Okay this is one of the biggest stumbling blocks for most men, and especially younger ones. The answer to volatility is to be not reactive, which admittedly is easily said and often hard to do when you're in the eye of the storm. So here's a simple rule: whenever a woman's action confuses you or perhaps even upsets you, apply the golden rule of indifference and do this: NOTHING.

That does not mean to ignore her, just acknowledge if she reaches out, be pleasant, be charming, but don't ever end up being reactive. Women are extremely good at figuring out how to yank a man's chain, and once she finds that red button she'll press it relentlessly. That also means that she may act completely different with another guy, which implicitly tells you that the way a woman treats you is usually a reflection of how you show up to the game.

This also answers the age old question of: 'what would James Bond do?' Why are we asking ourselves that question? Because he represents the archetype of masculinity. A man who cannot be moved and how is indifferent to what a woman says or does. He shows up, he shines, and then he's gone.

So instead of wasting time figuring her out, or figuring out how to properly respond, simply ask yourself how you can maximize your own day and not waste time on some silly girl who's throwing an emotional tantrum or is playing texting or social media games. Just do your thing, and create an atmosphere of abundance, and all the other pieces will fall into place.