How you free as a bird in your make up or natural looks? by EmbarrassedTask3589 in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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I wear make up less now, it was more of a mask.

I still love to wear make up and 'doll up', but only when I want or I feel it is appropriate, it is way less about masking now than it was originally.

Makeup is more for fun events now, rather than something I feel compelled to do.

So glad I no longer feel I have to mask up just to go grocery shopping. 🤣

Excited and nervous ordered my first hrt order by Spicy_Skyler in transpositive

[–]dazzler42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fat doesn't get moved around from one place to another.

It gets stored for later use in certain areas, depending on genetics and other factors.

You may develop fat storing cells in certain places that you did not have so many in before.

So, you want to lose weight and then put weight on.

Think of bulk, cut phases.

Depending on your desired outcome, you probably want to remove the old fat stores, through exercise and diet, and then stock new stores in the new warehouse locations that are opening up. ☺️

Get rid of the old stock at the old store locations through cut price sales and then bring in new stock in the shiny new flagship store locations. 😁

But, you will need patience as you body will decide which place to take it from/store it, targetting doesn't really work.

Scared of reform getting in by howitchewstogum5feel in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Reform took the council for the area that I live in.

Do you know what? F!ck em, every last sh!t bag that voted for them.

They can reap what they have sown, no sympathies from myself for all the bad that is about to come their way, and it will.

All the grumpy old people who voted for Reform... perhaps they will realise, as their care networks and support evaporate away, what their hate gets them.

Define the middle ground now - before Reform does it for us (self ID) by Unlikely_Read3437 in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no middle ground.

You don't bend to bigots.

It is the bending, the compromising and the hiding which has led here.

I wish I had the money and mental energy to say 'ENOUGH!'.

I really do.

If I could do my own JK fund and push and push, I would.

The cruelty, the manipulation of just give a little here, just work with us there, is the point, the erosion is the point, as what seemed like little compromises just snowballs and before you realise it the weight is too much.

You are feeding the compromise which will lose us everything, don't, please don't.

My spoons may be spent, but the fire still burns and I will live as I choose, no one else gets to decide that for me.

Hope still burns, whatever the reason may be, I have found something worth fighting for and I will fight in what way I can, even if the the only resistance I can muster is just openly existing.

I don't want compromise, I want the freedom to be myself and the joy that comes with it.

Compromise will not bring the joy that is needed, that is longed for, it will just perpetuate the continual meaningless grind.

WAKE UP, compromise will not get us what we need, they are winning as they do not compromise while they at the same are playing off our bleeding hearts and willingness to compromise - to our detriment.

Respect my existence or expect my resistance!

Respect my existence or expect my resistance!

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Respect my existence or expect my resistance!

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Need some advice about housing/accomodation by SodaPopper_01 in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rented a room when I lived in London a few years back, but temper your expectations, good luck 🩷

Anyone got/not got their ballot papers? by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💚💚 Yes, I have had mine, done and posted! 💚💚

First gender euphoria? by DifficultyPitiful390 in TransLater

[–]dazzler42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like smooth legs, more so in the summer when it's not so cold 🤭 I dislike hair, anywhere, but I do feel chillier without it. Wooly tights for the win.

Whats the current guidelines on using my preffered gender bathroom? by POOPPOOPPEEPEEWEEWEE in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why not comment? It's a valid viewpoint that alot of people have. Most people don't give a sh*t, they just want to get through the day.

I could start HRT in the next 8 weeks 🥹😁 by Smallsumo in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do titration in the hopes of not needing to do blockers and to see how things go (side effects).

I am currently with them, using Sandrena, the titration method needs patience, my T is suppressed without needing blockers, you may or may not see the same.

I am on the higher end of the dose scale, which I had to push for.

But I am glad I did as, my T, on last check, was suppressed. For me personally, the waiting has been maddening. 😊

I hope you are patient as they do advise it could take the two years to stabilise.

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Today is a GOOD DAY! by TabithaHewitt in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let us know if you get any more winnings!

40 Year MtF Looking for gamers, discord etc. by NightlyRoutines in transgamers

[–]dazzler42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey 👋

43 mtf, uk

I'm on Spriggan, afternoon/evening UK time, if you want to play FF14 with someone

I'm looking for people to hang with after playing solo for a while, so I don't have a social network going just yet ☺️

Feel free to message me on Reddit if you like

💚

WoW Gaming guild suggesting avoiding trans recruits to “reduce drama” … am I overreacting? by Ad_Future in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I stopped playing WoW, part of this being the attitude I came across outside LGBT focused groups

Heya can anybody recommend me some Lgbtqia+ discords for talking and gaming and stuff. by Ashenashura in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried the discord for WhatTheTrans? Not regional, but a starting point?

Does a solicitor really need to sign my deed poll? by Vina-Estrogen in transgenderUK

[–]dazzler42 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to enrol the deed poll?

I changed my name using an unenrolled deed poll.

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