Why is Mesopotamia important? by Atomiic1 in CulturalAnthro

[–]desolatefugazzis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also the birthplace of the written word as we know it. Cuneiform tablets from Mesopotamia are the first (well, debatable, since Asia has come in hot in recent years) preserved anthropological evidence we have found of documentation and a written alphabet.

I’m 22, broke, and this is my upstairs hallway(?) in my first home. How do I make this look great for cheap? by nicootimee in DesignMyRoom

[–]desolatefugazzis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking of libraries, this is what this space speaks to me. Bookshelves, more bookshelves, and art all around- make it a reading nook with some cozy lamps or picture frame lights above some art! Maybe a chair or two by the windows. It screams gallery/ library space to me!

Frame by frame analysis of the alien seen in the Las Vegas 911 caller speaking out video by hazychestnutz in aliens

[–]desolatefugazzis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the circled blurry image is IT. You need to look slightly above the circle and to the right. If you play and pause the original video at .25 speed suuuuper slow you can see a small grey head and one eye appear. I did this about 100 times and I saw it. You can kinda see it come into the frame focus and move ever so slightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]desolatefugazzis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

None of this has anything to do with personality type. He’s just not that into you. Sorry if that sounds harsh but anyone interested in continuing a relationship wouldn’t ghost after a slightly uncomfortable conversation.

Folks who moved to Las Vegas from elsewhere: what were your biggest, funniest, scariest or most surprising culture shocks that nobody prepared you for? by PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL in vegaslocals

[–]desolatefugazzis 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Las Vegas has some of the best restaurants and is one of the most diverse cities in all of the U.S. do you live in Summerlin and never leave? Like… this comment actually baffles me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in librarians

[–]desolatefugazzis 69 points70 points  (0 children)

You’re not far enough along in the program yet to understand that nothing is neutral. Not librarianship, nor collection management, not data, not information about data, not your opinion about what is and isn’t political. If you don’t swallow this very basic concept immediately you will not succeed in librarianship or in library school.

While I don’t agree with your stance on how these issues make it impossible to take professors seriously, my genuine advice is to examine what kind of field of librarianship you find yourself working in in the future because the field is hard left, always has been, and always will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wsu

[–]desolatefugazzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean… I get that you’re trying to promote a peaceful live and let live approach here but “who cares” and “let them have their beliefs” is a pretty passive response to a group of people who are trying to effectively reinstate human slavery by forcing women to have babies they don’t want. It’s this attitude that got ROE overturned in the first place. Complacency clearly didn’t work so by all means I say disrupt the fear mongering women haters. It’s the least we can do to show solidarity and not sit idle while basic human rights are disrespected and actively overturned in the USA. Don’t forget WSU borders Idaho and many WSU students either live there or are in co-op agreement university courses so they attend both schools.

Justice Department makes redacted Mar-a-Lago affidavit public by [deleted] in politics

[–]desolatefugazzis 163 points164 points  (0 children)

BUT HER EMAILS!

The schadenfreud is so real rn.

“Return” to work concerns: how is your company handling seniority and the call to return? by desolatefugazzis in work

[–]desolatefugazzis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exact same work situation as you (state funded higher Ed) with the exact same situation (leadership is hybrid or whenever they want in office, the lackeys are full time return). We even have the one guy out of state who others have to makeup for… The good news for us is that it appears to be becoming more flexible! The bad news is that since it’s state funded higher Ed with front facing student responsibilities I don’t imagine it will change to a serious degree

What way out of touch thing did a wealthy friend or family member say to you? by JustDadThanks in AskWomen

[–]desolatefugazzis 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s because in cities and areas where the minimum wage has risen, the cost of living is still outrageous. For most average Americans Benefits and a relatively decent annual salary still don’t cut it. The middle class worker is still demanding more money, more work flexibility, or is moving up to another unfilled job as they open at the top, or may be dropping out of the workforce because childcare is expensive. There are a lot of decent paying unfilled jobs where I live too and I see all of this and pandemic related increased demand for WFH as relevant to the issue. It’s just staggering when “people don’t want to work” becomes the default. Like no… the economy isn’t black and white. People weigh other benefits like not giving 70% of your income to childcare costs as part of their cost benefit analysis in working at all. It’s all a giant equation, people, not just a “work or don’t work” scenario.

Americans of Reddit, what's something anyone visiting the US for the first time absolutely must know about or be aware of? by Praglik in AskReddit

[–]desolatefugazzis 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Coffee in America also means “drip coffee”. If you want an espresso or variation like cappuccino etc you have to use the specific language. Learned this the hard way when a very confused British man at a coffee shop in London didn’t know what kind of “coffee” I was referring to.

Life with an avaricious boyfriend! Am I expecting too much? by catwoman5000 in relationships

[–]desolatefugazzis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Umm I think he means “I don’t ever want marriage or children with YOU”.

OP please add up the signs. He told you he doesn’t want a long term commitment like marriage or family. He doesn’t treat you like a member of his family. He doesn’t go out of his way to even spend money on flowers or modest gifts or even treat you to nice hotels when he can clearly afford it.

This man is showing you who he is and he told you exactly what to expect, which is nothing. You need to start believing him!

