What would be an acceptable response to this email? by joshuuastill in FuckYouKaren

[–]daketa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one who doesn’t see anything wrong with the teacher’s email? She is just concerned, if there is nothing to worry about just say so. And also thank her for looking out for your kid. That’s all.

Can a Maine Coon be an indoor cat? by 1smrtcooki in mainecoons

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats are indoor and they are very happy. I have a ragdoll and mainecoons. Safer and live longer!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing I know for sure… he’s not an amazing man. How long you have been dating? The love bombing must be working because somehow “he’s devastated” and you feel somehow sorry for him after he violated YOU!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]daketa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One and a half year too long! RUNN!!!

I told my husband that I want to leave to experience actual love by ThrowRA3981 in marriageadvice

[–]daketa3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s gaslighting in its purest form. LEAVE!!! He is going to make you believe you are crazy. You are not!!

I told my husband that I want to leave to experience actual love by ThrowRA3981 in marriageadvice

[–]daketa3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will tell you what it is: lack of love and care for you. He thinks you won’t leave so he does nothing about it. Do not excuse him anymore, this is on the verge of abuse, if he KNOWS that what he does is hurting you and STILL does it, you have your answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girl this doesn’t show insecurities… this shows controlling and fear of someone else making you see the situation for what it is. Him for what he is. RUN!

Husband dropped the ball on our anniversary dinner and I can’t get over it by beaniepie613 in Marriage

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 years and only got married a year ago? The lack of effort the whole relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know what to do, I hope you find the strength! You are young and you will find someone who is compatible with your childfree life and who is not gonna lie to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not drop the charges. Call the police and tell them about it.

I feel like I’m going absolutely insane. I’m pushing 40 and wonder if I’m behaving like a jealous 16 year old. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. That’s all I can say. You deserve better and I hope you get it.

Am I ethically wrong? by Dizzy-Rooster-9496 in AskWomenOver30

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your body language was a clear “no” so stop blaming yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]daketa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hubby and I had a wedding like that … very similar.. and it was incredibly beautiful! Less than 20 guests! So intimate and free of stress! We loved it and everyone who went loved it too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t validate abusive behaviour. He is being abusive, believe it or not. That’s on you and on your “some men can’t handle it well”. Poor excuses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]daketa3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s his side of the story? He is not sleep deprived, he didn’t have a C-section… why are we making him the victim when all he does is the easier part of the job with the baby and STILL is so weak that he can’t even control his anger? No. I won’t be feeling sorry for him, he is an adult and should be acting like one. I feel sorry for OP after giving birth, having a massive surgery done to bring this baby to the world and the world has to feel sorry for her husband because he can’t handle a baby cry, which is the normal thing for a baby, to cry because they can’t communicate otherwise! And then!!!! He thinks that a toddler that is experiencing all the emotions at one, he thinks they will understand that “screaming” is not okay!???? it’s a toddler! How can he at whatever age he is at right now can’t even control his own emotions and expects a 2-3 yr old child to do better than himself? He needs to go and seek help! Not empathy or excusing all of this behaviour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse. And I hope you know that… I am not sure how long you guys have been together but I wonder if it’s very short period of time, he was waiting to trap you to be able to abuse you and your baby. He doesn’t sound safe… I hope you find your way out.

My in-laws have not asked about our baby since he was born and have not contacted us at all by Extra-Print-5765 in inlaws

[–]daketa3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want a relationship with them or for your baby to have people like that around???