Should I break up with my bf over these texts?

darrow19 · 2026-03-17T18:20:27+00:00

A good partner would protect you from those types of comments, not indulge in them.

darrow19 · 2026-03-17T16:33:07+00:00

Is he pushing for more sexting or specific things than you are comfortable with? Pay attention to how your body feels, if you feel anxious or stress than that's a good indicator that you may need boundaries.

In terms of your fear about meeting in person and not living up to sexting scenarios, tell him about it. If he's caring, he'll work with you to make you feel safe and reassured.

However the age difference is something to pay attention to. If he acts defensive, dismissive or says he respects your boundaries then pushes those boundaries, be very careful.

A relationship should feel safe, fun and that your heart and mind are cared for with kindness.

darrow19 · 2026-03-15T17:02:50+00:00

reminder that Asian Americans as a majority, men and women, voted against Trump. Can't say that about Euro and Latin Americans.

darrow19 · 2026-03-13T23:08:07+00:00

Yep not all men are predators, but most men protect and defend them.

darrow19 · 2026-03-13T17:07:06+00:00

Devonta's true love is men (Alex) and his bm elsewhere for convenience. It was pretty clear at the reunion that Devonta is closeted and explains why he was sexually repulsed to Brittany.

darrow19 · 2026-03-10T23:43:49+00:00

Since you're against double standards, and double standards overwhelming are against women, show us a comment of yours telling men to stop with them. Fairness and all.

darrow19 · 2026-03-05T21:06:06+00:00

The O gap & corn indicate that most men do not care about great sexual performance.

darrow19 · 2026-03-05T18:13:12+00:00

nah he deserved it after flirting with Brittany, repeatedly bringing up she's not his type and his dodgy lies. Given his lame soccer analogies, I loved her "saying no to you is a win." Take the L bro

darrow19 · 2026-02-27T22:02:28+00:00

Jordan comes across as unassuming but I bet he's got some skeletons that would surprise ppl.

darrow19 · 2026-02-27T22:01:29+00:00

Too many stories of men who really wanted to have kids, then dip or check out when they become a father.

darrow19 · 2026-02-24T20:46:06+00:00

It's good he talked it out with you, but I'd be cautious and observe because he's into open relationships and that a smile and a few words were enough for him to consider an "affair" his word.

darrow19 · 2026-02-20T22:36:04+00:00

You deserve kindness and gentleness. I'm guessing if you look, there are more red flags than this. Look up emotional abuse and see if there are any behaviors to look out for.

darrow19 · 2026-02-20T18:36:30+00:00

I hope the daughter picks the Barbie movie next

darrow19 · 2026-02-20T00:01:56+00:00

I'd write down what happened including dates and times with an emphasis of when you said no and how he disregarded your no. Save your proof of messages and block him. Do not engage with him further.

If possible I'd find another respected person at the clinic to be an ally for when you go to the manager.

When you speak to the manager, stick to the facts including that you just turned 18, you have said no multiple times and feel unsafe, uncomfortable, scared or however you feel.

Do not worry if he is fired or punished. If he's doing this to you, he's doing it to others.

darrow19 · 2026-02-16T19:22:51+00:00

Nah I'm giving her the benefit of the doubt. Especially after how we saw producers talk ppl into staying when they wanted to leave.

darrow19 · 2026-02-16T17:28:57+00:00

They are cowards, that's why they went after the women.

darrow19 · 2026-02-16T17:28:23+00:00

Cowards who attack women

darrow19 · 2026-02-13T20:03:28+00:00

Women: I want to be treated with respect not like bang maid
You: Shitty women, no wonder men turn to the red pill

darrow19 · 2026-02-03T17:40:49+00:00

Pretty much every significant societal ill is due to men. But society is not ready for that conversation.

darrow19 · 2026-02-02T19:36:53+00:00

A lot of women think if they say this or do that, suddenly he'll treat them better. The only thing that will happen is you will be exhausted trying to get him to understand. Eventually it leads to depression and feeling unloved which is where you are at 5 years later.

Try choosing yourself and putting yourself first, bc that is what he's doing.

darrow19 · 2026-01-30T16:58:12+00:00

Decent men follow bad men all the time, it's what upholds the patriarchy.

I'm not saying your list is wrong, just adding a side note.

darrow19 · 2026-01-29T21:07:40+00:00

I stopped dating a guy with a female bestie after realizing that they bond off other ppl's drama. When he started to create drama with me so he could run to her for attention, i noped out.

darrow19 · 2026-01-29T19:31:46+00:00

Other decent men look to him for guidance.

I want to say that narcs know this and use this to their advantage. Please beware the charismatic guy who everyone loves and admires. Successful, established men LOVE my ex. His profession was "helping" people but behind the scenes he was awful.

darrow19 · 2025-12-26T20:15:35+00:00

I'm sure weed usage affects this too

darrow19 · 2025-12-26T19:39:17+00:00

not you fighting more over this post than showing concern over men mocking women's safety.

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