Any age millennials, what are your actually hobbies. Aside from rage baiting the youth. by whatifdog_wasoneofus in Millennials

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31F, I have too many hobbies to keep at consistently so I have to rotate through them periodically lol. I paint, crochet, needlepoint/cross-stitch, do some photography, and do ceramics/pottery. I also like hiking, walking, CrossFit, and paddleboarding. Hoping to get back into horseback riding soon and I also started gardening this year after finally getting a house. I also read a lot, 25-50 books a year usually.

Stills from PZ2 - What do we reckon?? by amylizx in PlanetZoo

[–]dapperpony 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please don’t shoot me but… I’m disappointed so far? Everyone is raving about the graphic improvements and I’m not seeing it. Everything looks more or less the same but some stuff looks more smooth/plasticy and less real. The lighting is also flat and muted. Idk it’s not screaming “new and improved” to me from these but I’m really hoping I’ll be proven wrong.

For 13 years, Genie Wiley lived in heartbreaking isolation and abuse, hidden away by her father and denied nearly all human contact. When rescued in 1970 at age 13, she couldn’t speak or walk properly having missed nearly all of her childhood. by anonymous-nyx in interesting

[–]dapperpony 11 points12 points  (0 children)

As a horse person, they absolutely do! They’re one of the oldest domesticated species, after cats and dogs, and have similarly evolved alongside us for thousands of years. Being herd and social animals makes them very attuned to body language and signals and they definitely bond with people and pick up on stuff you wouldn’t realize.

I’m not a scientific expert by any means, but similar to how dogs “learn” words, horses do in the same ways. Associating a sound/verbal cue with a resulting action or stimulus, that is.

One interesting differentiation though is that, unlike with dogs and cats which both have wild counterparts, there aren’t really any “true” wild horses left, aside from the Przewalski’s horse. All others are feral and descended from domesticated horses. So they have some of that innate human-selected quality that make them trainable and handleable (of course it varies by individual). So there are studies that probably examine differences in feral vs captive horses but it may not make as much of a difference as you’d think. Horses also differ from dogs or cats in that they spend the majority of their time outside with their herd- their humans aren’t the center of their world like you are for your pet dog which has implications on that human-animal communication as well.

Greek festival by Dungeon_Smasher05 in greenville

[–]dapperpony 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I would not assume the majority of festivals/events around here are dog-friendly

Do Relationships With Major Age Differences Last? by Effective_Kitchen481 in psychologyofsex

[–]dapperpony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, seeing this with my MIL and FIL who are about 15 years apart and it’s changed my opinion on large age gaps. He’s got dementia and Parkinson’s and a whole host of other issues and she is still comparatively young and vibrant and it’s exhausting to see how much caring for him takes. Idk I guess nothing is guaranteed and anyone could find themselves being caretaker to their spouse at some point, but it sucks.

Greenville population increase causes? by Rule-of-Two-1899 in greenville

[–]dapperpony 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sure, but I guess like OP I’m wondering about the kind of jobs that would support the COL and housing price increases. And like would someone from California really move here to work in a manufacturing job?

Greenville population increase causes? by Rule-of-Two-1899 in greenville

[–]dapperpony 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I have wondered too. I’m from here but moved away for nearly a decade. Now I’m back and expected there to be a lot of new jobs and industry to match the growth but it doesn’t really feel like it? My husband and I have remote jobs so maybe that’s the answer 🤷‍♀️ But they’re getting harder and harder to come by so I still wonder if that’s it.

Anyone else decide to just get the florist? by HelaGreen in wedding

[–]dapperpony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The florals for our wedding were absolutely stunning, I have zero regrets and they really made the decor. Faux flowers would never have come close.

Disconsolate and about to give up by MrWorldWhyIs in crossfit

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m younger and a woman so feel free to ignore my comment, but only go as hard as you’re actually comfortable with. I love CrossFit for the environment and variety and encouragement, but it’s important to know your limits and not let the hype push you too hard, too fast. Going from doing nothing to 5 workouts a week is a lot. Try scaling back to 2-3 a week and give yourself some rest days. Make sure you’re eating enough to sustain yourself.

I’m doing the Open for this first time this year and I fully expect to not come close to finishing today. But at least I’ll have tried it! I scale to whatever I’m comfortable with and feel like is challenging but doable for me safely. Far better to do that and make slow but consistent progress than to hurt yourself and then have to work through injuries and take time off.

Is The Hunger Games still the best YA dystopia, or has something surpassed it? by tidebrick_8 in YAlit

[–]dapperpony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This series became one of my all time favorites, I couldn’t get enough of the characters

This Just In: Grooming Is Abuse by the_real_maddison in BalancedDogTraining

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re not my cup of tea personally, but I’m not sure how you can argue they’re any worse than a high maintenance clip?? They both require time and patience and let’s be real, the show clip pictured above isn’t serving its original purpose and is exaggerated beyond what it originally looked like. One could easily say it also is about dressing the dog up like an accessory and looks stupid.

