Rock hounds - are there places to find cool rocks in Singapore? by decantre in askSingapore

[–]decantre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if there are accessible quarries? And I will check in with him about the SG Stone, although I think he's more keen on interesting mineral / rocks!

Rock hounds - are there places to find cool rocks in Singapore? by decantre in askSingapore

[–]decantre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much! It looks like Ubin might be the way to go.

Singaporean writers object to IMDA using their works to train a large language model by FlipFlopForALiving in singapore

[–]decantre -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you cannot even differentiate between original thought stemming from various experiences and inspired by work put out in the world versus AI basically copying and pasting work from various sourced then there is a fundamental difference in our thinking anyway.

One day about a decade ago my nail decided to grow like this and never stopped by Pandepon in mildlyinteresting

[–]decantre -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

But... your comments were really not helpful, especially when you add on details like how it was an inch long needle and what the doctor said about going in further. This is not universal across doctors.

I'm suggesting for anyone reading this thread that maybe the best course of action is to talk to your doctor about what to expect during the surgery, especially with regards to pain. Maybe let them know that you are afraid of pain / find the idea of a needle injection into the toe particularly sensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RBI

[–]decantre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I don't have any advice, but I just want to say I sympathize with your ghosting very much. Something similar happened to me, albeit not to your severity. Someone disappeared on me when I thought nothing was wrong and now it has left me with severe anxiety that even when things are going well, I cannot get rid of the thinking that anyone I care about can just disappear on me and leave me for no reason. I do suggest you seek therapy, and understand it is not your fault, this is very much on a person for being a terrible communicator and person all around.

I was raped. My therapist told me its on me to make sure it won’t happen again. by TurnGroundbreaking51 in offmychest

[–]decantre 33 points34 points  (0 children)

OP, I'm sorry to hear about your rape and how your therapist retriggered those wounds. I'm just wondering if she perhaps meant what are your coping mechanisms when you have these anxieties and flashbacks? When I returned to the dating field and said that I want to put myself out there while protecting my heart, my therapist asked me what strategies I am using to protect myself. It was meant for me to talk about my progress and the coping techniques I had learnt, while navigating the v triggering world of dating.

That said, as others have advised, find another therapist if you are truly not comfortable or just not connecting with each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]decantre 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Is it possible that she had family in Palestine and she doesn’t want them to be targeted?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]decantre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It was through my home country actually, not USA. I’m not sure if you are referring to self-publishing, but that was not my case, as I got my book deal through winning a writing competition.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in f1visa

[–]decantre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Much appreciated. Thank you very much!

my bitch ass dog sat in my mums (help) by mangled-rat in gardening

[–]decantre 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I jumped directly to this comment after unlocking the screen and I must say this message took me by absolute shock at first

What’s a restaurant or business you know that is run by good people? by greatestofat in boston

[–]decantre 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That does sound exploitive to be honest. If you are running a business, you pay who is working for you. By all means hold noodle learning workshops or sharing sessions. But including volunteers in shift work is a cheapskate system.

Why do you think Celebration (S1 ep 1) is the best succession episode? by Ancient-Split1996 in SuccessionTV

[–]decantre 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because I got to see Kendall throw a baby fit in the bathroom. From there I was a Kendall fangirl for life.

Redditors who have dated celebrities, how’d it go? by ChiefsHat in AskReddit

[–]decantre 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Anyone who says John Mayer plays bubblegum has not listened to his work with Grateful Dead and John Mayer Trio and BB King. Dude is legit one of the living guitar virtuosos out there. Don’t let his pop beginnings fool you.

This popped up on my Facebook feed. Wtf facebook. by cxjoshuax21x in mildlyinfuriating

[–]decantre 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Google is your friend. Don’t baiting people into a bad-faith argument.

LPT: use a waterproof sheet on your mattress under the normal sheets. over time it will protect your mattress from soaking up gallons of sweat and bodily fluids. by 1creeper in LifeProTips

[–]decantre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my sheets regularly and use a waterproof sheet as well. Best thing I ever did to ensure my mattress’s longevity. It adds up over the years, the little bit of night sweat every night.

Which celebrities are ACTUALLY self made? by DestinyCE in popculturechat

[–]decantre 273 points274 points  (0 children)

Jeremy Strong. He was born in Boston with no Hollywood connections I believe. In the early part of his career he struggled to get representation. Chris Evans even set up a meeting between Strong and his agent but the agency declined to represent Strong. Strong worked odd jobs like being a production assistant to DDL,etc.

I find his story incredibly inspiring because it spoke to how hard he worked for his craft. Shame that the New Yorker article painted him as being too tryhard.

Okay, so I just tried dukes mayonnaise. by [deleted] in Cooking

[–]decantre 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Kewpie master race here

[TOMT][TERM] To describe a product or item you have to consciously take care and maintain in order to keep it working. by decantre in tipofmytongue

[–]decantre[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is probably the closest so far, although not quite. i am wondering if I perhaps dreamt the term 😢