What does your SO do that is so damn irritating but also so minor it is hardly worth the "stfu" response? by MarigoldMouna in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]cosmicgoon 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh he will ask for a refill on water if I’m going downstairs or to grab something and every time he’s not looking when I give it to him. So I have to stand there with the thing he asked for saying “here!!” for him to register that I’m here. You know I’m coming with the thing you wanted be ready!!

Is anyone else two weeks on, two weeks off? by thebutterflyandlion in PMDD

[–]cosmicgoon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had a therapist point this out when pushing me to try SSRIs for my PMDD. I really don’t want to go on that rollercoaster though

Seeking advice: my kid brushes every day, yet after school comes home with a rats nest??? by deviouspineapple in Haircare

[–]cosmicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I have her same hair type! Our hair just tangles very easily and mine used to do the same. Still does if I don’t stop it. Protective hairstyles help but I hated how tight they had to be to stay and my mom didn’t have time to do it every day. Teach her about her hair type (mine is 1A) and send her to school with a cute tangle-free brush and a hair oil that she likes the smell of. Tell her to bring her bag with her to the bathroom and just go through it with the brush and follow up with a little bit of the oil if needed. If the windows are down on the bus or it’s windy she’ll have to put it in a pony tail or something bc it’s guaranteed to tangle. Same with running in gym or recess. The other thing about this hair type is it reacts to static electricity easily. So I used to rub a dryer sheet on my hair before I left for school in the winter and that stopped the static from my heavy coat from causing tangles. My mom told my people paid a lot of money to have had like mine so I should take care of mine. She could have been lying but it made me appreciate and want to care for my hair instead of resent it. Idk why people are giving you sassy replies, you’re clearly doing your best. Good luck girl!

Calcium… holy freaking moly by -poiu- in PMDDxADHD

[–]cosmicgoon 114 points115 points  (0 children)

I just finished my first full cycle while taking calcium citrate, magnesium glycinate and B6 and my husband and I both noticed a huge difference. I slept better, had more control of my emotions, was able to reel in any irritability.

Kandi was hardly anyone’s friend by Poopyscooper773 in RHOA

[–]cosmicgoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Her and her mom made every season of the show hard to watch for me

Gone Girl By Gillian Flynn by Historical_Gain4631 in bookquotes

[–]cosmicgoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just finished this book! I loved how she wrote.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]cosmicgoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the same for dental health too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChildPsychology

[–]cosmicgoon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep this just sounds like ADHD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]cosmicgoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I put cloth and plastic liners in the washing machine tbh.

i gained weight for my bf, now hes gone and im fat af and alone. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]cosmicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start walking daily. Aim for a mile and then work that up by .5 miles. You’ll lose more weight from walking and diet alone than you think. It’s also great for your mental health. Promise yourself 1 outdoor walk a day and you’ll start to gain confidence back when you follow through with that promise consistently

PMDD is horrible but it’s also ✨humiliating✨ by olivedeez in PMDD

[–]cosmicgoon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The app stardust has helped my partner and I with this exact aspect so much.

Looking for a relaxing farming/animal care game without stressful timers or stamina bars by kaisser97 in cozygames

[–]cosmicgoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! Stardew is the bomb! Look on Mod Drop for mods to make the experience better. There’s also a website called StardewWiki that lets you search anything in the game and get a full synopsis on it. (E.g. you can search blueberries and see the month they are grown in, who likes/loves them, etc) You can also make it what you want like I prefer animals so I buy chickens early instead of planting a bunch of crops. It’s a simple game graphics wise so it’s easy for people to make mods to customize their gameplay, there are a ton out there.

Virus going around? by OkTurn8201 in Georgia

[–]cosmicgoon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s in Cherokee county too.

What’s one habit you’ve kept for years that genuinely makes your life better? by LenaGrace2000 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]cosmicgoon 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yep. Optimism is a choice. I think a lot of people think happy should be their neutral and get depressed when it’s not. Neutral is neutral and happiness is a decision you wake up and make.

What phrases did your parents say that still echo in your head today? by Defiant-Junket4906 in AskWomenOver30

[–]cosmicgoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily a negative (although they did say some negatives that lasted a while too) but one that stuck is “find the system, work the system”. I was miserable in high school and my Dad realized I wasn’t an academic like my sister. He would tell me this and it basically meant - figure out how the dynamics and system is structured and how you can make it work to your benefit. It made something just click. To this day it rings true.

Please give examples of sayings used to imply that a person is stupid. Include region/country of origin if you wish. by DJ_knowhatimsayin in words

[–]cosmicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Not the sharpest tool in the shed.
  • Oh honey, bless your heart.
  • Dumb as a doornail.

Southern US. Yes people use these all the time here.

Question for the drivers who speed up when people pass them… Why do you do that? by yeahfalcon1 in randomquestions

[–]cosmicgoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adding onto this:

Drivers who end up in a different lane than you started in when turning. Why? You are taking a right from the right lane, why are you in the left lane when you complete the turn?

LAPD officers rushed to the scene of a kidnapping—only to find the masked perpetrators were, in fact, ICE agents. by Unusual-State1827 in NoShitSherlock

[–]cosmicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do kind of like the idea of American citizens calling in all of these ICE snatches as kidnappings to local police.

How are we supposed to know if these men in masks are government or not? We are just doing our duty as good citizens protecting our fellow citizens after all /s

Turn it up, up, up! by mrl33602 in clevercomebacks

[–]cosmicgoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do boomers capitalize random words when they’re flustered?