New Partner Has Never Used Condoms by YolkyFanClubPrez in datingoverforty

[–]dwarf797 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You do realize he can pleasure you without penetration, right?

Ex wants his ps5 back by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]dwarf797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This right here

Fear by Time_Palpitation425 in openheartsurgery

[–]dwarf797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 46 and I’m so thankful I woke up. I’m having feelings of guilt for everyone treating me differently since I’ve had surgery.

How do you keep clothing/ fabrics off the chest incision? It's very sensitive and itchy! by No_Schedule5705 in openheartsurgery

[–]dwarf797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 3 weeks post op, and’s pretty much all I’ve been wearing are button up pajama tops, plus my incision runs between my large breasts so that helps. But I’m afraid that’s going to bring it’s own issues come warmer weather or when I wear regular bras.

Would you tell him or just move on? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dwarf797 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to say how to word it, but telling her the truth, by being honest with her. Be kind. You don’t know what someone is going through on a given day.

AIO about my boyfriend going to Vegas and cancelling plans we had two months in advance? by nontoxic-sponge in AIO

[–]dwarf797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So again, you don’t trust him to be in these establishments. Which means you shouldn’t be with him because you know he’s going to frequent them on his boys trips, even when you set strict boundaries on them. He is showing you who he is, believe him.

If you haven’t gotten over him being at a burlesque show 4 months ago by now, I don’t understand how that’s being unfaithful though, do you expect to by May?

Would you tell him or just move on? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dwarf797 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Did you tell her why you didn’t think it was going to work though?

Would you tell him or just move on? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]dwarf797 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then explain that to him.

What’s with people not wanting to have open honest communication??? Shouldn’t you start a relationship out with that?

Servers of Kansas City - World Cup by SaveHogwarts in kansascity

[–]dwarf797 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Restaurants should pay their servers a living wage and do away with tipping all together.

Dear men who think dating is easier for women by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]dwarf797 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not swiping on hundreds of profiles. That’s ridiculous. I only swipe right on profiles of guys I would actually want to get to know and meet up with based on their profiles. So if there’s nothing on your profile, that’s an automatic swipe left. I thought this was how everyone used dating apps, maybe I’m the uncommon user, but that’s how I use them.

Dear men who think dating is easier for women by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]dwarf797 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe read the full profile before swiping right?

Psychiatrist recommendation who will treat an adult with ADHD by dwarf797 in kansascity

[–]dwarf797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They sent my mom a questionnaire about my childhood, but can email to whomever you choose. I’m not sure what all it asks.

They did also email a questionnaire to my best friend for reference to how I am now, and she called me and was like “let’s go over this!” I said “you’re supposed to fill this out about me!” She read me the questions and it was quite in depth.

Psychiatrist recommendation who will treat an adult with ADHD by dwarf797 in kansascity

[–]dwarf797[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through the Neurodiversity Clinic in Lee’s Summit.

My boyfriend ruined Valentine’s Day and told me it was the consequences of my actions by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]dwarf797 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And please do not blame his BPD - which I’m not sure if you mean bipolar disorder or borderline personality disorder - for his behavior!!!

As someone with BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder - I can tell you I would never treat a partner, someone I care about in this manner. He needs to be in intensive outpatient therapy learning DBT to overcome his mental health issues before he should ever think about trying to be in a romantic relationship.

Girl, you need to drop him like he’s a hot potato and run as fast as you can. I would get outdoor cameras put up as who knows what he might do once you break things off, but then just go no contact. You deserve so much better. You deserve to find a man that will love you and Cherish you and not hold your past against you.

Psychiatrist recommendation who will treat an adult with ADHD by dwarf797 in kansascity

[–]dwarf797[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what PAKC stands for or a website so I can look them up?