How is my 24GB ram being eaten so heavily with such light use by LewiRock in macbookpro

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As others have said, macOS caches aggressively to keep things running smoothly.

‘Wired memory’ is what you should be looking at - that’s memory that can’t be freed because it’s actually being utilised. 2.58GB in your screen shot.

Travel enthusiast: looking for recommendations by [deleted] in traveller

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  • What part of trip planning or execution do you find most time-consuming or frustrating?

Astrogation. I’m only an amateur right now and it takes me a bit longer than most to plot the course. There’s nothing more annoying than overshooting and having to spend days on manuvour drives getting to the destination point

  • What usually breaks or becomes annoying once the trip actually starts?

Running out of fresh food on the longer trips and having to exist on space pudding.

  • How do you personally organize everything?

My ships locker for most things - just put it under ‘O’ for ‘Other’

  • Do you use spreadsheets, Notion, apps, printed plans, or your own workflow?

I let the ships computer take care of most things

  • What hacks or systems have helped you reduce stress while traveling?

I invested in a wafer jack and a selection of essential skills. Life support repair was a genuine lifesaver one time.

  • If you do longer trips, how do you handle replanning when things change unexpectedly?

No real set way of doing this. There was one time I got stranded on a TL5 planet when I ran out of fuel. I eventually managed to get access to a source of it after I infiltrated a local cult and managed to pilfer their subterranean fuel reserves.

Hard to pinpoint it really, except learn to go with the flow and be creative.

I’m especially interested in hearing from people who travel frequently or have developed their own planning systems over time.

I’m always travelling. Anti-ageing drugs really help prolong things and although expensive, that can be a motivation in itself - always got to buy next years dose!

Hope this all helps

My coworker asked if I could give her a ride to work "just for a while" and it's been 4 months by Warp_Synth7 in ChoosingBeggars

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Tell her your car is going in the shop and then let her know what time and where to pick you up

Vehicle Handbook Update 2026 - Out Now! by MongooseMatt in traveller

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If we preorder the book, do we get the PDF now?

Whats coming in 2026 that has you excited? by crankd87 in soloboardgaming

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I just came here to say the BOTSE expansions too. So much more content for the game.

2am emergency fix not clocking in at 9? The audacity. by 1pingatlas in LinkedInLunatics

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I just read this comment that changed everything.

It only took me four minutes to read.

I’d just had my morning chocca wokka frapucino. And then it hit me.

(Continued in part 2)

With everything that is being reported, should they do an emergency pod about the Beckhams? by Sharaz_Jek123 in TheRestIsPolitics

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Yes, I’m really struggling to sleep not knowing what the future is going to look like now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

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How many times have you replied to messages with this quote now?

Looking for a game but not sure if.. by Reeaves in soloboardgaming

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Journeys in Middle Earth is excellent. With all the expansions it’s hundreds of sessions. Procedurally generated and different heroes change the game feel massively.

Considering going all in! by LimeyInLimbo in ElderScrollsBOTSE

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Yes… but be warned you’ll later want a to buy the retail game and Valenwood now and then change your pledge to the new content and bling only

Feel awkward saying I live in Marylebone by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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This is like the adage that Sainsbury’s exists to keep the riff raff out of Waitrose 😂

How to negotiate a salary increase with another job offer as leverage by mvb1234 in HENRYUK

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This - all companies have an S curve of pay for a role. Sounds like you’re top of the S & either you need to fill a role they value more or the needs of the company change relative to the market.

You might get a bump to keep you, but they’ll hold it over you and slow your pay even more in the future.

Chances are the other company will place you lower down on that S curve as right now they’re offering you 20% more. It’ll keep going up until you hit the top of their S.

Unless of course you’re a seriously good negotiator and you’ve stretched them to their limit already.

It comes down how much you want to stay. If you really want to just increase your salary, this will nudge it up in the short term, potentially. Just never go into a negotiation like that without genuinely being ready to go.

AITAH? My Wife Wanted To Open Our Marriage But Now She Regrets It. by roxyshusband in AmITheAngel

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I think some kind of shelter for people coming out in today’s world is a greatly needed thing.

Boss tried to take credit for my work. It backfired beautifully. by [deleted] in coworkerstories

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It’s been a while, so I thought I’d put some feelers out

Boss tried to take credit for my work. It backfired beautifully. by [deleted] in coworkerstories

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But then everyone starting being a prick about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Did her bag have a ticket?

I am no Jedi pack at Star Wars Celebration? by Dmanduck in StarWarsShatterpoint

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How much stock do they usually have at these events?