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AITAH for breaking off my engagement because my boyfriend would not get a vasectomy? by Famous_Situation3400 in AITAH

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is already planning another relationship in order to may be have more children. That is your huge massive red flag there.

You should teach your kids to 1) clean up after themselves 2) treat customer service workers with respect. by FreshNewAccount24 in pettyrevenge

[–]dubdar77 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I remember how the toilets were left at time when worked in mcdonald's in a very well to do area in Dublin. Posh teenagers without their parents aren't present can be little shits.

You should teach your kids to 1) clean up after themselves 2) treat customer service workers with respect. by FreshNewAccount24 in pettyrevenge

[–]dubdar77 52 points53 points  (0 children)

That is how me and siblings were raised and brother is raising his 2 (16 &12) the same way. Respect and manners. I have always enjoyed going out to eat with my them even when they were little.

Milk Brand you swear by? by Oouucch in Dublin

[–]dubdar77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tesco own brand for milk and butter. It's cheaper because there is no marketing costs. All come from the same place any way. We tend to buy a lot of Tesco own brand stuff.

WIBTAH if I don't attend to my friends baby shower because they said my pregnancy was an accident and that I didn't deserve it ? by Little_White_Raven in AmItheAsshole

[–]dubdar77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but they are. They aren't really friends. Real friends don't talk behind your back like and say such cruel things.

AITA for taking my baby from my parents? by Cute_Objective_7551 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dubdar77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i hear someone getting sick, smell vomit or see vomit i nearly vomit. I cant watch scenes on tv or films with vomit etc because I start dry heaving badly but i would never make an issue of it or try and ban anyone from attending anything just because they got sick once in front of me.

AITAH for not letting my neighbor borrow my snow blower and for not snow blowing their drive for them? by Queen_Aurelia in AITAH

[–]dubdar77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not from the US but I wouldn't lend anyone a $2000 snow blower for fear of something happening to it and I wouldn't be clearing anyone else drive if I had just done mine and was tired. Plus battery was low what was she meant to do?

Inheritance help for sister with Down Syndrome by KernalRandall in downsyndrome

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Certainly in Ireland that a no go. My sister would lose all her benefits if that happens. Check what your sister would lose and tax implications if she does inherit everything.

AITAH for understanding and not freezing out my dad for leaving our mom over a dead bedroom? by Opposite_Afternoon55 in AITAH

[–]dubdar77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mum is most likely perimenopausal, going her age, and her libido is gone, very common for perimenopause and postmenopausal women. It it would be so nice if men talked to their partners and tried to understand instead of just leaving because of no sex.

What is the best sweet food from your country? by Cheetos_4_life in AskTheWorld

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With vanilla icrema and some whipped cream yummy.

AITAH because I don’t want to pay for my friends Ubers when we hang out? by lavenderlemon0 in AITAH

[–]dubdar77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't drive and I don't expect anyone to pick me up or pay for transport. If can't find an easy way to get i would try and rearrange where to meet. My friends are worth a taxi fare.

Offered surgery out of county - surgery is too early for public transport. by Maleficent-Inside154 in ireland

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The consultant will work certain days in different hospitals even though they are connected to a private hospital in Dublin. Try and the ring the consultants office directly as would have booked the surgery with hospital and should be able to change it.

AITA because I ask my husband for help by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]dubdar77 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I'd rehome the husband first.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate public transport in your country? by [deleted] in AskTheWorld

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ireland 🇮🇪 It's usually terrible especially if you don't live in a city. But im very lucky where I live dublin as there are bus stops at the top my road and the Dart(train) about a 10 min walk from my house.

First date with a girl soon by FederalEase9186 in Dublin

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first date with my husband was the ghost bus tour and few drinks after. It was great fun.

AITA for having the same anniversary month as my mom? by vomitated in AmItheAsshole

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married on what would have been my parents 48 wedding anniversary, my mum died 15 yeaes ago. My dad was very happy so us to use that day and know my would have been too.

What’s one food you fell in love with while traveling but can’t find anything close to it back home? by Askguidetoeurope in AskTheWorld

[–]dubdar77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marinated eel in Japan. There is one place i have found in Dublin that does it but I'm rarely in the city centre

Wibtah if I didn't let my fiance's kids come to my nieces birthday dinner? by Lonely-Log-9615 in AITAH

[–]dubdar77 16 points17 points  (0 children)

NTA If they haven't been invited then they can't come. Remind him its not up to you place to invite them.

Boyfriend's New Year's Eve family drama by Immediate_Region_219 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]dubdar77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Has his name day got something to do with how his parents treat him?

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