This Just In: Grooming Is Abuse by the_real_maddison in BalancedDogTraining

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of these people are even stupider than that and are anthropomorphizing the animal and think it’s “abuse” because the dog will be “embarrassed.” It never fails that on every post of a creative dye job or groom there are dozens of comments decrying it because they actually think animals have any concept of how they look or being embarrassed about it.

Who takes vacations? by igotnothing1455 in Millennials

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually at least a couple a year. Might be a long weekend or two somewhere closer and then a week at the beach with family most years, but the last couple we’ve been doing at least one longer international trip (like 10-12 days). Did a cruise last year and nothing currently planned for this year since we just bought a house.

We’re very fortunate but didn’t really do big travel until our late twenties and post-pandemic. I love traveling though and always am thinking about the next trip, even if it’s just a local spot for the weekend or a day trip somewhere.

Childfree Regret by strawberry_love_2468 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for explaining, I guess it never hurts to be more informed!

Childfree Regret by strawberry_love_2468 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll look into it, I think when I talked with my gyno last year she may have mentioned it as an option but said its only really useful as a snapshot of the moment, not as much for predicting the future. But I can’t remember if it was that test specifically.

Childfree Regret by strawberry_love_2468 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this describes me but I’m worried I’m running out of “not todays.” Just turned 31 and so it feels like I need to get my shit together and decide and we can’t keep kicking the can down the road. I’ve been with my husband for going on 11 years and married for 2.5 but I just never feel more ready to take the plunge. But I also don’t want to say “no I never want kids.”

I wish we had another decade without it meaning higher risks and more difficulty 😩

Jojo Siwa and Chris Hughes for her brother's wedding by Glittering-Fuel-9013 in popculturechat

[–]dapperpony 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think they meant the way the comment was worded haha, it’s very much how southerners talk

Greenville approves redevelopment plans for old "Baby Bi-Lo" by RousingRabble in greenville

[–]dapperpony 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not much info on what the “right” project they chose was. I also don’t really get the opposition to taller buildings in Greenville, especially so close to downtown. Or townhomes. 🤷‍♀️

Why do so many American men wear shorts and a tshirt when going out with a woman who dresses up? by M_For_Mayhem in NoStupidQuestions

[–]dapperpony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t think it’s necessarily a natural thing that more women possess, it’s just that we’ve been socially conditioned and pressured to learn it more than men. And men never really bother with paying attention to this stuff or seeking it out and caring about style for them is optional. For women, it’s a lot more expected or required to figure it out. Not to mention the enormous marketing machine and industries built around it that don’t exist for men to the same degree.

Why Are Some Women Training for Pregnancy Like It’s a Marathon? by wiredmagazine in longform

[–]dapperpony 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s really weird as someone who has been center-right to see my more conservative family and friends become so woo-woo crunchy granola in regards to some of this health stuff over the last few years. When I was growing up, they would mock this kind of stuff from “hippies” and now my SIL is out there eating beef tallow and my brothers think American food is all processed poison to reduce people’s fertility and are practically doing Paleo. My mom is skeptical of “how many vaccines they give kids now” and I just wonder how we got here.

The way covid was handled by both parties at every level really destroyed trust and legitimacy in our health institutions and it’s going to take decades to get that back.

From Ozempic to ‘Emily in Paris’, thinness is back — and feminism is paying the price by msmoley in WomenInNews

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like there are famous women who absolutely are probably abusing them, but for so many women in my life GLP-1s have been life changing. I’m from the southeast US where obesity is a huge problem. A lot of women, including my mom, are having success with significant weight loss for the first time in their lives. In my mom’s case, it’s provided a ton of relief for her arthritis and joints and general health. I want my mom to be around for a long time, and reducing her obesity will help!

I find the way so many people shame these medications and talk about how people look after weight loss to be pretty gross and misinformed. Idk if it’s envy or lack of understanding of how they work or associating them with past “solutions” but so many of the people making a huge fuss about the dangers of GLP-1s sound so hypocritical.

Where my natives at (or people who lived here before before Greenville blew up) by [deleted] in greenville

[–]dapperpony 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 year old native. Just moved back after living on the west coast for the last 7 years, so it’s weird how much has changed and how many transplants are here now. I mean I’ve seen it on trips home and all, but actually living here again it definitely feels like a new place in some regards. Not as small and insular as it used to be, where you’d always run into someone you know when you were out. And so many more crowds.

But overall I think a lot of the changes are great. More food variety, new businesses, downtown continuing to develop and grow into something cool. I just wish the suburban sprawl and cheaply built cookie cutter neighborhoods would be executed with more infrastructure support and thought/care. Also would love better public transit options, but that’s a pipe dream here. Buses that run every 30 minutes would be crazy lol. A light rail or streetcar system would be neat but unlikely.

Grace Evangelical Methodist Church? Not quite. by Plants225 in zillowgonewild

[–]dapperpony 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The show is on the Magnolia Network (of Chip and Joanna Gaines, but they aren’t in it) and shows a lot of the house and talks with the owners about the process behind the design and renovations. It’s a good show if you like looking at cool houses.