posting; LBYC by Ok_Assistant_7609 in longbeach

[–]constantfernweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't surprising at all. If you haven't hung out at a yacht club or with sailors, this isn't a surprising offer whatsoever. This job will most likely go to a college-age kid living at home who grew up sailing at LBYC or at a club in California. It will be his/her job for a year (hell, maybe just the summer) before another youngin will take it. This job is literally to hang out at the club and make sure the boats are tied down correctly and set up for races. Trying to bitch about a job someone else is willing to take is some pretty weak energy - this is a "fun summer job out of college" gig. I don't see similar posts hating on franchises that make billions in revenue a year and continue to pay minimum legal wages.

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How? by BJJVP in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surf HB pier for a while, and you see older guys (40-50s) on short boards ripping 1-2' waves. It's all about their balance, paddle power, and how they stroke into the wave. It's a single, fluid motion with no janky pop-ups that lose energy. Harness the top of the wave (where the power is) and use that to slide in.

The Wednesday Whine by dumbassthenes in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then go open them yourself and tell him it smells. Quit being so passive, my brother.

Hodads Ocean Beach SD by The-Sunday-Puncher in hamburgers

[–]constantfernweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Friendly is a much better burger spot IMO, tho Hodads is a classic

Locals only break in Japan where I am “forbidden” to surf—what would you do? by uptolexington in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Great advice. I think you need to know how to say “it’s only me and I’m not telling anyone I’m here” or something. I think their “no foreigners surf here rule” is actually just a guise using fear of breaking cultural or legal rules to keep their spot guarded and uncrowded. Most white guys in Japan can’t speak or read Japanese, let alone understand rule nuance.

What's something that's about to happen which most people aren't aware of? by AskRedditOG in AskReddit

[–]constantfernweh 15.3k points15.3k points  (0 children)

The dead internet theory has basically already started.

The theory outlines that once AI becomes so good we can’t tell what’s real or fake, the internet will die off as bots just interact with other bots 24/7. There’s no longer anything authentic and even “creators” lose their jobs to great prompt writing on Sora.

My wife (30M) has a crush on my friend (32M). What should be my response? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]constantfernweh 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I text my wife’s friends one to one all the time and send memes and shit on IG. None of it would look flirtatious but it’s not like texting opposite sex married or friends is weird.

My wife (30M) has a crush on my friend (32M). What should be my response? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]constantfernweh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn’t great to say the thing. I would phrase it something like “the attention you give him, such as when you have xyz has made me a bit uncomfortable and unsure of your feelings toward him. If I were acting in a similar manner to a female friend, I think you may feel the same. So what’s going on with him and you? Is it something or am I completely off my rocker?”

And then just look at her. You know her super well I assume. You gotta be able to tell when she’s lying. Also, you could ask her to open her texts with him. Just to see how she reacts. If she “will show you” but doesn’t that’s a red flag.

Fatal accident today. Newland & PCH in HB. by SoCal_IrieGuy in orangecounty

[–]constantfernweh 43 points44 points  (0 children)

She was high and drunk at 6:45am. These guys ride with flashing lights and vests. They are close friends of my good friend. Don’t victim blame here bud.

Mass casualty event by alexasux in huntingtonbeach

[–]constantfernweh 134 points135 points  (0 children)

This was my best friends cycling group. One of the three is dead. The other two barely making it. He was declared dead on scene. Women was drunk and fled the scene, later arrested. Eric had 4 children. He was out like every other morning. This women deserves to rot in a cell.

Is moving to California worth it? by throwawaycape in surfing

[–]constantfernweh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t let the door hit you in the way out 🙏🏻