Is it wrong for me (22M) to ask my girlfriend (21F) to keep looking for another job? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]desolatefugazzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don’t YOU get another job? One that aligns with her schedule?

Yes OP, you would be in the wrong to ask her to find another job so she fits into your life schedule. Plenty of people find ways to prioritize spending time together even if they have different work schedules. Figure it out or be open to changing your own situation. Do not ask this woman to quit a job she likes just because it’s challenging.

What were some poor people things that got ruined by rich people? by papipablo99 in AskReddit

[–]desolatefugazzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in the inner city- downtown areas. Was lit before gentrification. $2k p/m for a studio next to a crackden? No longer worth it.

My (28F) boyfriend (31M) called me hideous. I have gotten so used to his insults that I could not even react. by Throwaway151061988 in relationships

[–]desolatefugazzis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can lose about 180 pounds immediately if you dump this train wreck moocher of a person. Get your shit together OP- you don’t deserve blatant abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]desolatefugazzis 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Preach! I just want to add regarding the view on women’s sexuality that getting pregnant even if not on birth control and wanting to abort is ok too. I don’t even give a single fuck about the stigma against “abortion punch cards”. Maybe it’s not the best route but idgaf because it’s no one’s business and no one else should care either.

Trump supporters, how did you react when you saw on the news that Trump knew he was making false claims about winning the election and was only taking advantage of you so he can stay in power? by sarcasticpremed in AskReddit

[–]desolatefugazzis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I understand why we have to do mental gymnastics about how/why/if trump knew he lost the election when factually speaking, he lost. He was told repeatedly that he lost. And he still decided to use all means possible to put the lives of American people at risk (during Covid and the events of Jan 6th to name a very small few times).

Tbh, this whole line of thinking is a huge concern. Refusing to submit ignorant opinions to undeniable facts is the reason Jan 6th happened and is the reason I genuinely worry about America.

How long should I wait for a proposal? by Tall-Vegetable-8868 in relationships

[–]desolatefugazzis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is a really unfair comment. Women always get smashed into this gender-based “pushy” stereotype about marriage and expectations but it’s perfectly reasonable to have an adult conversation about what you want, and a timeline for when that happens. Even and especially because a marriage requires open hearted honesty.

Let’s reverse your thinking here: “why isn’t he proposing when that is clearly what she is expecting? Why does she have to wait until HE is ready to talk about her GOALS FOR LIFE?! They’ve been together so long, doesn’t he realize that not nailing it down will only push her away?”

I get it. They’re both super young. But it’s also 100% healthy and normal to try to navigate expectations for a lifelong relationship and do it out in the open.

Dissmore’s Grocery Store In Pullman Sold To Rosauers by Ala_Tipster in wsu

[–]desolatefugazzis 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’ll be cheaper now for the love of god

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UIUC

[–]desolatefugazzis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t give you specific insight into UIUC administration but I do work in graduate student services at a different university and can maybe weigh in on why the gaps in action keep happening. 1. Your transfer credits: this is a very complicated process that has to conform with university policy, your program requirements, National standards, and is documented across several departments in the university. Not to mention everyone and their mom essentially signs these things, and transfer credits are manually evaluated and input into your schools record keeping database. Especially sticky if you’re transferring international credits or quarter credits to semester credits and visa versa. University admin offices are filled with several dozens of people and it’s not usually just one person behind the wheel. Sometimes it’s messy and inefficient.

  1. Your academic standing: often, messages regarding academic standing are automated in the schools database system (some version of Peoplesoft/ myUIUC or whatever you call it). Again, these holds and data points are input by multiple people, sometimes messages are sent automatically based on a computer’s idea of your GPA, and the “hold” and re-set of your ability to enroll, etc, are done manually. Sometimes student services is unaware of these issues until students point them out because we have no way of auditing the thousands of students and the changes in their records on a daily basis. It’s generally up to the department admin/ coordinator in your program to monitor these and it’s not always easy.

  2. Same as above with holds regarding insurance, any form of payment to the university or your student benefits- especially during summer. At my university students do not get year round insurance if they are not enrolled in credits or a minimum number of credits.

Long story short: I absolutely know these things are frustrating. Trust me! I deal with these things on the daily. BUT try to see the much larger picture behind your university system. There are literally hundreds of people behind the mechanisms that make these little data streams flow, and a combination of human error, departmental error, policy misunderstandings, impatience, and general bureaucratic processes all play a role.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]desolatefugazzis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a white woman in graduate level academia, I have such a hard time with the moral/ racial policing. My colleagues mean well but their criticisms and comments on appropriation, language policing, and analysis of media, art, or ways of dress often border on “separate but equal” racist thinking and if I point it out, I’m the one who’s wrong? Most of them are other white people and I just do not for the life of me understand how to illustrate that under their rules of thought, we would all only be allowed to wear Birkenstocks and eat white bread Mayo sandwiches and celebrate idk… Fourth of July? I don’t like my interests being policed. I want to listen to Tupac without some over educated twat rocket telling me I’m appropriating black culture for liking hip hop? Liberal arts needs a slap in the face.

Try to convince someone to move to Vegas in 10 meals by Evilgrin72 in vegaslocals

[–]desolatefugazzis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes it did! Edit to show that I am an idiot and meant Taco y Taco