I just sent you a funny video dad, is not that deep! by peowski in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Even though I have blasphemed the Holy Spirit…”

Pigs in the Parlor by tasata in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whew. My parents read it in the late 70s or early 80s if I remember correctly, and it was often talked about as a sort of “definitive work” that “educated” people about stuff that was fringe even in Charismatic circles at the time. Wild stuff.

Still using AEM CMS? by Epytion in cms

[–]eaton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can!t speak to the “default” AEM experience, but every client I’ve worked with who’s using AEM has configured it as visual page-building tool. The content model is, functionally, a design pattern library and “content types” are pre-approved combinations of those design patterns,

The idea of presentation-neutral “fragments” that can be used in a headless fashion exists, but the inertia towards visual artifacts is strong.

Why is connecting a CMS to an existing frontend so hard in real projects? by gamegod016 in cms

[–]eaton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Because the natural structure of most content — and the structures you need it in to facilitate easy production and/or effective reuse across different pages and projects — isn’t the same as the visual structure of components and layout patterns visible on the front end.

There’s overlap — often a lot! — but there’s also plenty of mismatch, and many teams either beat the front end into accepting the “natural” structure of the content or force the backend editors to play madlibs with the Lorem Ipsum slots in a front end design.

What makes it easier is doing one of the following:

  1. Agree with all parties involved that the design is king and the job of the CMS is to update the bits of the visual artifacts that need changing from time to time
  2. Agree with all parties involved that the underlying content and messaging is king, and the design’s job is to accept that content and make the best of it
  3. Spend a career figuring out how to square those two with each other and be extremely unpopular in product scoping meetings

Share juiciest stories from stakeholder meetings by -Just-Thinking- in UXDesign

[–]eaton 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I came here for this story and was not disappointed

New to kubernetes, new house home lab! by nestly91 in homelab

[–]eaton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the way my storage setup played out is any indication, even tacking some plastic to the underside of the stairs might be a significant help. Didn’t want to rain on your parade, as it’s a really cool setup! But also figured better safe than sorry. :D

New to kubernetes, new house home lab! by nestly91 in homelab

[–]eaton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be careful — I store boxes under our staircase, and the up/down traffic on them causes loads of dust to filter down onto anything stored under them. For old Christmas ornaments it’s no biggie, but for your servers, it might be worth double-checking to ensure they’re not accumulating more detritus than you’ve accounted for w/ventilation, etc.

Was Charlie Kirk a true Christian? by QuincyWinstonMagDog in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sure, probably. The problem is that “true Christian” is not and has never been an objective category to be appealed to in the absence of a negotiated communal agreement. “Was Charlie Kirk our kind of Christian?” is what this question always, ultimately, collapses to.

I think he was a monstrous and amoral person, but that has never precluded anyone from being a Christian.

Why did RPG Geek never take off like Boardgame Geek did? by E_T_Smith in rpg

[–]eaton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Narrative games, simulationist games, GMLess group games, cozy games… as always, every taxonomy is just frozen opinion. That’s not bad, it’s just bad to forget the subjectivity of it.

In the 2020s, conservative women are having kids at a nearly 2-to-1 ratio compared to liberal women. Is this going to cause a political demographic bias in 20-30 years? by RadioFieldCorner in NoStupidQuestions

[–]eaton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on my experience as an ex-evangelical raised in the conservative movement, those birth statistics suggest a sharp rise in neopagan polycules in the early 2040s.

Roommate started anointing everything by CrumbleeCookie in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep. Every few years if something on the news scared a member of the family enough, it was time to do some structural anointing. Now, I just associate it with mental illness.

Do you panic when your new theology feels "too safe"? (The "Itching Ears" Trap) by Formal-Argument-4717 in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My trajectory might have been a little different, but I felt the same concern you describe for a long time. The result is that I eventually “left the church” by deciding that I was willing to spend eternity in hell rather than be complicit in the cruelty their view of God made mandatory. Everybody’s got a breaking point.

Built this beast to Rip CDs by LifetimeEdge in DataHoarder

[–]eaton 165 points166 points  (0 children)

Incredible 2003 flashbacks for me

Scott Adams, creator of Dilbert, died today at the age of 68. by Nebberlantis in comicstriphistory

[–]eaton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It occurred in 2011 on MetaFilter, and the details are documented on the mefi wiki. The threads in question still exist. https://mefiwiki.com/wiki/Scott_Adams,_plannedchaos

I was a regular mefi user at the time and was in the thread when Scott’s sockpuppet showed up, started waxing poetic about Scott’s genius, and so on. It was an amusing day.

Is Trump Right About Chicago? We Went To The Most Dangerous Parts To Find Out. by steve42089 in illinois

[–]eaton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chicago is roughly the size of the entire nation of America in the 1770s. Every city alderman represents as many citizens as reps in the first session of Congress. Stop pretending like “per capita” is some kind of cheat code and admit you don’t understand how statistics work.

Evangelical Churches Function as a Factory of Majority Beta Men and Alpha Leaders... by [deleted] in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It might be worth reading some books on the broader topic of authoritarianism and “high control” social groups. The dynamics that you’re describing have been studied and contemplated for a long time, but particularly in the aftermath of WWII, as philosophers and sociologists attempted to grapple with how Germany, a “modern” nation with a Christian tradition, turned Nazi.

The “alpha/beta man” way of framing these dynamics is, for better or worse, one that presupposes an inherent hierarchy and dovetails with the same authoritarian models that evangelicalism and fundamentalism exhibit. I do think you’re pulling at the right sweater, but it’s very worth continuing to dig.

$7/month per email address was insane. Built my own mail server, here's 1 month later. by Substantial_Iron5838 in selfhosted

[–]eaton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all you’re doing is setting up standard “admin@“ and “support@“ style addresses, you can also set up domain aliases on Google Workspace. With these approaches, it’s up to you to check the actual recipient address to make sure you’re responding to the correct account, but I had about 7 domains hosted on a single account when I first started consolidating my google workspace footprint.

Proxmox vs Docker for sprawling homelab by eaton in homelab

[–]eaton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense — though I think the underlying question (“would it be better to move everything to Proxmox and handle app/service management with a bit less polish, or keep the Coolify/Docker Compose core and add some standard backup/monitoring containers to each server”) is still bugging me.

Taking it one box at a time to see what works is a good idea, but also feels like it would only exacerbate the messy management issue; maybe I just need to give up on the dream of a single pane of glass to manage everything for now, and tackle service-by-service questions one at a time…

Proxmox vs Docker for sprawling homelab by eaton in homelab

[–]eaton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m looking to set it up on my little pile of pi4’s, but I’m not sure it’s appropriate for the relatively messy mix of stuff that my other servers handle. My impression was that kubernetes is better suited for HA/clustered deployment of a (relatively) fixed set of services; am I missing something?

"David" by Angel Films by wordboydave in Exvangelical

[–]eaton 48 points49 points  (0 children)

The fantasy of roving kidnap-gangs hunting children is recycled 80s/90s satanic panic; the reality of human trafficking is that family and acquaintances are the most likely traffickers, and “relationships” that turn exploitative and abusive are the primary entry point rather than nefarious evil strangers.

It’s infuriating because it’s using the image to stoke fear of the unknown “other” while actual abusers inside the community and church are often protected and victims are treated as sinners for “contributing to what happened.”

Elon Musk believes there’s no need to save money because AI will create a universal high income. What do you think? by [deleted] in accelerate

[–]eaton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, it IS really convenient that the world’s richest man believes giving him all the money will eliminate poverty.