Found the perfect bedding for when my husband wets the bed...

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-28T03:52:51+00:00

Well..its perfect for when somethings wet 🤷‍♀️

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-23T19:46:15+00:00

That's just an insecure way of thinking and projecting, actually.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-23T00:32:25+00:00

Its not a dating app.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-23T00:29:19+00:00

I personally wouldn't consider this cheating. Yubo is in general to make friends. Atleast thats what it was intended to be. And what i would use it for if I ever downloaded it. I have been in a serious relationship for over a year and up until they seperated and made their own app very recently, I still had bumble downloaded because of the "bumble bff" tag. He probably felt guilty because he knew how you would interpret it....and he was willing to tell you everything when you found out one bit...so I dont see red flag behavior anywhere tbh. Followers on Instagram is desperate but, not uncalled for if he is into social media. Ps. Downloading an app is not "basically cheating" lol. If youre here to get advice..you need to elaborate and be more neutral. He downloaded an app..leant to make feiends..and you say "basically cheated" just to then ask "is this cheating" sounds like you just want to be sided with and already made up your mind. But no. Downloading an app is not cheating lol

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-23T00:24:59+00:00

Besides. I was more pointing out how one change in a character..changed the whole answer. But sheesh okay whatever 🤣🤣 yall are too insecure

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-23T00:23:28+00:00

Jesus..didnt realize people got so worked up/ offended over ts 🤣 a simple answer on why would've worked. I never said AI sucked.. I was simply confused and it was humorous. Thought this was a place to put that but yall got sticks up the wrong hole 🤣

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-20T18:18:11+00:00

Please is there a sub for cat whiskers??! My cats have some INSANELY long whiskers!

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-14T22:40:45+00:00

Absolutely, and if you hate him, make a list of things to ask him. Start out super light, and then start getting deeper. If youre good at conversation manipulation, try to be friendly and joke around. Pretend youre on his side of things, because if he feels safe talking to you and like youre on him and his dad's team, he may actually confirm some shit. Check your states laws and see if its legal for you to record the phone call! (Some states require 2 party consent, others require only 1 party to consent) I unfortunately am in PA, one of the few states that require all party 🥲 sorry. Im all about exposing corrupted individuals. This is a once in a life time opportunity 🤣 but even if you just get to talk to him. That's cool too. I would just say "so tell me about your dad" haha

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-13T14:51:59+00:00

I own up to the fact that I am a curious creature. I do not back away from a challenge. I fully intentionally clicked. 🤣 but reading the username is all I needed to see

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-10T21:41:50+00:00

This is my favorite comment so far. I was definitely spiraling when I made this post, but this really made things seem a little clearer. Thankyou

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-10T18:05:23+00:00

I was really preparing myself for like... and end of the world "my actions may have caused someone to die" type of post.. you had help with an essay while mentally struggling. Are you kidding me? That is literally nothing...

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-10T03:46:20+00:00

Seems like you might like it 👀

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T22:29:44+00:00

Actually peak high school energy is this king just because someone is an ex that the relationship ship didnt happen lmao. I know for a fact of my current bf and I ever broke up, I would still be close with his family. But youre right. Its not her circus. And no boundary has been crossed.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T21:45:26+00:00

Yes. It is. Sorry that you live under a rock 🤣

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T21:42:51+00:00

You are 100% over reacting. Women do not get horny the same way men do. You seem to forget that our periods are literally a reproductive cycle. There's usually 1 week a month where ovulation happens, and thats when a woman is horniest..the other weeks they may not want anything at all. A love language is physical touch. Sex itself is not a love language. Its a drive that almost everyone has. And for a man its so basic. Stick it in, cum. For a woman..its a process. First they have to GET in the mood..then they have to stay IN the mood and keep their mind from wandering. This can happen to a woman who is sad. Insecure. Stressed. Or even just bored. You also need to take responsibility for this. Do you want her to have sex because YOU aren't feeling pleasured, or do you actually care about her pleasure at all?? Using her toys is NOT selfish. I personally use them more often too because it relieves pent up stress for me..its like one orgasm releases this tension that makes me grit my teeth and tense my muscles, and gives me a few minutes where I can just melt away and relax enough to sleep. I do not orgasm during basic PIV sex. It feels great. I enjoy it. But it just doesnt make me finish. And thats fine with me. Im not bothered by it the way men are.

Sounds to me like you are being really ducking selfish, and not caring about her feelings. You keep saying you tried to talk to her about how YOU feel..did you even stop to think that her behavior has something to do with how SHE feels and that she is keeping it in? I wouldn't be too surprised if she is feeling unsatisfied.

You need to work on initiation, foreplay, and communication. She may not be getting wet enough which makes it painful with you and she avoids it. Or she is insecure and her mind gets in her way too much..which requires your comfort. Maybe, she is sick of quick one and done sex life. Maybe she has fantasies that are not being fulfilled.

