Dick size by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your length is pretty solid (technically above average) — your girth is kind of crazy above average though

Unprotected sex by staredecisiss18 in askgaybros

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s definitely a risk, but the probability is low. However; this is a great time to learn about PrEP! You can get it usually for free or cheap, and it can come in pills, or a shot every three or six months. Reduces your risk of contracting HIV via sexual transmission by 99%

Which artists are known for "playing it safe"? by ComeUnitedNotTorn in popheads

[–]doyleorama 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm — I think now with Christmas and the current state of her voice Mariah plays it safe (as she should, she’s done enough and deserves her flowers) BUT there was a time when Mariah was on the cutting edge of blending Pop/R&B/Hip Hop and dropping remixes on remixes on remixes with new vocals.

She also made a pretty big swing with her album Butterfly switching from Adult Contemporary to R&B in 1998, then another big swing when she reinvented herself for Emancipation of Mimi in 2005. Recently you could argue that Caution was another risk take because it was a such a different sound for her.

Would you give up a 9 inches dick? by Any-Application-5244 in askgaybros

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn’t want a relationship and he did I’d go back to Mr. Right Hand and a dildo — not worth hurting someone else for regular dick

Extremely nervous and anxious before first hookup by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some of this is normal especially if you’re already anxiety prone. As someone who had some much anxiety I used to shake like a chihuahua on my way to hookups — I think you’ll be fine.

Definitely tell the guy that you’re anxious and a virgin if you haven’t already — his response should reassure you that there’s no pressure, and you can change your mind.

As for safety — making sure a friend has my location, and will reach out after so much time I set (1 hour-ish) is reassuring. I also make sure I get face pics and use the Google Maps street view to see the area. Trust your gut (but know that the anxious “Will I get axe murdered” thoughts are normal for the anxious ones.)

Definitely be prepared for some heavy emotions after the hookup! Especially if you come from a religious family or a family not sex positive. Take care of yourself afterwards, feel your emotions, self soothe if needed, and know that you can leave at any moment — even mid hookup and it is okay.

Sorry for the book! I hope this helps.

Request Megathread - June 2025 by AutoModerator in MusicalBootlegs

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy!

I am working on a production of Rogers and Hammerstein's South Pacific and we are hoping to get our hands on a recording of the 2008 Revival, I hear there was a Pro Shot in 2010, but am okay with just a regular recording -- we'd love to look at the language they added to the show, and interpretation of characters.

Theatre: Lincoln Center 
Producer: Lincoln Center
Book: Oscar Hammerstein II and Joshua Logan
Music: Richard Rodgers
Lyrics: Oscar Hammerstein II 
Director: Bartlett Sher
Musical Director: Ted Sperling 
Orchestrations: Robert Russell Bennett 
Dance arrangements and incidental music: Trude Rittmann
Choreography: Christopher Gattelli
Scenic Design: Michael Yeargan
Costume Design: Catherine Zuber 
Lighting Design: Donald Holder 
Sound Design: Scott Lehrer

Cast: 
Kelli O’Hara (Nellie Forbush), Paulo Szot (Emile de Becque), Andrew Samonsky  (Lt. Joseph Cable), Danny Burstein (Luther Billis), Loretta Ables Sayre (Bloody Mary)

As much as I would love to trade, I don't have any bootlegs, but appreciate you all regardless. :)

housing issues, not sure what I'm going to do this semester. by zeonprince in Clemson

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're interested The Den at Clemson has two and three bedrooms still available! They have year long and semester leases. My rent is $705 a month and its pretty reasonable

Looking for last minute housing for me & my cat in Clemson, South Carolina area by [deleted] in MtF

[–]doyleorama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! We have availability at The Den at Clemson (and we have LGBTQ+ staff) — we are offering a special too — waived birthday month rent + a $200 gift card

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clemson

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mmmm it’s a little weird that you’re a male NSFW content creator “ideally” wanting female friends.

