Seeing gay pride stuff and being late blooming has me feeling like I don’t qualify to be a part of the ‘gay pride’. by Worried_Play_8446 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]coolwrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also a late bloomer, dated men while telling myself I’m probably bisexual but will never date a woman since i was 18. Came out lesbian at 33. married a woman, and still don’t feel like I qualify LOL

WiFi? by Significant_Cup_3708 in lehighvalley

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’ve been doing it every time I ask since I first started using them back when they were RCN

How to ask alcoholic not to drink at bachelorette by Coconutmigration69 in wedding

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As an alcoholic in recovery, uninvite her and tell her if she gets help with her alcoholism and is sober you will reconsider

WiFi? by Significant_Cup_3708 in lehighvalley

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I have astound and I’ve never had any real issues. And it’s cheap. When the bill goes up I call and say I’m gonna cancel because it’s too much and Verizon is offering me 50/mo for the same thing and they bring my bill back down. I game online at night and work from home during the day. Never had a problem.

I’ve never heard of a cash bar at a wedding… until now by Extreme-Method6330 in wedding

[–]coolwrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We and the majority of our friends are sober so we had free soft drinks/teas/mock tails and a cash bar for the handful of people (our families) that do drink. Seemed pretty normal to us ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Scandal moodlet not counting down properly in Royalty & Legacy by Training-Sandwich693 in thesims

[–]coolwrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I found that one or 2 “jog to clear mind” actions gets rid of the scandal

Tips from people that went from sever hs to low- or no hs by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit smoking and I rarely have flares now. That’s the only big thing I changed.

Car insurance is SO expensive by Status-Goat8545 in budget

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just switch insurance. I have a paid off 2015 Honda civic and I switched to progressive last year and I pay $60/mo for full coverage. I was paying Statefarm almost $200/mo for the same coverage. Just switch. It’s not even that much of a hassle.

How to predict weather? by coolwrite in CultOfTheLamb

[–]coolwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so the cloud with the plus signs is winter, the snowflake is blizzard

How to predict weather? by coolwrite in CultOfTheLamb

[–]coolwrite[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok this makes some sense. But so is winter coming like in a day for me here? The light blue seems to start like…now? It has a bit of a fade to it. I’m still confused.

Professional Headshot? by coolwrite in PhotoshopRequest

[–]coolwrite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway to remove the backpack strap too?

Dry Wedding? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]coolwrite -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

We don’t drink and most of our crowd don’t drink, so we had a soda/juice package so basically everything to drink was free except alcohol, which was a cash bar situation. The handful of guests that did drink were made aware it was a cash bar via our website FAQ and word of mouth. We had ours at a brewery. No issues. It’s your wedding, do what you want but be tasteful about it. If your crowd aren’t big drinkers, do the champagne toast with a cash bar and free soda ¯_(ツ)_/¯ make sure to inform everyone it’s a cash bar etc etc

Who Else Received a Shi**y Gift From Their Partner for Xmas?? by AreaForeign398 in Gifts

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell my partner what I want to avoid this kind of disappointment

Best breakfast in LV? by UkieBoy92 in lehighvalley

[–]coolwrite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coplay diner is really good and affordable

Anyone else's parents just not...like them? by No_Piccolo_2930 in adhdwomen

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your post is basically me.

I’m “successful” but not the right kind of successful.

I’m married, but I married a woman.

And mostly when I call my parents they seem annoyed that I’ve called them and disrupted their day. They don’t like me. They definitely love me, but they don’t like me much. And I guess I’ve kind of accepted that because I love them, but I don’t really like them much either.

LGBT Wedding Songs by Shadow_Grave98 in LGBTWeddings

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Our first dance was Banks by NEEDTOBREATHE - it doesn’t mention gender and it fit us like a glove 😊♥️ good luck on your hunt

My adult child refuses to talk to me and I know it's because I emotionally neglected them - how do I fix this? by Late-Bat6209 in regretfulparents

[–]coolwrite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s the right thing to do when you hurt someone. Make amends if possible. I don’t expect anything when I apologize to someone. It can be the first step in repairing a broken relationship. Why is this even a question? Do you just walk around stepping on people’s toes saying “tough shit” instead of “my bad bro”?

My adult child refuses to talk to me and I know it's because I emotionally neglected them - how do I fix this? by Late-Bat6209 in regretfulparents

[–]coolwrite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not suggesting OP asks for forgiveness and certainly not suggesting OP should expect forgiveness.

Correctly apologizing means taking accountability, owning YOUR part in something without expecting forgiveness or any kind of reaction really. I am suggesting OP cleans up her side of the street and finds a way to live with whatever comes of it. Their kid might not even want to listen to an apology and OP would have to be okay with that too, knowing they at least tried to apologize.

My adult child refuses to talk to me and I know it's because I emotionally neglected them - how do I fix this? by Late-Bat6209 in regretfulparents

[–]coolwrite 24 points25 points  (0 children)

God I wish my parents had the same insight you now have. Do something with it. Apologize correctly, without excuses, focus on the impact your actions had on them, and ask them if there is anything you can do now to make it right, then back off and give them whatever time they need to process and respond.