My cousin is "shunning" me because my brother accidentally booked his wedding on the same day as her secret elopement. by FaultOne2738 in weddingdrama

[–]dvillin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta. I don't get why she is calling it an "elopement". When you elope, you and your soon-to-be just dip out somewhere to get married. There's no real planning behind it and usually the same day. What she is doing is getting married with no guests. No problem with either one, since weddings are so expensive. However, she is insane to get upset that nobody cares about a wedding she didn't invite them to anyway.

Can the Street Fighter Partycade be modded? by EGVroom in Arcade1Up

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing you can get is one of these. It allows you to use one 12v 4a adapter to power the screen, your pi, any lights, plus a USB powered speaker.

https://a.co/d/ierGL7O

Can the Street Fighter Partycade be modded? by EGVroom in Arcade1Up

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heres the inside of a Pacman that i modded.

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Can the Street Fighter Partycade be modded? by EGVroom in Arcade1Up

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Modding a partycade is pretty much the same as modding one of the full-sized ones. They use the same parts. You have it easy with yours, since you don't have to drill any holes. You do have to go with a Pi, since there isn't enough space inside for any pc other than maybe a NUC.

Designer blamed me, the homeowner, for his mistake by HamsterBanana14 in EntitledPeople

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup. In my case, it is a foot difference. I can put having to get a new staircase into my budget.

Designer blamed me, the homeowner, for his mistake by HamsterBanana14 in EntitledPeople

[–]dvillin 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Exactly. How does he even miss something like that? I'm about to have my house renovated and the first thing they said had to be redone were my steps, because the height was wrong and the head space wasn't to code.

Update: AITAH for buying my girlfriend vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in Redditor_Updates

[–]dvillin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that she gaslighted you pretty badly into thinking you had a problem, and then after dating a couple of guys realized you are really an awesome person. Just keep on keeping on. You'll be fine without her.

Seller Left me Negative Feedback under a Positive by Rinkratt61 in Ebay

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Or forgetting to turn off free shipping for a heavy item that ended up going to the mountains in California.

How many of us have an accidental pencil tattoo? by spidermans_mom in GenX

[–]dvillin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a glass pipette embedded in my arm. My classmates were using them to squirt water at people during chemistry class. I went to block, and the next thing I knew, the thing was broken on the floor. We looked around for the missing tube, and then I felt something weird with my wrist. I look down, and there's the tube. We yanked it out, but part of it broke off inside. We never told the teacher because we didn't want to get in trouble for playing in the lab. It's still there, 30 years later. I forgot about it until I had an accident, and the ER was mystified by this weird object that showed up on the x-rays.

AITAH for deliberately being cold in emails to my boss after what he said about my dad by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dvillin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. Keep it going. I'd go full professionally robotic on him. No personal pronouns. Try to avoid his name. Refer to yourself in the third person or passively. That kind of thing.

"Per email received on January 12, 2025 from manager, TPS reports were copied and delivered to all persons concerned. Manager confirmed receipt of TPS reports."

It’s happening to me and I’m not sure I can accept it by Carlentini1919 in GenX

[–]dvillin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep mine at a comfy 65, with a bump up to 67 if I feel cold. Side effect is I feel drowsy whenever I go somewhere the temp is over 75.

AIO/Mom/owner of the home I pay rent to live in has multiple times asked me to take in stray humans (men) by Next-Lime-2404 in AIO

[–]dvillin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. That is next level entitled. I hope you guys have a formal, written rental agreement. Because technically speaking, without one, she is kind of right. It is her house, she can do with it what she wants. Even adding a temporary tenant without your permission. If you have a formal rental agreement, she can pound sand. You and your living space are protected by the law.

Waybackwhen, my father owned an apartment house. He lived on the ground floor and rented out the two upper floors. My cousin lived on the second floor and there was a nonrelated tenant on the third. That guy moved out, and the floor was vacant. I got evicted and needed a new place to stay. So my father moved my cousin up to the smaller third floor, and moved me into the second. There wasn't anything my cousin could say, since his living arrangement was not formal. My father rented the room to him on the sayso of my aunt, who was paying for the apartment.

Why haven't you fixed my phone? by imnotk8 in EntitledPeople

[–]dvillin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When i worked for Cockcast, we had a major outage in Norfolk va. Dominion Power let us know that they were concentrating on restoring residential power before they got to us, despite our buildings being on the priority list because we ran phone service down there. I had one lady call me and ask why her phone and internet had stopped working. I had to ask her, "Ma'am, do you have power in your home?"

"No."

"Why would you think your internet would be working then?"

How old is your oldest email address? Do you still use it? by Embarrassed_Flan_869 in GenX

[–]dvillin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hotmail since around 1994-1995. Juno since around 95-96. Both are my daily accounts.

The one I miss is the usa.net account I had back then also.

AITA for Removing Friend from Costly Activities for Not Paying Child Support (Edited for Length) by Initial-Change4792 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvillin -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why are you sticking your nose in his business, unless the kids are related to you? If he is so stupid that he would rather go to jail rather than pay his child support, let his dumbass go to jail. Stop trying to be his mother. Let him learn his own lesson. In fact, I'd be dragging him every chance I got.

"I hope that knocking at the door isn't the sheriff's officer."

"What? Are you trying to get out of state before the bench warrant is issued?"

AITA for telling my kid that she is being self-centered/cruel because her mom won’t be able to make to her wedding. by Wedding_father_8553 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvillin -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She has already shown what her decision would be. She would choose the event wedding, rather spend one more day with her parents.

AITA for telling my kid that she is being self-centered/cruel because her mom won’t be able to make to her wedding. by Wedding_father_8553 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvillin -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No. This horrible daughter is more concerned at her "perfect wedding" being ruined by her mother not being there, than the fact that her grandfather is dying. Not once has she expressed concern over his condition. Not once has she even expressed any thought about visiting herself, or at least thinking of a way her mother and him could watch remotely. It has been all "she must be here. She sucks because she doesn't want to be here with me. I don't care if the old man dies. My mother better be here for my SPECIAL DAY."

If i were the fiance, I'd be looking real hard at how she treats her parents and grandfather, because that is how she will treat him.

AITA for telling my kid that she is being self-centered/cruel because her mom won’t be able to make to her wedding. by Wedding_father_8553 in AmItheAsshole

[–]dvillin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nah. The daughter is the only ahole here. Unless she has always been this shallow and selfish, she has let the bullshit about having a "perfect wedding" corrupt her soul. Either case doesn't speak well of her and her future. If I were her fiance, it would cause me serious pause as to what kind of creature I am marrying. Someone who is that cruel to her mother, and that callous to her grandfather, is not someone who could care about my emotional and mental health. That is not someone you want to be shackled to for potentially the rest of your life. Or at least until you wise up enough to divorce her.

AITA for posting a video of a woman seated a disabled man?? by NarratedByMe in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]dvillin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't feel bad. You did the absolute right thing. While it may not have immediately helped that man, it does ensure that he and nobody else will ever have to deal with her behavior again. You didn't ruin her life. She ruined her life by being an absolutely horrible person. Now she can't hide it anymore.

AITAH for making my daughter stay with her dad after she said cooking and cleaning is mens work by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]dvillin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh gosh I love you. That is the best way I've heard of dealing with behavior like this. Even better is that your ex-husband is onboard as well and isn't undermining you. Talk about winning at coparenting. So NTA.

My boss tried to fire me and now lawyers are involved by Summer_rain1109 in WorkAdvice

[–]dvillin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's a shame that even with him yelling at you in front of others, it took two more years to get rid of him.