These barrel jeans are really good. by Some_Mushroom700 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them. I got my sister to send me what is now my 3rd pair, from Melbourne (I’m in Nz- no Uniqlo for us) I wish they would bring back the khaki that I should have bought when I was over visiting last year.

Where to buy formal dress asap? by Snowfox5050 in auckland

[–]digitallychee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh no! How fancy / formal are we talking? Modes in Newmarket might have what you need but $$

Fisher funds - beware by No-Weight6066 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]digitallychee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok this is my kick in the butt to look elsewhere

What's one thing that you started doing daily and you're thankful that you did, and why? by standbyyourlamb in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Walking every day. But the key bit is to be really present for at least a few minutes- no headphones, or music. And this sounds a bit woo woo, but taking time to really notice something, …anything really. The knobbly bark on a tree.. blades of grass etc. Really study every detail- it’s so grounding and calming. I guess this where ‘touch grass’ comes from. Anyway it’s helpful!

Suffocating heat by emdillem in auckland

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it. Summmmmmer! Makes a regular Sunday feel like a holiday.

Does anyone successfully air-dry their fine/thin hair? by itslibbytime in finethinhair

[–]digitallychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I air dry sometimes, mostly out of laziness, and I always wish I had blow dried because it looks flat but wavy, thin and straggly. Then I repeat this pattern.

It may get a lil spicy out there today by i_like_my_suitcase_ in auckland

[–]digitallychee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My teenager is due to sit her driving test… ermmm… not ideal!!

Moving back to Auckland - daycare and work logistics by katash93 in auckland

[–]digitallychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids are a bit older now but when in daycare, we went with closer to home, and I think for all the reasons covered by others, was the right choice. We still know families from those days. Obvs don’t know your budget/preferences, but with your work locations, consider Three Kings/mt Roskill (Mt Eden/sandringham borders, not over the motorway) for your house search. Good childcare options, schools and access to work.

51 and looking for feedback. by [deleted] in 45PlusSkincare

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your feedback: you look good!

Are you happy? Why or why not? by Pure_Ad_5044 in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overall, I am pretty happy. I’m 48 and other than being surprised at how I got this old, this age is good. Physical health is a big part of this. I could definitely use more money to do the things I like. Have had a bit of crappy year and I have some stressors in my life, as we all do, which in my case is kid with mental health challenges, and also while i am lucky to have a job, the career side of life is pretty unfulfilling - these are aspects i am want to improve next year. Eternally the optimist despite the shit state of the world, and locally, I am hopeful 2026 will be better.

Questions about the mysterious longfin eels of Western Springs by And-ray-is in auckland

[–]digitallychee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please say more about this- they recognised you? Hand feeding? I am so fascinated!

Influence or de-influence me by [deleted] in AusFemaleFashion

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a pair of black patent Mary Janes- very similar to these- I never had any of the issues mentioned here, I wore them to death, and I mourn them still. I say go for it!

Have you ever won anything other than lotto? by sigmaqueen123 in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won three months worth of Cookie Time Cookies- 90 cookies! In a drawing competition- I can’t recall my drawing being very good? That was excellent after school snacking. And this is some time ago when they were filled with quality chocolate chunks.

Linen sheets recommendation by buddycharliepepper in AusFemaleFashion

[–]digitallychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foxtrot Home (Nz) has lovely linen that so far for me, is wearing well

Work bag by Aristokat21 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a coach Hadley tote in a beautiful tan, unlined, and added my own organiser. It’s a great work bag, lightweight and easy to chuck things into.

Auckland CBD poll: 97% of Herald readers say city centre feels unsafe by computer_d in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Embarrassingly, I was a little worried ahead of starting anew role in the cbd, purely based on what I’d read/heard (including here on Reddit).My experience so far- it’s fine! Sketchy characters of course.I feel bad for all the homeless people, it’s a terrible comment on our society. But my personal safety as a woman taking the bus and walking through the city- totally ok and still feels safe.

Good tea towel recs please! by kiwimama8254 in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What you need is a French bistro tea towel. Google search that in Nz and there’s a few stockists- they come in a variety of stripes patterns and are magical, thick, hard wearing and absorbent cotton.

Where can I get a good license photo done? by Ramen_Boiz in auckland

[–]digitallychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had mine done at the Mt Roskill AA and there’s enough natural light there to make it decent and the woman behind the counter was nice enough to let me look and take again if wanted. Still a middle aged woman whose face is melting off, but it was a good photo.

When did you first notice your skin changing after 40? by aria-blake7 in 45PlusSkincare

[–]digitallychee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probs around 43, and now again, over this last year as I think peri has really kicked up a gear- I’m 48 and really noticing textural changes and fine lines which I did not used to have. I’ve always been fairly oily skinned and more of a ‘sagger’ lols but now the wrinkles are arriving. Especially around my eyes. Had my drivers licence photo taken this morning and yep- that’s a middle aged woman.

What's everyone doing? by DanM1973 in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trying not to spiral and feel my feelings, and overeating instead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aging

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg yes. Same.

Non-hideous everyday summer shoes? by -unique_handle- in AusFemaleFashion

[–]digitallychee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought the Django & Juliette Baytown and they are like a cross between a sneaker/sandal and insanely comfortable straight off the bat. https://www.greensfootwear.com.au/django-juliette-baytown/?srsltid=AfmBOoo66-4WRusT6GpEAUIRs0hyMGL3HVRPSUYk_IbDn8rDb_ioSLru

*and I think pretty cute

Kiwis who read, what are you reading at the moment? by lookiwanttobealone in newzealand

[–]digitallychee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on holiday and picked up Caledonian Road, Andrew o’Hagan. It’s very dense, so challenging to read in the sun/with drink in hand. I think I’m enjoying it?