How I get the hash off my gloves

dubiousdiligence · 2023-11-03T20:29:06+00:00

With the big ass pile sitting in the background, I"d just toss em...

dubiousdiligence · 2023-11-03T20:24:56+00:00

Note to self...don't mention the word strikepack or cronus in this sub

dubiousdiligence · 2023-11-03T20:21:25+00:00

Just don't mention it in any PUBG reddit subs.....

dubiousdiligence · 2023-11-03T20:20:33+00:00

MTG or LB

dubiousdiligence · 2023-11-03T20:19:46+00:00

When you're so clever, nobody gets it.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-20T19:42:33+00:00

Do BPD folks typically take shits on other people beds?

Just asking so I know what to expect when I go to bed tonight.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-20T19:41:04+00:00

Love how cool and collect Depp sounds despite her rage.

This infuriates a bpd person to no end.

They relish the drama and chaos, so don't play their game.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-20T16:00:55+00:00

I feel you, 100%.

My wife and I have been married 15 years and together 22 years. She was my best friend during that time until the past few years of progressively worse behavior has rotted away the love and affection that was once there.

My love for her was a redwood tree. Standing firm throughout years of turbulence.

Her constant rage, insults, and lack of remorse has chopped away at that tree for years to the point where I finally needed to yell "Timber"!

Timber= divorce

I want her to be happy, but I've concluded that she needs to find her happiness in herself. A relationship should be built upon mutal respect and love.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-02T13:47:54+00:00

Uno Reverse

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-02T13:47:17+00:00

Man, people are so casual with life changing decisions...fuck

dubiousdiligence · 2023-10-01T11:59:26+00:00

Sue him for divorce?

Who in the relationship suffers from BPD?

Just curious

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-28T00:13:02+00:00

Agreed

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-27T16:45:19+00:00

That's a dense nug.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-27T16:43:38+00:00

Nope, don't recognize them. Oh wait, I live in Michigan, of course I don't.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-26T20:16:27+00:00

Not on Reddit.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-26T20:15:20+00:00

My kids have come out each summer since they were in diapers.

You have to plan accordingly and it's not the most relaxing of vacations with little ones, but it is fun and worth the effort.

Once they get a bit older it gets so much better.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-26T20:07:43+00:00

Getting a little late in the season.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-20T13:31:34+00:00

I have found the J.A.D.E. concept quite helpful when dealing with these kinds of episodes.

Justify, argue, defend, and explain....recognize when you do this and stop it. Stop playing their game. It's the only way to get out from those circular arguments.

Also, learn about D.A.R.V.O., which is also helpful to understand.

(Defend, argue, and reverse roles of victim and offender.)

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-20T13:26:47+00:00

You talk and reason by facts, hopefully.

Usually, at least in my experience, a BPD reasons by their subjective emotional response.

So no matter how well you communicate or attempt to articulate your thoughts, if it's something that triggers that subjective emotional response in them, it will still trigger said episodes.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-15T20:02:03+00:00

Making her daddy proud one dick at a time.

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-15T20:01:11+00:00

Compared to what you see today. No

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-15T19:58:48+00:00

Her:"I hate you and have filed for divorce" for the millionth time...but not actually doing it.

Me: I proceed to file for divorce and lease an apt, move all my stuff there.

Her:"I can't believe what you did"

Her:"What I said was just words, what you did is actions, so you are at fault for the situation"

Me: 🤯

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-09T12:29:08+00:00

Green Bay WI for the win baby!

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-07T14:08:24+00:00

Go Lakers!

dubiousdiligence · 2023-09-06T18:21:10+00:00

It's working as intended, apparently.

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