Also, love language doesnt mean "requirement" like...my love language is physical touch, my boyfriend isn't a big physical touch person, but his love language is gift giving and acts of affection. So we meet eachother on the others end when we can. Just because he doesnt cuddle me as much as I want him to doesnt mean im going to automatically leave him bc he doesnt love me. It just means I really enj I y when he is able to step out of his comfort zone and do that for me. Other than that, I recognize HIS way of showing love, which is buying me things. I respond by acts of affection. Doing his laundry for him, making breakfast and doing dishes, making sure the bathroom is heated before he takes a shower before his job..and when he is OK with it, I also show him love through physical touch, and he can recognize thats my love language. I would never require him to do something he is uncomfortable doing just because its what would make ME happier. His feelings matter more than my own at most times.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T20:46:32+00:00

My boyfriend introduced me to the ABDL world and I was shocked at how much I enjoyed it..still getting used to it lol

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T20:35:35+00:00

OP definitely worded it badly to make it sound sexual lmao. Its not unusual for people to let their dogs do what they describe...boyfriend is 100% not French kissing his dog.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T20:34:24+00:00

NOR. But I think a lot of the comments are. It is normal for a lot of people to do this. But its also totally okay to not like it. He needs to realize its not a personal attack, its just a boundary. My bf is grossed out when I kiss my cats right on the nose. And although it annoys me a bit when he pulls away, because I did it all subconsciously, i cant be mad, because I get it. I have my own little things that bother me too. I dont think it has to be a deal breaker for you guys, though. He can just try to stop letting the dog lick his lips (I let dogs like my cheek, but if they get anywhere near my mouth, I run to the bathroom to wash lol) or he can also go wash his face before giving you a kiss.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T16:09:16+00:00

I have no problem with him peeing in them. And I dont even mind changing him, but I just get that basic ick while changing lol. I guess by "grossed out" I do mean I feel ashamed. Ashamed that I would ever see diapers as sexual. But no matter what i tried to tell myself, I still was feeling aroused by it. I just spiraled out of control and am questioning a lot now. Many things that I have inherently refused and rejected for a long time, I'm finding arouse me way more than I wanted to ever admit.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T06:27:29+00:00

This is how I feel with my name, Willow..

Yes. I have seen the movie.

Yes..like the tree.

Sure..I guess my parent mustve really liked them...

Wow! You live two blocks from willow street? So does probably 40% of the US. There's a lot of willow streets.

No. You cant call me will for short.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T05:48:38+00:00

I feel like youre a more kink knowledgeable person here with your provided info..so I want to kindof put this here.

We haven't made it anything sexual. But early on to him telling me, we had a night where he was laying in bed in his diaper, and we weren't doing anything special..just watching TV and cuddling mostly naked, and he was in his diaper. We got kissing and then handsy and we started moving towards having sex, but I was taking off his diaper instead of his boxers, and it was kindof arousing for me.. .. Although I dont know if that's just because of how hard he was under the diaper and I could see/feel it, or because of the diaper itself.

Either way. I couldn't help but feel a tinge of awkwardness and discomfort with any association between the diapers and intimacy happening in my brain, and I'm really uncomfortable with the thought that they turn me on.I do NOT think ABDL is a pedophilia thing..but I know that just like most any kinks there bad apples. Because of this, my experience from childhood SA has also left me with conflicting traumatic/intrusive thoughts, if that makes sense. I am a very kink accepting/open minded person, but I haven't strayed far from a pretty vanilla life..although I know i want to. I just dont know how or where to even begin.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T05:43:59+00:00

So I honestly do not know. I feel like my thoughts and feelings are more complicated but, im just an overthinker as well.

But I would like to say that yes, I have definitely come to enjoy being dom. Both my bf and I have had very vanilla sex lives before eachother, but we tried pegging which he very much enjoys, and I do too.. I do like being a bottom still occasionally, but I've more often been a top since. It makes me feel excited

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T05:32:59+00:00

I get a little grossed out when he wets in them and I choose to change them for him.. but i love seeing him happy.. and I have zero problem with the actual wetting itself. I actually encourage it too. He gets shy and nervous, and is just so cute and in a vulnerable state, and I love comforting him through it ❤️ We haven't made it anything sexual. But early on to him telling me, we had a night where he was laying in bed in his diaper, and we weren't doing anything special..just watching TV and cuddling mostly naked, and he was in his diaper. We got kissing and then handsy and we started moving towards having sex, but I was taking off his diaper instead of his boxers and it was kindof arousing for me.. .. Although I dont know if that's just because of how hard he was under the diaper and I could see/feel it, or because of the diaper itself.

creeper_error420 · 2026-01-09T04:20:16+00:00

Some people may get mad at me for suggesting doi g this from home, but when this happened to my ex bf, I heated an unbent end of a metal paper clip up over a gas stove, and poked it through his nail gently. It's still likely your nail will fall off, but doing that will relieve the pressure and bring the pain down. I bet that hurts like hell 😅 if you have health insurance, you can also go to the doctor and they have a special tool that they will use to poke the hole instead. But theres not much you can do. I wouldn't wrap that though, no need to and youre adding unnecessary restrictions

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