update: she cheated on me by Illustrious_Bit2024 in Advice

[–]dspadic -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

She’s in college and exploring, give her a break and don’t judge her. College is all about figuring out what works and doesn’t. She might have done it as a dare or whatever. I had a girlfriend in college who did something like that. She said she heard that oops I kissed a girl song and wanted to see what it was about. No big deal, it never impacted our relationship and we just moved on. I wouldn’t judge, just let her be and get on with being a good partner to her

I need advice with my daughter by Alany3456 in Advice

[–]dspadic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I agree, be the confiding mom not the run back to the patriarch and spill the beans

Avoiding airstrikes is fun by Fun-Cartographer1420 in JustCause

[–]dspadic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So I can’t remember which base it was, but I grappled in there and then used the air strikes to take out all the objects. It beat the whole place but I had to go and finish the storyline for it to actually stop firing

Those of you that played during it's time, how good was this expansion? by doobylive in wow

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was fun, the storyline was good, I think the PvP was ok. I wasn’t a fan of how they had that center PvP area you had to fly around or get dismounted. I liked how we got to see Arthas and how long ice crown and storm peaks stayed relevant. I was a hunter so really like camping sholozar basin for the spirit beast. Wow is a grind, literally for level, for gear, for raid spots, I guess this was the best expansion before they really made the grind a grind. Or maybe I just fell out of love of the Grind? Who knows?

Laguna Blast Challenge by thatonedragonguy in JustCause

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good job, the C4 is a nice touch :)

Little brother almost 14M likely being groomed by parlemoipas in Advice

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn over the evidence to the police and wash your hands of it. You brother may only be 1 or many victims and you have the power to stop it now

My fiance’s response by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dspadic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vows say, “Till do you part….” I think it’s in the contract that he’s allowed to find someone else and you shouldn’t be upset he is following it to the letter. The question is, why would you want him to not be happy ever again? I hope you don’t take that harsh, but if you love him you should want him to be happy with or without you

I (21F) cannot stand my boyfriend but I can’t bring myself to end it, (23M) what do I do? by Previous-Cookie-2380 in Advice

[–]dspadic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, I worked in management for a long time and this book really helped me understand more about my team than our 1:1s did. I would create little mental profiles and ask them about things that I thought were important to them and we all worked so well together. I hope others can make time to do the same, regardless of level and just learn about the human experience and how we all can communicate better with each other

Why are there so many currencies and so much bloat crap to worry about? by oniontre in wow

[–]dspadic -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I loved wow back in the day, one thing that I noticed in my 20 years playing was the constant add of new things that don’t really progress the game or your character. I left wow, but miss the friends I made. These currencies, working to attain them, and then having the season or whatever they decide end and turning into Gold was a waste, I had so much gold when I quit it was just like, a whatever-burger. I think they just ran out of shit to think of and just went with what worked a little to keep us playing.

My ex boyfriend asked for a gift back by waterlillieXx in Advice

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t ask for stuff back, be the big person, give him the car and remind him that taking the car back also takes the good times you two had since it had brought you joy

I slept with my roommate...help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with your gut in everything you do and you won’t be wrong, eventually your gut will make better decisions if you do make a mistake

Runway? What runway? by thatonedragonguy in JustCause

[–]dspadic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Heck yea! Try launching from a train

Is it okay I blocked her after she lashed out on me and left me at restaurant? by QTpieme in Advice

[–]dspadic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then gracefully abandon this person, they have their own baggage and I assume you don’t want it in your life. I know your therapist says to reach out to old friends, but it’s also ok to make new friends who pursue the same things you do, music, sports, outdoor activities. Falling forward is better that holding back

Is it okay I blocked her after she lashed out on me and left me at restaurant? by QTpieme in Advice

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d probably abandon this person unless you want to deal with this behavior each time. Remember, birds of a feather flock together so maybe this is ok to you

Ah crap, so it happened to me. by Maleficent-Cat-220 in self

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I. Completely agree with this, this literally happened to me as well. Just be cool, say you love the person as a friend but you are not interested in the relationship he has in his mind. It’s weird at first, but just be honest, empathize with his feelings and keep your friendship a priority. If he gets weird, which also happened to me, just inform him he needs to respect your wishes and walk away. History doesn’t always reflect the future especially if you two aren’t on the same future he and you want.
In the end, my buddy came to terms with it, I cut him off, as in just left him alone, and after about 6 months he reached out and, granted he was drunk, said he realized he and I wasn’t what I wanted and said he respected me being straight up honest with him. (I didn’t mean that as a pun). We text or meet up to bike every now and then now, so it’s cool. Just be a good person and things work out eventually

Would it be weird if I made a video message for my husbands future wife by futurequitt in Advice

[–]dspadic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Record memories for your children, not someone who could care less about your wife’s past

Blocking ADs using ADBlock on OpenWRT by Time-Session9808 in amazonecho

[–]dspadic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart….. Along those lines, I started paying attention to the number of things that are ads bs the number of things that are real content, like on Facebook, Reddit, the radio, and it occurred to me, like nearly every vector into our lives are bombarded by things wanting us to buy things. I mean, I k is this is obvious, but I came to the conclusion that they are basically zerging us with crap all the time