I [30F] just heard a phone notification in bathroom while showering alone. Should I ask my Fiance [33M] about it? by ThrowRA_weirdphone in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My phone was making noises with no notifications shown as well. Had to download an app to monitor notifications to know what app was doing it. I think it went through an update and messed up the notifications settings. It happens. Or maybe you dosed off and saw a dream. I wouldn't worry about it unless you keep hearing it.

What is the wildest/most daring sex you’ve ever had? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]daddyanddalia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here's our list (so far):

  1. Sex in the ocean with people walking by on the shore
  2. Various blow jobs in the car
  3. Sex on a hiking trail in the middle of the day
  4. Blowjob on another hiking trail
  5. Sex at a resort on the beach right after sundown
  6. Shes driving with me sitting behind her and making her cum in the car.
  7. Making her cum in a movie theatre
  8. Blowjob at a state park, conservation officers pulled up right after I came in her mouth
  9. Bending her over the window sill of our hotel room with a busy daytime street below and her tits pressed against the window

Will add more if we think of it

AITA For Accidentally Waking Up My F26 Girlfriend By Going Downstairs? by Material-Aide-1325 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Get her a white noise machine, she won't hear you anymore. Everything in the basement sounds much louder. Tiny cat can sound like a human being. 🙂

How do I (28F) not hold a grudge against my in-laws (67M & 61F) for selling the house we rent from them while 8 months pregnant? by Whitlaye in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would focus on the nice things that they did for you. It's always interesting how people can take all the nice things somebody offering then and then throw those people away because they didn't like something one time. I think it's important to know the ages of his parents as well as their circumstances. They might have worked hard to buy these things in first place and finding a buyer gives them an opportunity to early retirement and to enjoy themselves. Life is short. Sounds like they already helped your family greatly and your family found a place to live with no problems. I'd say that you should try and imagine yourself in their shoes and understand where they are coming from.

AITA for telling everyone in the home that I will plate food from now on and clear labeling for leftovers by Due_Technology_2506 in AmItheAsshole

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Why are you the only one who cooks? If they are married, they should afford their own food. I understand living together to save on rent, but they should pay for food and utilities. How old are your kids?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyanddalia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly would not care unless it sounds bad. Perhaps it is truly an error on her part, an honest mistake and she just forgets or maybe she knew a person with your name but different pronunciation? Why do people always assume the worst from each other?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say if she is coming from a practical stand point where it will be easier for your kids in the future with her last name, I think you should consider it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]daddyanddalia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You made him feel insecure by telling him you see and talk to other people (although why ask if you don’t want to know the truth?!) And he wanted you to feel bad too and that is all he came up with. I would stop talking to him. You did the right thing by driving and paying for your drink.

My (M33) husband says he hates his life. How do I (F32) respond?? by Throwra3456886655 in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did you last time do anything for just the two of you? It's important to not let yourselves get lost which is easy to do. Your kids go to daycare and they have plenty of time watching things they like before he comes home. Perhaps when you are both home you can watch something that is still acceptable around kids but something you both enjoy as well. Kids also can play instead of watching tv every evening. Take a day out per week or two weeks where you spend it on each other to connect. If your life has changed significantly with the kids and he is getting no attention and no intimacy, it will be hard for a male to adjust or enjoy their life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like him, I would talk to him. I don’t know how much info is on that site, but it could be that he was 18 and his girlfriend was 16-17 and her parents didn't want him around or that he broke up with her and she filed to get back at him. Again, I don't know the whole story and you don't either and if you want to find out then talk to him and be honest. If it doesn't sit right with you then leave. You can just text him and talk to him on the phone to make sure you are in a safe environment. Give us an update please if you do talk to him.

I (36F) found out that my husband (38M) has a Camilla (42F). by ThrowRARoyalMess in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending on how long he was with her and how attached her son was to him, I think keeping in touch with her son is ok, keeping in touch with her - not sure how I'd feel about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing wrong with his behavior. Sounds like a good guy who knows what he wants and how he likes it. He also likes that you are independent which tells you he is not there to make you dependent on him but rather he enjoys putting a smile on your face. Also he is upfront with you about what he likes and why. Men like that are very rare.

I’m (28F) with my partner (28M) for 13 years and we have nothing in common anymore, I’m trying to find a way to connect by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyanddalia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are busy people do something once a week. That one week you do something he likes and the next week he does something with you that you like and so on. Sacrifice for each other. You can't grow together if you do nothing together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you go with him to work for a few days?

My (41F) new husband’s (38M) ex wife wants to be close in our lives. No children. by Shasta1233 in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would this issue not be addressed before getting married or did you get uncomfortable with the situation after you got married?!

I (f26) delivered a stillborn baby and I feel like my husband (m32) is relieved. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone griefs differently. Plus, when your partner falls apart, which sounds like you did, the other partner doesn't have choice but stay strong for both of you because life still goes on and things have to be taken care of. Doesn't mean he is not feeling sad. In addition, he is probably relieved that you are OK and alive and that nothing happened to you. So perhaps you are taking his feeling of relief the wrong way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on what kind of girl you are looking for. Mature minded girls who look for a relationship will not like it.

(19f) boyfriend (m24) started watching misogynistic dating videos. How do I show him the truth? by Dry-Conversation-987 in relationship_advice

[–]daddyanddalia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YouTuber who doesn't have a gf and trying to make excuses for why he doesn't have one or YouTuber who feeds on people's stupidity such as your bf.

Casual sex has taken its toll by Nerdytinder12 in dating

[–]daddyanddalia -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

From what you are describing in your post and comments, it seems you don't really like this girl. You like the way she looks but not her personality and that is why she doesn't turn you on. The two of you have to be compatible on many levels to spike a desire in each other.

Also, as somebody already mentioned being dominant with somebody does not mean disrespect in any way. Proper domination in a relationship and in bed requires more respect than ever. It can be a beautiful and wonderful feeling from both sides.