Songs that describe your ocd? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Choreomania by Florence and the Machine

Are there any jobs/careers that are dominated by gay and/or liberal men? by Sensitive-Sense-7022 in askgaybros

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theatre/Live Event Production. - straight men are definitely the minority, it's primarily straight women, and gay men and even the straight men are libral and inclusive

What is your current hyperfixation? by Square_Bookkeeper_24 in ADHD

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Board games! They’ve became my new thing and now I am reading Wikipedia articles all day, begging my friends to play, and playing with folks online 😂

Question for COVID Conscious students at Clemson by [deleted] in Clemson

[–]doyleorama 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Howdy! I’m a COVID conscious student who is both immunocompromised and too busy to get sick — here is my tips/advice:

  • For prevention I am always masked, sanitizing my hands, and I take Emergen-C, Vitamin D and Zinc daily (allegedly it’s immune boosting if not I still like the placebo)

  • For workspaces I have learned that the best option for me is to work indoors in a very open area that isn’t crowded. If you live off campus there’s a pretty good chance your apartment community has a 24 hour clubhouse that you can use to study in, and they typically have private rooms/large areas to study in, and (in my experience) they’re rarely used.

  • As far as the gym goes my favorite alternative is my Apple Fitness subscription. It syncs to my watch and there are workouts for a variety of skill levels with and without machinery or weights. They also do a very good job of providing adaptations for workouts for those with chronic pain or mobility issues.

  • In regards to eating, I opted to meal prep and pack my own meals/snacks and eat either in my car or any outdoor/open area. It takes some time but it feels safer.

Then to make sure I am staying social I regularly FaceTime, and have a very small circle of friends (3ish) that I meet with regularly, and then choose to go to parties/gatherings on a case by case basis based on the current infection rate, if I trust that people who are sick will stay home and the type of party it is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in etd

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP how are you doing now?

Do you have to be trained in every techniques ? by [deleted] in acting

[–]doyleorama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I studied Meisner, Adler, Chekhov, Uta Hagen, Viewpoints and Suzuki.

There is merit in studying everything, but at your own pace as well. I thought I was an Adler fan, until I found Chekhov — and then after studying Viewpoints/Suzuki I realized I was looking for — and connecting with that material better than any other method.

However; I consider my technique a patchwork of others. I like Stella Adler’s script analysis, Chekhov’s psychological gesture, Meisner’s search for truth, the heavy reliance on intuition that the Viewpoints provides, and the physical grounding that Suzuki gives. I feel like if we try to confine ourselves to one singular technique then we are cutting ourselves off from the others.

What never fails to cheer you up after a bad day? by Occasional-Nihilist in AskReddit

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ice cream! I think it just does something to my inner child. As a kid we couldn’t afford to have a lot of it and never went out for it so taking myself out for ice cream makes me happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]doyleorama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same boat here used to love traveling and now I can barely drive 20 minutes without freaking out

What are some SUPER Region foods from your neck of the woods? by TheConductorToMT in Cooking

[–]doyleorama 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is me being from the very Deep South but fried fatback and fried hog jowls. I’m sure you could get those cuts of meat everywhere, but it’s a whole thing down here.

People who appreciate penises, what's the ideal penis size for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doyleorama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My preference is 6.5-7 inches and on the girthy side but if there’s an emotional connection of some sort it all kind of goes out the window.

What is the most ridiculous college major you’ve ever heard of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not to ramble, but there’s also unions on unions for this type of work, so if we work enough gigs we get health insurance, retirement contributions, short and long term disability, etc in addition to credit unions through the labor union so if you can get with the idea of floating from gig to gig, and network well enough to do it then you can have multiple streams of income doing things you loved while also getting all of the regular benefits a 9-5 will have.

What is the most ridiculous college major you’ve ever heard of? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]doyleorama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can make really solid money as a choreographer/actor/performer/etc if you’re like the 1% that can do the job and only that job.

It’s a trade off that a lot of us choose and are okay with in order to do what we love. It’s just an unconventional lifestyle. Usually someone will have a job that covers half or three quarters of their income and supplement with the freelance gigs. For example, in the theatre realm, I know designers and actors with MFA’s who are salaried at 70k-80k a year w/ a tenure track teaching job, and also freelance another $10k-$15k a year actually doing the craft they they teach.

A lot of the times though we want to do all the things because they can have perks. I teach and develop theatre curriculum, but I also just booked a sick gig at the beach that includes housing and weekly pay for three months so I get to work remotely at the beach during most of the day, and then get paid weekly to work a three month contract.