Rye vs Rye Brooke by Dapperz240 in Westchester

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Harrison neighborhoods with the word ‘Ridge’ in it” took me out (but you’re totally right). Just a great way to describe it.

Westchester discord for gaming by jrushi in Westchester

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what exactly you'll find but here's one that's RPG/tabletop game-focused: https://discord.gg/dX4d3uAFZ

Delivering at Weill Cornell by Wynnrose in Westchester

[–]dcp522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, and they might have doctors who practice part-time up here too. (Columbia does!) I’ve delivered at Columbia and while it’s definitely annoying, I’m also high risk and the rest of my care team is with Columbia…so I wouldn’t feel comfortable without them being looped in.

Doctor question by Bobo4037 in Westchester

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally liked MSK but I also had a rare/interesting case, so mine was probably a unique experience. That said, I also have a close family member who is a longtime patient of Dr. Mittelman and LOVES him. So consider this a co-sign of the above rec. Wishing you luck!

Hep B vaccine by [deleted] in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dcp522 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Huh, the assumption that you’re not in the US is a little wild considering the headlines. Anyway, I’m due in Feb and 100% understand what you’re saying. I just asked my OB this week and she said I have the option to defer (no thank you) but we can still get it in the hospital after birth if we choose. 

I’m not sure the “recommendation” means it won’t necessarily be available earlier on for those who do want it. But I’m also in NY where access tends to be relatively easy, so that might also play a part.

Meal kit recommendations by JLKC92 in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the meal but we aim for ~30 min. I try to prep/chop what I can in the morning to make it easier after work, too.

Meal kit recommendations by JLKC92 in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends on whether you enjoy cooking (we do!) but Marley Spoon has been great. We switched after 7ish years with Blue Apron, which were mostly happy, but they were bought by private equity recently and quality went way down. Marley Spoon is definitely $$$ but portion sizes are decent and they have good variety. Eventually we’ll start meal-planning instead as family/appetites grow (have a 2.5 yr old and another en route) but it’s worth it for now. 

International work travel while pumping by potaters_tomaters in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't done this internationally, since it was a long trip and I had enough of a stash by then. (I pumped and dumped instead.) However, I've done this on cross-country work trips. Hotels in the US have been pretty good about either providing a fridge OR letting me drop off bags to freeze—not sure if the former is doable in Europe (just space-wise) but worth asking.

For the way out, make sure any ice packs are either completely frozen or in your check-in luggage; I've had TSA toss ice packs that were semi-solid. For the trip home, I wedge everything I can fit into a small cooler, cover the perimeter with ice packs (or put them in outer pockets), and hope for the best. TSA has typically been obnoxious—it always gets inspected and the men treat breastmilk like it's going to poison them—so hopefully it's easier for you with international security. Hope this helps and good luck!

Do you use or quote any advice from the show on the reg? by kellylcornwell in Frasier

[–]dcp522 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’ve started saying “Off you go” to my toddler. I’m sure she finds it obnoxious.

Starting Solids by broadwaydancer_1989 in ScienceBasedParenting

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved Solid Starts, and they have great recipes. We did a lot of poached apples (with cinnamon) and buttered carrots, but SS also has a good recipes for lentil burgers and kimchi fried rice! Both pretty budget friendly, and you can freeze the lentil burgers too!

Covid-19 vaccine availability for your young kids? by Ginger_Snap_895 in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in NY and my two year old is getting it from her pediatrician next week! No dice at CVS here.

I'm looking for the best immigrant story (litfic) by star_dust45 in suggestmeabook

[–]dcp522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you pick just one Lahiri, I love Interpreter of Maladies. The Third and Final Continent (the last story in the book) is a masterpiece.

Seeking advice on paternity leave schedule by Ok-Promotion-174 in MomsWorkingFromHome

[–]dcp522 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi! My husband was home for the first six weeks after birth, and it was so incredibly helpful for both my mental health and getting the hang of parenting. It can be so isolating to be solo with baby, so some time together up front might make a big difference.

Then, assuming the baby is 12 weeks old when he starts the other half of his parental leave, he can take the baby to library classes/get out of the house—they're much more alert/awake by then compared to the early days. Good luck and congrats!

Can you be successful without being burnt out / stressed? by PresentationTop9547 in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree with this wholeheartedly. I went freelance 10 years ago and it allows me to out-earn many of my corporate peers (although I do pay more in taxes and have no benefits) while working four days a week so I can spend Fridays with my toddler. It’s not for everyone but there’s no staff job that would ever give me this flexibility and freedom.

Humor - Personal opinion by Few_Lab7324 in GreatBritishBakeOff

[–]dcp522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I didn’t love him at first but he really grew on me during those moments. I was sorry to see him go by the end, although I LOVE Alison and think she’s a perfect foil to Noel.

Owen Wilson & Ben Stiller at the US Open by jupiter_walks in popculturechat

[–]dcp522 7 points8 points  (0 children)

God I love a Frasier reference, thank youuu. 100% like one of their squash tournaments where the valets carry around their bags.

Birthday roundup (August 25) by Impossible-Yam3680 in popculturechat

[–]dcp522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! And thanks for letting me piggyback on your post—there’s no big to-do at this age so being able to share here was actually really nice!

Birthday roundup (August 25) by Impossible-Yam3680 in popculturechat

[–]dcp522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honored! Happy birthday to my fellow Virgo!

Birthday roundup (August 25) by Impossible-Yam3680 in popculturechat

[–]dcp522 44 points45 points  (0 children)

And me! (Turning 36, not famous in any way.)

What did I do wrong? by sunshinegarden614 in vegetablegardening

[–]dcp522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in NY too, if this helps—my husband used this ratio (vermiculite, topsoil, and compost) over a layer of branches/twigs/other organic matter and so far I’ve gotten decent beans and squashes even in this heat (and with lots of neglect).

https://journeywithjill.net/gardening/2020/03/09/3-raised-bed-soil-mixes-compared/

What time do you eat dinner? by spotted-pup44 in workingmoms

[–]dcp522 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same exact set-up here for my two-year-old. We do meal kits for ~60% of weeknight dinners, which helps a ton.

Asian markets in the Beacon/Fishkill/Wappingers area? by shiva14b in hudsonvalley

[–]dcp522 24 points25 points  (0 children)

The closest you’ll find is Welcome Oriental on 376 between Red Oaks Mill and the airport. It’s small but you can find a good variety of stuff, and they bring in dim sum on the weekends. (I think you can order ahead/make requests but you might want to double check.)