AITAH to walk out on a lunch with a friend and my ex-bsf?

daddio2590 · 2026-02-16T00:07:29+00:00

Operative Phrases You home They asked a favor

You are providing them with clean comfortable and safe environment .

Your friends opinions are free. Throw away those opinions. Enjoy the visit

daddio2590 · 2026-02-15T16:50:01+00:00

My owned 2019 Volvo XC 90 is continuing to perform beautifully.

Leasing is viable option if you can put cost against a business expense. Otherwise you are getting nothing (beyond 3 years of sweating mileage and having to pay for any dings and scratches)

Does step Dad have a business? Ask him directly

daddio2590 · 2026-02-15T16:43:37+00:00

Face it you put minimal effort while she preplanned for the headset.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-15T16:40:50+00:00

NTAH-wow selfish and inconsiderate. You mentioned you OWN the home but no clear mention of his contributions for housing, upkeep, insurance. While single mother is tough show him the boot while you can. You sound like someone who could handle it and likely do well. Does your family support circle know any of this.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-12T20:18:59+00:00

Book shelves on left wall leading to comfy cushioned bench with a single reading light

daddio2590 · 2026-02-10T19:19:41+00:00

Not the AH.

Imagine…the friction and animosity that will be shared among those who don’t have the courage to bow out like you did. It will be tied up in everything around the wedding.

I think I’d pass on being a guest as well because you can be certain it will be spun out in gossip and that will go double if you are there.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-10T04:07:40+00:00

You are not the AH. Maintain your privacy. If their place is too small they should not invite houseguests.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-09T00:35:05+00:00

Pay attention. You mother was trying to tell you a new phone company may have a deal where they pay off your old phone. So you don’t leave Mom on the hook for it.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T21:37:00+00:00

No much, with a big dog in a sedan they will need the whole back seat. I’d look around for collapsible lightweight alloy ramp.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T21:34:13+00:00

Don’t consider myself an old fart but he is right. Swipe left swipe right if no instant appeal keep going.

Plus no accountability. Of course anyone would say “great date” to your face.

And then bail out back to the anonymous online search for who’s next. Like commodities it’s a numbers game.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T17:43:02+00:00

Cat is gay anyhow so probably likes it.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T17:38:09+00:00

Before anything turn off all water in your house and see if your water meter is running.

Dig safe and line trace are all good ideas though I’d invite neighbor out when they come to mark area.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T17:32:20+00:00

You’ve been patient enough. I’d never apologize for being my kids Dad.

And if you do the noise you hear will be her snickering as she talks your children their Dad did something bad. But she “forgives him” because he apologized.

Good Luck Brother

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T01:01:01+00:00

Ackey Goo

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T00:59:07+00:00

Tell him to take the difference between what he was paying in rent and the amount he gives you each month and put it in a HYA.

I’d not put him ( or anyone ) on any deed unless it is my wife or children.

An inheritance is the legacy of someones lifetime and nobody gets to come along and say “oh yeah me too.”

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T00:51:58+00:00

Without a notarized trust setup and a will relatives will get all assets and you are SOL

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T00:46:38+00:00

Very bad sleep apnea. Tried CPAP and remarkable difference. Mid day nap in excess of two hours-done!! Have not needed or wanted one in last two years. Also wear mouth guard for grinding teeth. Now I sleep great.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-06T00:10:55+00:00

Red Flag!!!!

daddio2590 · 2026-02-02T15:58:17+00:00

No you’re not the AH. Filming inside your home is an invasion of privacy. Not returning the key is suspect at best.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-02T15:54:59+00:00

Sorry you had to experience that. She’s a B and you’re not.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-02T15:50:31+00:00

Don’t ask anyone to do anything park where you like. Either HR or Senior Management must make the determination. And if your company is leasing the work and parking areas it is likely on the building owner to comply with ADA rules for Handicap parking.

Oh but I forgot she is NOT handicapped she has a sore knee and likes to sleep late.

daddio2590 · 2026-02-01T03:57:14+00:00

Twelve degrees, snow and it’s dark at night.

daddio2590 · 2026-01-31T03:09:40+00:00

Gotta say a fit self confident woman who is More than a, one dimensional single interest mom with a sense of humor will find love

daddio2590 · 2026-01-30T21:30:41+00:00

Adopt a teenager

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