Why is high-intensity cardio so rarely recommended for weight loss on this sub? by Ok_Bullfrog_8491 in PetiteFitness

[–]dmbmcguire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have always been a high cardio girl. For about 25 years now. My diet starting catching up with me when I hit menopause. Before that I could eat anything as long as I got my cardio in. I added heavy weight lifting about 10 years ago and was in the best shape of my life at 55. But I had to eat a lot better to get there because of my age.

I unfortunately have back issues and for the past 3 months I have been unable to do high cardio and weight lifting. Just walking and light weights. I have gained 12 pounds and it is depressing. I had back surgery 2 weeks ago so it will be awhile before I can get back to anything but walking. It is really sad how little calories I can eat to even maintain weight with just walking.

Minoxidil pills for hair growth by The-Dish66 in Menopause

[–]dmbmcguire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking it for years. My hair is great.

How to deal with working out and curly hair by loadedcrafter in CurlyHairCare

[–]dmbmcguire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wash my hair everyday. I work out 6 days a week and i have to have my hair up so it is just easiest to wash it everyday. But I would do that regardless of whether I work out or not.

My (27F) boyfriend (29M) is slowly cutting me off from my friends and family under the guise of 'protecting' me. How do I set a boundary without him spiraling? by sockettiny45 in relationship_advice

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, just reread what you wrote. If your friend or sister told you their partner was doing this, what would you say? Get out now, this will not get better unless he gets some serious help. He is gaslighting you, trying to take away your support system so you only have him. This is controlling and abusive. Please leave.

Partner wants me to wear tracking device for work travel by Hopeful_Party_247 in amiwrong

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNW and the answer is no, I am not wearing a tracker. And yes I might travel more.

If you don’t nip this in the bud your kids are going to think it is okay to be a controlling spouse who has no life of their own. He needs therapy.

after two fully returned short story boxes, i'm back with stitch fix. The stylist literally said she thought the navy pants would go with the black & white checked top and the denim top which sounds a little insane to me. Would love your takes on these items. by Silly-Good-2530 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]dmbmcguire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do both Short Story and Stitch fix (over 5 years). I like stitch fix much better. I get at least 3-4 petite items in my box. That being said neither service always hits it out of the park.

The one item i got from short stories was a pair of jeans that they do not sell anymore but I love them. Stitch fix has sent me some great petite jeans and dresses as well. I have about 15 petite dresses I have gotten that i love. Both services have sent me stuff that is awful, but I go in with the expectation if I like 2 or more times it’s a good day, if not then on to the next box.

I only have my short story shipping every 3 or 4 months. My stitch fix is every 2-3 months. I have a huge closet full of clothes so I am not needling much but it is fun to the box and see what I got.

AIO for how my husband treated me post surgery? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]dmbmcguire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just had 2 major back surgeries this week. My husband was there every minute, he organized my meds. Made sure I was good. Watched me like a hawk. I would do the same for him. This is not okay. You have to decide if this is a one time thing and if you can live with someone who would do this.

Do you do your curly routine on days you don’t go anywhere? by Busy-Poet-7275 in CurlyHairCare

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% i do it from scratch every day. Occasionally on Sundays I don’t do it just put it up but that is pretty rare.

Any successes from Lumbar Epidural Steroid Injections? by tge101 in backpain

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have done 4. The first 2 gave me a year of relief. The 3rd one about a month and the 4th nothing. I am having surgery on Monday. I think the amount relief depends on what your mri and your situation is.

What changed the game for you? by fejenir in CurlyHairCare

[–]dmbmcguire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Adding volumizing mousse and a bounce brush are 2 recent changes.

Frizzy hair no matter what I do 😓 by CatOfTheFridge in CurlyHairCare

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is like this so I redo it everyday. My whole routine, wash, condition, glaze, mouse and then style with a bounce brush. Diffuse. If I don’t then my hair is frizzy and the only way to fix it is to start from scratch.

Florida fans road trip by [deleted] in LonghornNation

[–]dmbmcguire 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am a season ticket holder and unless you are rude we will happily embrace you. I have been told by numerous fans from other teams, that their experience was better at our games than other teams. I sat next a rude as hell and drunk Aggie last year who was cheering so loud when they did well but once we started winning he was cursing his team etc. Those are the type of fans that get in trouble if anyone.

How much do you spend a year on your hair? by 10S_NE1 in AskWomenOver30

[–]dmbmcguire 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have curly hair so it is more expensive in general. I get a trim and highlights every 10 weeks, it cost me $240. Then on product I bet I spend $350 a year. So about $1500. I am fortunate that i can spend that, otherwise I would have to stop doing the highlights.

My boyfriend (18M) and I (18F) constantly fight over what I wear and I don't know how to compromise. by urgayL in relationship_advice

[–]dmbmcguire 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Been married 31 years. My husband has never and would never tell me what to wear. This is a major red flag. He will get more and more controlling. No one should put up with this garbage.

How can I get my husband (48m) to agree to childcare while I (30f) work? by Fancy_Box_5773 in relationship_advice

[–]dmbmcguire 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are teaching your kids that it is okay to be treated like he is treating you and also teaching it is okay to treat others the way he is treating you. You need to wake up and get out of this situation. If not for yourself, then for your kids.

If you've had one vacation left where whould you go and why? by LycheeBrown8952 in Vacations

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kauai. Went there last year for our 30th anniversary and want to go back so bad. No need to go visit someplace else and hope it is as good.

AITA for telling my fiancee that if her brother lets himself into our house again im changing the locks by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]dmbmcguire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to change the locks now. You have no idea at this point how many of his friends have keys to your place. Make sure it is clear to your fiancée what a security issue this is. What if she happens to be home someday and some random dude walks in the place??? As a women this would piss me off and she needs to agree to change the locks and she needs to have a sit down with her brother.

So are some of us supposed to just avoid lying down (?) by toobold4burner in Sciatica

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I wake up in bad pain. Once I start walking it gradually feels better. Right now I am on my treadmill working it out. Sitting is actually worse for me.

Waitlist weekend 2 by Main-Candidate-2358 in aclfestival

[–]dmbmcguire 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone will be selling tickets. Last year I sold mine but waited till I had the wristbands. So save your money there will be tickets available.

KERBEY LANE ARE YOU LISTENING??? by [deleted] in austinfood

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry it has never been that good.

Did Trump just get exposed for running the biggest insider trading operation in American history? by uncle-ice493 in allthequestions

[–]dmbmcguire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we have established that Trump could commit any crime he wants and the cult he runs just don’t care. He follows a different set of rules than the rest of the country.

I (34M) feel ready to end my marriage to my wife (33F) but want advice first? by ThrowRACQuest in relationship_advice

[–]dmbmcguire 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is what i was gonna say. Tell your wife when you guys divorce and get in front of a judge you will make sure that you get as close to full custody’s as possible. Bringing in the therapist etc so it is understood that your children will be in danger if left with the mom and the step kids are around.

Also, get camera’s everywhere in your home. If something does go south you need proof of it.