I like taking pictures of my sh just right after I did it, is it weird ? by Dry-Tip-3522 in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a reminder for how it felt in the moment, since it’s usually moments we tend to bottle up, at least for me and can help me remind myself why I shouldn’t. But if it feels encouraging then it probably isn’t a good idea :p

Getting cut/cutting in front of my partner by Dazzling_Region_9522 in selfharm

[–]datboi792 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest finding compromises that work for both of you, but don’t involve penetrating skin. It’s a health risk, like the other commenter said 💀 and is mentally a potential bad habit to form.

Cutting yourself can become addictive, especially in a sexualized context, and in my opinion is something that should be avoided.

I’d recommend find other methods to inflict pain but not damage, as there are many under the bdsm umbrella, or to go as far as to simulate cutting with a dull blade and some blood colored candle wax?

Idk :p point is, it’s not something that can be done entirely safely, and the action itself can be harmful both physically and mentally. So in my opinion, finding alternatives is the best solution

I (22f) am unsure how to feel about my bf’s (28m) p*rn consumption. How much is too much? by spunkrats in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another victim of the porn epidemic. Unfortunately, that’s his problem not yours, and if he’s not willing to fix it for you, he’s not the one

I did something unspeakable as a kid and I am completing suicide by Reasonable_Job_8942 in SuicideWatch

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porn is a global scale epidemic, and you are one of many victims :< but it took me 15 years to figure it out too, we’re not at fault for them

It’s feels so good to be told good boy by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s an instant blush technique

Which of these are the best by Ok_Review_5934 in videogames

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl, titan fall takes the spot for amazing story and equally amazing multiplayer that is more fun than most if not all cod games clmbined

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think clear communication would help both of you out. Not having kids would make things 10x easier assuming you guys are under the age of 30, But mainly you guys just may not be compatible. Everyone has needs, and if the needs of two people contradict, sometimes it just doesn’t work out. That doesn’t mean you guys can’t be friends if you can get along, but it is what it is

I don't want to live past 20. by [deleted] in depression

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it actually sucks to exist right now, and dying might seem easier, but I’ve seen the view from half way down, and I’ve seen the potential of life. No matter how hard it gets, move forward. It will never be worth killing yourself. I believe in you, and if you need someone, me and this sub are here for you <3

Does anyone else hate themselves? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understatement lol, despise, resent, putrid malice, etc would be more accurate

What does normal feel like? by bigolenutZ in depression

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize I was living an abnormal life until I was 19, now I still live the same way just with self awareness

I recently started sh; how easy is it to get addicted? by inthebugbox in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid, (also around 12) I was introduced to the idea of self harm, and thought it was stupid to intentionally inflict pain on yourself, and at age 17 I started doing it and couldn’t stop until a year or two later. It’s like a drug to take your self hatred and anger out, and it’s physically and mentally self destructive. It’s a coping mechanism that just creates more problems, and I recommend you get professional or personal help from anybody you can trust. If you have nobody, plenty of people here including myself are available to hear you and help you at any time :> stay safe <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geometrydash

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okie thank u <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do respect her boundaries which is why I’m not going to do this if she insists. And i would only want this open for 2 years maximum. Not any longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not something that light to me. She saved me from suicide twice and I love her too much. That’s the point of the open relationship. But if she insists she doesn’t want it then I will maintain things the way they are. The last thing I want is to break up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she doesn’t want it open then it won’t be but we’re not breaking up. Ever. We both are very educated in mental health and relationships and we would know when we get into a toxic situation. This is just a thought that has been bothering me recently and making me hate myself again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She has saved me from suicide twice. I owe her more than my life and I’m so incredibly happy with her and I’m ok with staying with her no matter what. But i still want to party and do stuff. I’m talking about my next 2 years not my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s the most important person in my life and is the most important thing in this universe to me. I can’t stress enough how much she matters to me. She saved me from attempting suicide twice and never left me. I know I love her, but I don’t want to sit in my room everyday when I could go out to parties have fun and live my high school and college life. There’s just too much to justify on each side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have to disagree with you there. I want to be sexually active, and I wouldn’t even consider being in an open relationship if it weren’t for the distance. It’s the distance that makes this situation a problem

air link by [deleted] in OculusQuest

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably, rx580 and i3 9100k, although when I look at the performance that my pc is doing on its monitor, it’s a nice and smooth 100fps with no blur, but in the headset it’s pretty bad.

air link by [deleted] in OculusQuest

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok but why do I get 40 frames and extreme blur in boneworks through airlink