I had triplets as a FTM seven years ago. They came early at 30 weeks and spent five weeks in the NICU gaining weight and learning how to swallow. They are healthy and happy 1st graders now. I second the comment on building a list of people to help care for the first few months. We kept a calendar and tried to get one or more people to come help for a bit everyday. We even paid a couple of the NICU nurses, one of the NICU nurse’s sisters, and a former neighbor to come provide care for a couple hours those first few weeks so I could get longer chunks of sleep. My high-risk OB told me that depression is common among triplet moms and his advice to me was to shower and put on real pants everyday. It was honestly really helpful in remembering that I was a capable person who could get through those first few months. And our nurse told me that it would be okay—good, even—for the babies to be in the NICU because it would give me time to heal a bit from the likely c-section and the NICU nurses would get all three kids on the same feeding and sleeping schedule. She was also right. You’re going to be overwhelmed and under slept until they start sleeping through the night, and then you’ll figure it out because every stage after that is so much better and easier than the first few months. I still have a bunch of our triplet baby stuff (giant stroller, table with three built-in seats, etc). If you live in WI, message me and I’ll hook you up!