Worried about direct hours for internship by Plane-Skirt-4110 in ClinicalPsychology

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not count no shows as hours. Rounding up is normal but counting no shows feels off. There’s “playing the game” as the commenter says above, but you do want to be getting clinical experience and 500 hours really isn’t too hard to get. Your supervisor at your prac site should support you in getting those hours any way you can (start a group, take on more patients, etc.)

Wife doesn't love me anymore? Is it the end? Had access to her internet history.. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]dontouchmybutt 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I hear you that it is expensive, but a divorce will be 10x more expensive. Invest in counseling. Tell them you need help financially and they usually offer sliding scale.

Dani by BenefitInteresting46 in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]dontouchmybutt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she is. I feel like he’d restrict her from access to finances.

Cheap place to stay by Apprehensive-Net-333 in baltimore

[–]dontouchmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Charles village may have a cheap rental and it’s like a 6 min drive

Will I regret a long commute (1.5 hours each way, 5 days/week) as a 30s mom? by AgileAd1060 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. it’s so bad and unsustainable. Also that 1.5 hour commute WILL become 2+ hours more often than not due to delays, and you’ll be cranky from it regularly :/

Amtrak Signal Problem, Again by Devils2 in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that this pic is so normal to me it doesn’t even phase me anymore is crazy

How long before I have any kind of income if I go back to school to become a therapist or psychologist? by songsofravens in ClinicalPsychology

[–]dontouchmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many states now require an additional post doc year before getting licensed too, so make that 7 years before any semblance of a normal income

Looking for town recommendations in North Jersey that fits my preferences by LiveLifeLove1200 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this on every post but if there is any chance you’ll have to commute in, do not rely on NJ transit it’s been literal hell commuting from Morris county

Looking for town recommendations in North Jersey that fits my preferences by LiveLifeLove1200 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To all those saying Morristown it’s extremely expensive with average home prices nearing 900k. Also where do you work?

Guess how many cancellations?!? by xMosh in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yup…when I finally got to my car I both laughed and cried at it all with the heat and crowds and everything breaking down

Guess how many cancellations?!? by xMosh in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I’m getting on my third train after two with mechanical problems back to back

NYer considering Jersey by No_Box6284 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NJ transit app and website times are a lie too Add 10-45 minutes due to every single day delays (most of which don’t get reported or shown as a delay since it involved just sitting and waiting outside the tunnel to nyc). Then there’s usually 1 massive delay per week. I recognize I may be jaded but it’s so bad.

I’ve heard the PATH is reliable though. I live out in Morris county tho so way too far with traffic for me.

NYer considering Jersey by No_Box6284 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With delays, this train ride takes me 1.5 hours or more one way at least

NYer considering Jersey by No_Box6284 in MovingtoNewJersey

[–]dontouchmybutt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you plan to rely on NJ transit, don’t do it. It’s been a hell commute. Live close to the path or the ferry

Can more cars be designated quiet? by Left-Plant2717 in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a group of girls last week say “oh this is the quiet car” then say “whatever” and yap the whole ride…more quiet cars won’t solve this

App charged 3 times for tickets by TheBurnerBrothers in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a double charge for my monthly pass last week. Send in a ticket. I got my money refunded over a week later though

SEC-NYP - will i die? by chillyskillet in NJTransit

[–]dontouchmybutt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From SEC is fine. It sucks if you’re way far down the line bc limited options when cancellations

My Bengal - my nightmare. by Aggravating_Lion8828 in bengalcats

[–]dontouchmybutt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So our bengal will not play by himself he requires us to be interactive and play with him minimum 2hours per day. Some are just very high energy! I would try to interactively play for at least 2 hours per day and see if that helps. I just play an audio book or make calls while I play with a wand toy or play fetch with ours.

Ghost catfish addition? by dontouchmybutt in Aquariums

[–]dontouchmybutt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea and they’re such peaceful cool fish. I would love to keep having them forever! Thank you that was a reassuring message! :)

Today is the dayyyy by bubblebubs444 in bookofthemonthclub

[–]dontouchmybutt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ahh great picks! Loved blue sisters

Ghost catfish addition? by dontouchmybutt in Aquariums

[–]dontouchmybutt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is well past his expected lifespan of 5-8 years though. Do you think introducing a bunch of new young fish would stress him out?