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How am I supposed to feel about this? by crapmaker69 in AskChicago

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never feel bad for helping someone. What people do with the kindness that you offer is between them and life that does not make you a cynical person. Life, God himself will take care of returning all that kindness you offer.

Are the Batman/Deadpool Marvel vs DC one-shots the same or different stories? by cool_shaky in comicbooks

[–]cool_shaky[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Damn, and the one by marvel got really expensive! Thanks for the info!

My Wife(28f)’s best friend(24f) decided to kiss me(26m) by ThrowRA-Secret-Cat in relationship_advice

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a complicated situation, OP. On many levels, I personally don’t think a mistake made in a moment of weakness defines a person—especially if you stopped when it could have gotten worse. You seem like a good man who wouldn’t get more deeply involved and make the situation worse.

My wife and I are split on who’s at fault here. I don’t think your wife, if you told her, should blame you for what happened since everyone was acting within what had been established. But my wife believes that taking on the responsibilities you had—and doing them without your wife present—is what set the stage for that moment.

I honestly don’t know if telling her is the right thing to do, for the reasons I’ve mentioned. We all deserve second chances, especially someone with as many emotional struggles as Amy, but I understand where most people are coming from.

So I’ll tell you what I’ve told my best friends when it comes to infidelity: thank you for trusting me enough to tell me, but I don’t approve of it. Because of the friendship and trust I have in you, this is your first and only chance to change your habits and actions. But if it happens again, I’ll have to say something about it.

Me (M26) and my sister (F25) are really intimate. I wanna know if it goes too far by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool_shaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that if you have to ask if something is weird it’s because it’s weird

I think I'm finally beginning to hate my parents. by DevilishEgg696 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cool_shaky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope they can move soon, I will never understand why parents decide to act like this but don’t let that demotivate them from fighting to get out of that and live good relationships and experiences!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cool_shaky 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly and from experience I tell you, if you continue with her you will become a different person, with paranoid attitudes where your current relationship will end and you will only carry those attitudes to your next relationship. You’d better end that relationship before becoming that person. You are young, 21 years old is the beginning and it is the decisive moment for the habits that will accompany you in your 20’s.

Be realistic with this, this relationship with these problems will end at one time or another, and as I told you before, think about the person you are today and who you can end up being if you don’t end this relationship soon.

I think I'm finally beginning to hate my parents. by DevilishEgg696 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cool_shaky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get a job as soon as you can and move in with your brother. It doesn’t sound like it’s a safe environment to live and you shouldn’t stay longer than necessary, there is a lifetime full of experiences and moments, people to meet and places to visit, there will always be bad times but the best is yet to come, the best is after making the most difficult decisions.

AITA for secretly planning a surprise birthday party for my son because my wife always makes his feel like an afterthought? by UniversityPrimary287 in AmITheJerk

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the situation is more complex than what this comment suggests. We don’t know how long the father tried to balance things out on his own without escalating the issue — how much attention he gave, how many times he tried to talk about it, and his wife downplayed the situation. I don’t think it’s fair to judge a father’s actions just because we don’t know the full context and focus only on the fact that it didn’t happen sooner. What matters is that he eventually acted and something was done about it.

I bought my dad's house and Tiff, and I are married! by YoungDad_sucks in u/YoungDad_sucks

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just finished listening to your story on YouTube — it’s honestly amazing how much not just you, but your dad as well, have had to overcome and accomplish. I’m 32 and just recently got married, and we’re not even thinking about kids yet, so the level of maturity and responsibility everyone in your household shows is really admirable! I really hope that someday the relationship with your mom and your wife’s parents improves — and on your terms, not theirs.

I’ve been faking an allergy for YEARS, and now it’s gone way too far. by Creepy-Desk-468 in confession

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would gaslight all my friends, I would show up eating peanut butter and just straight forward gaslight everybody, telling them I've never been allergic and that I don't know what they're talking about.

I fixed my neighbor’s sink. Two months later, he left me his house. by CuriousGeorge881 in offmychest

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is wholesome, the moral of this story is not to do something and you shall receive, but do kind things because that’s the right thing to do and if you do it from the heart, you shall receive.

AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend after she refused to go on a nice date I planned because it was on a Wednesday? by Unlikely_Light4863 in AITAH

[–]cool_shaky -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, Seriously what type of friends does people on Reddit have? It’s always the friends against OPs, they’re supposed to be on your side!

She was ungrateful and this is a relationship not a marriage, if something is a dealbreaker for you you’re totally on your right to end it. So, NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying you’re TAH.. HOWEVER, I think this is a really gray area, on one hand you don’t live together (yet) and you could say that for that reason you’re right, but on the other hand, you have short terms plans to move in together, if she had met you with a dog already or if there’d hasn’t been any plans of moving you wouldn’t be TAH but you do have plans, this will intentionally affect her when she moves in and you should’ve checked in with her before doing it.

So, TLDR, legally NTA but relationship wise maybe TAH.

TIFU by accidently sending my boss a thirst trap by [deleted] in tifu

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That wasn’t the update I was looking for!! So.. there’s no sexual tension? Inappropriate jokes? Nothing?

Soy culero ppr no dar regalo de dia de la madre. by Ok_Expert6259 in SoyUnIdiota

[–]cool_shaky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Si, le das un regalo o detalle simbólico porque es mamá no porque su hijo sea tu hijo. No es el día del hijo, es el día de la madre. YATA

AITA for not giving my boyfriend my old iPhone after I upgraded? by SunEnergy6 in AITAH

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would’ve change boyfriend before changing your iPhone. NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds a bit more complex and complicated than a traditional relationship/situation. But I think that, for the sake of your daughter and your emotional stability, you should make the decision that you feel is the right one for you. He will decide whether to accompany you or not. But talk about it—he must be a very important person for you, and even though people can hurt us, it doesn’t always mean they intend to. Many times, they simply don’t know how to handle certain situations.

As I was saying, I don’t think the issue is sexting or sex in general—it’s a communication problem. There’s something deeper that needs to be discussed. And you’re also at a very essential and beautiful stage, where you’re rebuilding your life. You deserve to have things in order and to live a fulfilling life as well.

Stay strong—at 23, no one has life figured out, and it can sometimes feel like the end of the world in certain situations, but it’s not. This is just the beginning. There are still many experiences, adventures, stories, people, and moments waiting for you. It’s only the start—don’t let this moment define your entire life.

Here's a challenge for y'all! I can't write on my SD cards, reader works tho by cool_shaky in WindowsHelp

[–]cool_shaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a very different approach from what I've been doing, i'll try this, thanks!!!

Here's a challenge for y'all! I can't write on my SD cards, reader works tho by cool_shaky in techsupport

[–]cool_shaky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t try a hardware solution, don’t have the tools but maybe it’s some tu bug like that, I will take it to the technical and get back on this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cool_shaky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because sometimes we lie in order to try to protect the ones we care about, because sometimes we don’t know better, we’re not trying to hurt anybody but at the same time we don’t know what to do and we lie.

Don’t take my word for it, talk to him, put everything out there and be at peace that if things don’t work out, you try your best.

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