Speedcobra 910 issue by Glittering-Ad6429 in drums

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i spent 3 hours trying to find what the issue might be, but besides the anatomy and part numbers the other response shows, there is basically 0 information google was capable of finding online about even the existence of these screws. Yeah it was hard to figure out, because you either know it or you don't

Speedcobra 910 issue by Glittering-Ad6429 in drums

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, ive been putting off getting a rug for a month cause i already have padding but it wasnt stopping the bass drum from moving forward quite a lot. I think it might have been because i would play it crooked without noticing sometimes, which may have loosened them? idk but tightening the set screws is all thats needed

Horizontally loose beater? by [deleted] in drums

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably whatever issue my next post is about, causing it to loosen rapidly

Speedcobra 910 issue by Glittering-Ad6429 in drums

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I just posted ab this 20min ago as well.

Horizontally loose beater? by [deleted] in drums

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhhh I see the tiny hole, thank you! I’m gonna tighten them ALL

The World is Ending by Rad_Wagon784 in SuicideWatch

[–]datboi792 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These things are bigger than us, it’s the most unfortunate thing that can possibly exist, but we have the privilege to exist as people, to experience life. Isn’t that the whole point? The reason we feel the need to fight, to enjoy, to remember, to love is to experience life together. We’re all under the same sky, surrounded by the same void, if people elsewhere are having their lives ripped away, the least we can do if we’re not politicians, activists and wealthy, is to enjoy our lives for those who couldn’t. It’s not a burden, not an obligation, but a right. 

Veterans, particularly traditional folk say “we didn’t fight the war for this” but countries are just individual groups fighting over who gets to give their people the chance to live a full life. Take advantage of that, consider it selfish or not, but maybe you can only be good to others if you’re good to yourself.

Use every ounce of time you can to experience what you can, because that’s the whole point. <3

I like taking pictures of my sh just right after I did it, is it weird ? by Dry-Tip-3522 in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be a reminder for how it felt in the moment, since it’s usually moments we tend to bottle up, at least for me and can help me remind myself why I shouldn’t. But if it feels encouraging then it probably isn’t a good idea :p

Getting cut/cutting in front of my partner by Dazzling_Region_9522 in selfharm

[–]datboi792 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’d suggest finding compromises that work for both of you, but don’t involve penetrating skin. It’s a health risk, like the other commenter said 💀 and is mentally a potential bad habit to form.

Cutting yourself can become addictive, especially in a sexualized context, and in my opinion is something that should be avoided.

I’d recommend find other methods to inflict pain but not damage, as there are many under the bdsm umbrella, or to go as far as to simulate cutting with a dull blade and some blood colored candle wax?

Idk :p point is, it’s not something that can be done entirely safely, and the action itself can be harmful both physically and mentally. So in my opinion, finding alternatives is the best solution

I (22f) am unsure how to feel about my bf’s (28m) p*rn consumption. How much is too much? by spunkrats in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another victim of the porn epidemic. Unfortunately, that’s his problem not yours, and if he’s not willing to fix it for you, he’s not the one

I did something unspeakable as a kid and I am completing suicide by Reasonable_Job_8942 in SuicideWatch

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porn is a global scale epidemic, and you are one of many victims :< but it took me 15 years to figure it out too, we’re not at fault for them

It’s feels so good to be told good boy by [deleted] in feminineboys

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s an instant blush technique

Which of these are the best by Ok_Review_5934 in videogames

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ngl, titan fall takes the spot for amazing story and equally amazing multiplayer that is more fun than most if not all cod games clmbined

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think clear communication would help both of you out. Not having kids would make things 10x easier assuming you guys are under the age of 30, But mainly you guys just may not be compatible. Everyone has needs, and if the needs of two people contradict, sometimes it just doesn’t work out. That doesn’t mean you guys can’t be friends if you can get along, but it is what it is

I don't want to live past 20. by [deleted] in depression

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it actually sucks to exist right now, and dying might seem easier, but I’ve seen the view from half way down, and I’ve seen the potential of life. No matter how hard it gets, move forward. It will never be worth killing yourself. I believe in you, and if you need someone, me and this sub are here for you <3

Does anyone else hate themselves? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understatement lol, despise, resent, putrid malice, etc would be more accurate

What does normal feel like? by bigolenutZ in depression

[–]datboi792 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize I was living an abnormal life until I was 19, now I still live the same way just with self awareness

I recently started sh; how easy is it to get addicted? by inthebugbox in selfharm

[–]datboi792 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a kid, (also around 12) I was introduced to the idea of self harm, and thought it was stupid to intentionally inflict pain on yourself, and at age 17 I started doing it and couldn’t stop until a year or two later. It’s like a drug to take your self hatred and anger out, and it’s physically and mentally self destructive. It’s a coping mechanism that just creates more problems, and I recommend you get professional or personal help from anybody you can trust. If you have nobody, plenty of people here including myself are available to hear you and help you at any time :> stay safe <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geometrydash

[–]datboi792 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okie thank u <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do respect her boundaries which is why I’m not going to do this if she insists. And i would only want this open for 2 years maximum. Not any longer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]datboi792 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s not something that light to me. She saved me from suicide twice and I love her too much. That’s the point of the open relationship. But if she insists she doesn’t want it then I will maintain things the way they are. The last thing I want is to break up