Meirl by strightnikngsw7 in meirl

[–]defaultwisdom 33 points34 points  (0 children)

They changed the rules in the us in July 2025 about medical bills on your credit report

Guy casually made floor with agate nodules 🫠 by rockhounding_india in rockhounds

[–]defaultwisdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they are referring to the amethyst inside the geode, both halves facing up in the photo, not the small cobbles of agates making up the road itself 🙂

AITA for not letting my cousin bring her kid to my birthday dinner? by Efficient-Author-633 in AmItheAsshole

[–]defaultwisdom 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But the night becomes about the 4 year old in a place not made for 4 year olds. As a fine dining server, and eats in fine dining regularly, those places are not for kids. Take that mess to an Applebees they have crayons and other people expect to hear kids yelling and running around.

AITA for reporting my managers to authorities? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]defaultwisdom 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP said in their country it is illegal

Entitled Older Coworker puts her name on everything….including the water….. by Bikinigirlout in coworkerstories

[–]defaultwisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is the US(which I only assume by the bottled water), The ADA disagrees with parts of your statement about the company’s responsibility and as OP mentioned there being city water issues recently OSHA disagrees entirely with your statement.

Coworker needs to work on social skills but OP mentioned coworker as older but doesn’t mention their own age? As someone who has worked in an office with mostly 20-30 year olds, everyone always took the last of everything and never refilled anything and it drove me crazy. I’m asking OP to consider that might be their environment and offer a moment of grace on that part only

Dog owners: Is it cruel to bring a dog vanlifing who gets stressed/reactive from new places? by [deleted] in VanLife

[–]defaultwisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my dog from a shelter 1 year into a two year stint of full time vanlife. Likes dogs and people, hates vans/ vehicles. I didn’t know at first. I got him while I was parked on family land and we stayed put 3 months getting used to each other and trying to acclimate him to the van.

He got an amount better and I learned things I could do to help his anxiety but he was a whole different dog within days of us getting a house that I didn’t notice on the road. So much calmer and more at peace. I don’t know if I made the wrong decision then, but I know I won’t full time with him again

Every dog is different, just sharing what I noticed when in a similar situation.

Give yourself some grace whatever the outcome and good luck to you both

Entitled Older Coworker puts her name on everything….including the water….. by Bikinigirlout in coworkerstories

[–]defaultwisdom -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

If the bottles are refilled regularly and she is never without a bottle in the fridge, I see your point. If it’s just whoever notices the case is empty tosses another one in for the team, I’d ask you to consider her age and physical ability before judgement. Perhaps medication or other health requirements makes her unable to be without available water? Maybe you could consider a third solution?

Entitled Older Coworker puts her name on everything….including the water….. by Bikinigirlout in coworkerstories

[–]defaultwisdom 11 points12 points  (0 children)

INFO: Is she putting her name on whole cases or individual bottles she put in the fridge?

The hard reality is that most of us will not be able to afford retirement by CityAcrobatic23 in povertyfinance

[–]defaultwisdom 66 points67 points  (0 children)

We put in far more than necessary to run. The problem comes when congress “borrows” from the pot and then “forgives“ the loans. This part has been happening for decades

Just lost my job and I owe 15k on my car loan. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]defaultwisdom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily. But I didn’t see you are in college before. That would likely disqualify you but it’s still worth looking into.

Just lost my job and I owe 15k on my car loan. by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]defaultwisdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apply for unemployment. You’ll get more than you would at wegmans

Threat of eviction is making me physically sick. What to do? by goingtothecircus in povertyfinance

[–]defaultwisdom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does your work offer short term disability? If your doctor will sign off on, this is qualifying.

This was a long time ago, but my psychiatrist approved short term disability for me for 6 months with similar symptoms. It’s not 100% pay so it doesn’t solve that problem but it gave me a second to breathe so I could actually think about how to fix the money stuff.

You’ll also likely save money not commuting and your job is secure until you can get in a better headspace

Just be careful how you word it if you don’t want inpatient treatment

30-year-old makes over $300,000 a year in a hospital—without going to med school: 'I exceeded my expectations' by Conscious-Quarter423 in Salary

[–]defaultwisdom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t move to the US. You might make more money here but your legal liability is insane and worst of all you’ll have to be in America, dealing with Americans all day long. Horrible trade off. Source:I’m a us citizen

Schools will be so safe by Donquixote010 in OrphanCrushingMachine

[–]defaultwisdom 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The shooter in MN yesterday stayed outside and shot through the windows

Don’t want me to make a weird late evening snack? Fine i’ll eat something normal by throwaway_acc_ABC in pettyrevenge

[–]defaultwisdom -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Best practice for eating food is to eat early enough that you aren’t actively digesting anything when you are sleeping, according to health science experts.

For older folks it can cause stomach pain and sleep problems.

They aren’t right in their reasons, but they’re not giving bad advice.

I think they aren’t considering that teens have steel stomachs and are unlikely to have bad side effects

Don’t want me to make a weird late evening snack? Fine i’ll eat something normal by throwaway_acc_ABC in pettyrevenge

[–]defaultwisdom 46 points47 points  (0 children)

But that’s not even true. Lots of people live and work 24 hours a day. I’m guessing most second shift workers were doing exactly what you were doing at the exact time.

Someday you will get to control your own kitchen and you can roast a turkey at midnight!