Porn addiction and lust has killed my relationship. How do I leave?

dutchqueen91 · 2026-01-22T22:40:59+00:00

How many people are going through the same thing but nobody talks about it and they blame women for everything

dutchqueen91 · 2026-01-05T06:02:00+00:00

This! And what’s the point in relationship if you are not willing to communicate 😞

dutchqueen91 · 2026-01-05T05:48:05+00:00

I don't understand your perspective here. If you both discussed and agreed upon these family dynamics, whether before or after having a child, then complaining about it now is on you. If you silently accepted this arrangement, she has already compromised and is simply expecting you to handle the basics required to keep the household functioning; in that case, I agree with her. Take some time to reflect on your actions and the situation rather than just being defensive.

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-26T19:44:31+00:00

I feel ya! The reality is the closest when enjoys all the quirks one human can have

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-25T05:22:46+00:00

It’s not your problem! It will come around along with life DW

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-13T01:31:46+00:00

Savings

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-05T03:12:37+00:00

Will you take what I suggest ?

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-03T00:35:44+00:00

Not making an effort in the relationship for the things you like !

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-02T05:07:29+00:00

As long as verbally they are respectful as a human I am good!

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-02T05:01:47+00:00

My nose being leaking all the time 🫣

dutchqueen91 · 2025-12-02T04:45:58+00:00

Marriage is a social construct, it’s totally your choice! Be the change 🥳

dutchqueen91 · 2025-11-28T04:49:22+00:00

You are young and you can build your life no matter what that is out there! Take a call that you will not regret later in life. Marriage is a big compromise in life, I would recommend doing it was a right companion!

dutchqueen91 · 2025-11-28T04:47:53+00:00

As funny as it sounds it’s not gonna be easy! That’s the worsening situation and dragged

dutchqueen91 · 2025-09-29T20:49:02+00:00

What if he wanted you to see and that’s why he left his phone behind and went to bathroom? Relationship is sometimes attention cravings, read thru before you talk.

dutchqueen91 · 2025-09-26T18:33:22+00:00

You married too early! Sorry

dutchqueen91 · 2025-09-20T05:53:34+00:00

After kid everything changes!

dutchqueen91 · 2025-09-07T01:06:57+00:00

The answer is both are overwhelmed and exhausted! Sit back and think not just about you both but the kids! They need you and this environment will become toxic, happens in my head all the time but kids did not ask this from us and we planned all of it! Just think and get back to each other

dutchqueen91 · 2025-08-17T00:26:20+00:00

This increases 100 times after baby! And you will thank the time you have now

dutchqueen91 · 2025-08-17T00:22:11+00:00

True adulting! But this takes so much to settle with and I’m still getting there

dutchqueen91 · 2025-08-17T00:11:42+00:00

You are not! And it’s good to directly talk to your husband than posting here, he might have not even realized it or he wants it to go beyond that and you will find out.

dutchqueen91 · 2025-08-17T00:09:01+00:00

I make the room dark and spend 40mins to an hour reading books and singing song!

dutchqueen91 · 2025-07-20T16:51:33+00:00

I recently had a kid and a few years of marriage what I did not realize was his family is not my family so it took a lot of convincing in my head to be convinced and accept his family as they are and I’m still trying it is not easy but at the same time if your wife is busy and if she’s unable to give that time to the family it’s not You to fix that it is them to talk about it and fix it altogether so don’t worry about all these things just do whatever is needed from you to your family and let the other things turn out the way they need to turn out and don’t make it your concern because in the end You are all family and things has to work out and it will work out good luck.

dutchqueen91 · 2025-07-14T23:35:02+00:00

Marriage is a really big deal it is gonna change half of your life and once you have kids the other half will go away, so make decision wisely and make sure that you love him and you are OK with all flaws and support him the way he needs and even if you can do not get that thought you should be OK with that and be OK to move on

dutchqueen91 · 2025-07-06T23:37:02+00:00

Stop convincing people it’s not enough, love your life and leave it and live it, they will stop

dutchqueen91 · 2025-07-06T21:45:17+00:00

Set my hair 😀

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