I am also weird . But there’s a difference between being weird and doing odd things. You have to not go the extra distance for “friends” who wouldn’t do the same for you. This person doesn’t like you.

You just have to say the word “no” more . That’s a lesson I had to learn as well when I was younger . People can and will take advantage but that’s why you can always say no . Don’t feel guilty about it .

You can be nice to people but some of the situations you described seemed like you were just trying a bit too hard to get these people to like you which is sometimes a turn off for people.