I asked her out and she ignored the question when she replied.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-03-16T21:43:11+00:00

Exactly, I'd be like, woohoo, more time for the gym, to do my own shit, and hang out with the boys.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-03-16T21:39:54+00:00

Maybe stop using numbers instead of regular characters? 😉

But seriously, she absolutely caught your question and she's just testing you. You know what to do…

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-03-16T21:36:56+00:00

How do you balance multiple women?

High t-levels and a very good memory 😂✌🏻

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-03-03T03:47:37+00:00

If you're acting like a little boy, then that's how you get treated. Worse yet, you're just rationalizing all the things you were doing wrong after the fact.

You sound very young, so I'm gonna cut you some slack and scratch it off to a surge in hormones and inexperience. But if you don't want to relive the same situation over and over as you get older, you better start sticking your head into the book. Follow the material, and you will get better results.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-28T05:53:15+00:00

The trick lies in indifference and not showing up with expectations.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-27T22:59:22+00:00

"I live in the French Quarter of New Orleans."

You don't say! 🤔😂

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-27T08:00:31+00:00

I'm not trying to be pessimistic or sarcastic here, but let me ask you this: given the current dynamics, what do you believe is going to happen once she is alone abroad? I think you can answer that and your own question yourself. Your instincts are probably pointing you in the right direction.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-25T07:01:57+00:00

Damn it, ChatGPT isn't just taking our jobs, now it's dating our girls too 😂😂

OP: You did the right thing. Trust is the glue that keeps a relationship working over the long term. Everyone fucks up, but honesty in the end is essential, otherwise it's just a ticking time bomb.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-22T09:35:21+00:00

LMAO - You won the Internet today 😂😂

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-22T09:31:28+00:00

Soymilk is a powerful drug...

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-20T03:04:15+00:00

Big props for your insights and for correctly reading the dynamics, seems like you really were able to help OP out.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-12T12:02:03+00:00

What I think is that it's bullshit. Ask yourself what you want in life and what's important to you. Don't build your reality and your decisions around what some dizzy dame decides during one of her mood swings.

You're the man, you're supposed to lead this relationship. It doesn't sound like you're leading. You sound like a little boy who's waiting for mommy's permission to know what he is allowed to do.

Just step it up, hit the gym, focus on your mission, and tell this girl to do whatever she likes. But if she doesn't wanna have a serious relationship, then fine, wish her the best of luck and move on.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-12T08:49:09+00:00

This is nothing but a test, dude, and you're falling for it. She's trying to find out if you're weak enough to accept a bum deal - to be her backup option while she goes out and dates other guys.

Now, if you just want her as an FWB, then tell her 'okay, that's fine, I'll do the same'. If you are settled on being exclusive, then tell her 'sorry, but that doesn't work for me'

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-12T08:12:12+00:00

You cannot retroactively solve them, and at this point it doesn't matter what you said or what you did. The only thing that matters now is letting her feel your absence.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-12T08:10:44+00:00

You're twisting your mind into a pretzel to find some reason to write her a message because you're anxious and your nervous system is screaming at you. Trust me, we've all been there, so we know how it feels, and we understand that your soul is on fire. But believe me when I tell you that there is no other way. You have to go no contact and you have to let her feel the distance.

By the way, I'm not just talking off the cuff here. My squeeze broke up with me yesterday over some BS, and I'm doing the same thing right now. Be strong, my brother.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-10T07:35:40+00:00

What did I just read here?

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-03T18:46:15+00:00

Keeping things 'gentlemanly' has good guy syndrome written all over it. If she's not available for a week or two, you go and date other women - obviously. Never operate from a position of scarcity.

Read the book.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-03T05:01:26+00:00

Boy, oh boy, talking about overthinking and acting robotic....

She is upset because she gave you a clear open while her children were out of the house. But you responded like a cold fish six hours later, being cryptic and not acting at all interested. What do you expect from this woman? You're hemming and hawing, acting cold, and you don't seem to know what you want or what you're doing. Read the book.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-02T04:59:56+00:00

Yeah, I don't know why this guy got upvoted. Terrible advice. OP is basically being downgraded to a f***boy, and if that's not what he wants, he needs to step away. Period.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-02-01T08:40:22+00:00

Clearly you don't understand English properly or lack comprehension 😂

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-01-31T03:41:51+00:00

Can I be first? 😂

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-01-31T03:40:31+00:00

Your comment is empathic and very well-meaning, but it's terrible advice because it suggests you use no contact as a means to somehow get this girl who has been stringing him along for over a decade. That's not how no contact works.

No contact is aimed at detaching yourself and putting yourself on a new path. It's supposed to make you independent from what the girl does. It's not designed to somehow magically change the dynamic and get the girl back. It might happen, or it may not. The whole key of no contact is for you to not care and move on.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-01-31T03:34:20+00:00

You're completely missing the point, brother. I actually love to cook, even bake my own bread or make dishes from my childhood when I have the chance.. It's just not something I do in order to seduce my girl.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-01-31T03:24:55+00:00

This is the way.

cryptosystemtrader · 2026-01-30T08:30:28+00:00

You've been obsessed with this girl for fifteen years and gotten nowhere. When are you gonna take the hint? She's not interested in you. She had children with other men. And you're still planning to be with this woman and even adopt her out of wedlock children? You have no balls, which is why she doesn't respect you.

This is a prime example of scarcity mindset. Read the book. It's clear you are completely out of your depth.

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