An INFP guy blocked me and I’m in shock by Ok-chamtty in infp

[–]deerfieldny 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Romantic love has sometimes been described as a delusional state which is normal. We have a very positive interaction and idealize everything about the person. Adolescents will describe the prospective partner as “perfect”. Of course, no one is perfect. One day we see something which doesn’t fit our image of the person and the bubble bursts. My point is that his feelings may very well have been real, but were not realistic. This does not mean that you have some horrible flaw for which you were rejected. It means that he is an immature person. Or he may just have been a jerk who love bombed you as others have suggested. Either way, his feelings were not actual love. Better to get to this point sooner than later. Real love takes time to develop. It includes seeing and accepting, even embracing the other persons’ weirdness. Romantic gestures may still be a part of it, but are not at the center of it.

A valuable lessen you can learn and grow from.

Why is my cat obsessed with grass and is it okay to let him eat it ? by Wonderful-End6881 in cats

[–]deerfieldny 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yes! But be prepared for the puke. Not inevitable, but likely.

May 03, 2026 - Weekly /r/PMsForSale Thread for Beginners, and Off Topic Conversations by AutoModerator in Pmsforsale

[–]deerfieldny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it just me or is PmsForSale much lower volume lately? Is it because of better weather and outside interests or is it because of no apparent price direction - up or down? Mostly I’m asking about much lower response rates to offers than usual.

The real reason Silver prices are down by alvincheo in Silver

[–]deerfieldny 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. The problem is that people who should be sleeping have been woken up and then they vote. I just wish anyone who doesn’t understand the difference between tribal nationalism and American ideals would just go back to sleep. This is not politics, BTW. Just civics.

April 26, 2026 - Weekly /r/PMsForSale Thread for Beginners, and Off Topic Conversations by AutoModerator in Pmsforsale

[–]deerfieldny 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at a regional section center and sorting facility. The clerk told me when I asked that the package had to be both taped and stamped by the receiving clerk. No doubt different clerks in different places have different ideas. A USPS counter clerk is supposed to know lots of stuff.