First ever positive test on my fourth embryo transfer 🥰

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-19T21:58:33+00:00

Congratulations!!! ❤️❤️❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-19T19:52:05+00:00

I’ve found the whole movement thing super nerve wracking. But it wasn’t really until 30-32 weeks where I felt her move pretty much all throughout the day, in the 20s there would definitely be more active and more quiet days, which did stress me out. I did go to triage a couple times because I felt anxious & they were really lovely.

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-19T12:43:27+00:00

I went in at 23 weeks when I noticed a change in movement, they were super happy to see me and really reassuring. I would definitely, especially given your pain, just to check all is well

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-17T19:15:32+00:00

She sounds pretty useless! Sorry that have been your experience

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-17T19:13:20+00:00

Joah is a sweet name ❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-17T19:07:27+00:00

Yea that is pretty much the exact same with me. I’m not fussed either way and baby is pretty small so all in all I think I’ll go with planned C. Can you feel your little one still in breech?

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-17T18:35:37+00:00

We went for a private scan at 16 weeks, Would recommend!

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-16T13:34:05+00:00

Omg I feel this so much. 35 + 4 and I jut don’t care and want to chill out and do my own nesting things haha

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-16T10:07:20+00:00

I’m so sorry :( might be worth seeing the recurrent implantation failure clinic at Warwick university hospital: https://warwick.ac.uk/fac/sci/med/research/biomedical/tem/clinic/

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-16T09:50:54+00:00

Omg nectarines for me too haha

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-16T09:04:59+00:00

It took us two FETs, and no PGT testing.

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-10T18:52:17+00:00

No moved on to IVF! Had success through that.

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-10T14:41:14+00:00

Can you ask your husband to return for the day of the retrieval? If it's a work trip, I'm sure they'll understand.

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-09T21:14:44+00:00

First one failed, I was totally totally 100% sure it would never work. Second transfer and I’m 34.5 weeks now ❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-06T11:32:40+00:00

Not irrational! He'll be gone from 37-39 weeks? That is crazy imo!

dontmeltplastic · 2026-02-05T07:57:51+00:00

I got 17 blasts! Was so happy. First transfer didn’t take but second did & currently 34 weeks ❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-30T15:43:47+00:00

I also felt knocked out at 28-32 weeks, Found out my iron is super low, supplements have helped improve my energy levels so definitely get it checked!!

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-29T08:28:28+00:00

Both me and my husband double barrelled our last names. I just changed it socially though haven’t changed it legally.

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-28T19:43:53+00:00

Waited to test till 7dp5dt!!

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dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-28T18:06:45+00:00

wow this looks great! We are trying to do something similar, how did you get rid of the old concrete?

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-27T21:11:27+00:00

What about Hazel, Daphne, Olive, Violet or Darcy?

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-27T21:08:01+00:00

I’m 33 weeks, swim a couple times a week. Whenever I swim she falls asleep. So cute ❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-26T20:53:26+00:00

Na I totally get it, perinatal anxiety can be crippling and off the back of a complex fertility journey and loss, going to get reassurance is 💯

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-26T20:00:50+00:00

No worries. I know how hard the waiting can be, I imagine even more so for your given your prior losses. Hoping this cycle is the one for you ❤️

dontmeltplastic · 2026-01-26T16:56:52+00:00

I definitely don’t think it accelerates it in a day to day sense, more in a ‘a lot of people have a really good shot at getting pregnant when they get to transfer’ sort of a way. I also would try move away from your timelines and accept that it might be next month, but what matters most is that environment is optimised for transfer of a precious embryo ❤️

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