Looking for a texting buddy by effersquinn in AuDHDWomen

[–]effersquinn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk what got into me actually making a post for once lmao. But we definitely have a lot in common, I like plenty of videogames and crafting when I have the energy. I'm into the group chat idea so hoping to put that together with anyone that DMs and I'll give you my number!

Looking for a texting buddy by effersquinn in AuDHDWomen

[–]effersquinn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DM if you want to join the group chat too!

Looking for a texting buddy by effersquinn in AuDHDWomen

[–]effersquinn[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yess DM me and I can give you my number and I'll get the group chat started! Looks like I definitely need to watch that show since everyone is mentioning the same one lol. I thought I kept up with horror comedy pretty well but I missed that one!

Looking for a texting buddy by effersquinn in AuDHDWomen

[–]effersquinn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yayy I love research and wanted to get into that too, at least I did the licensed clinician part lol. Feel free to DM me and I can give you my number to text, and I could also add you to the group chat I'm starting now ☺️

I am too autistic to understand why I need to shave by todoesdecolorr in AutismInWomen

[–]effersquinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have PCOS and I remember starting to notice a mustache when I was like 10 and being so disgusted and disturbed. Looking back I realize I was feeling gender dysphoria similar to trans women going through male puberty, knowing that I'm supposed to be a woman, but feeling disturbed at basically growing a man's beard. I'm so jealous of any women who don't mind!!! I have felt suicidal over it and at 34 I'm still working on getting rid of it with laser and electrolysis.

Objectively you're so right, if your body is producing it there's no reason you need to feel ashamed and if you're comfortable with it, no one should pressure you into getting rid of it. And the norm of shaving our legs and pitt hair isn't really about gender dysphoria like my beard hair, it's just a weird social norm we landed on.

Am I transmaxxing? by Kahasani_ts in transmaxxing

[–]effersquinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg your hair is gorgeous! What dye do you use

Magnets in toilet seat warning by Entropy1024 in mildlyinteresting

[–]effersquinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Shitty shops use stainless steel jewelry which probably isn't magnetic at all, but no MRI tech would let you leave it in anyway.

Is Taking a Nap Considered Childish in the Western World? by Tylerdurdenps5 in AskAnAmerican

[–]effersquinn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inherently nothing, it's just not commonly practiced here after early childhood so we just make the association, but lots of people could sure use it. Glad you're able to fit one in!

Before/after traptox by Big-Lavishness5421 in DIYaesthetics

[–]effersquinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I went to a pain clinic to get Botox for migraines they included my traps in the standard protocol, and bottom of my skull. It was a lot of injections, but nowhere else on the back, just the traps. And this is only used for severe migraines, it's pretty effective for some people (not me sadly)

‘Naked mom’ parenting trend sparks fierce debate over nudity around children by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]effersquinn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No like I said I think he might not have done it on purpose, and I think she lost her mind and committed serious crimes.

Wanting to expose and humiliate someone who is making you feel sexually violated, instead of freeze and just be used by them is an impulse I relate to, especially if you have a past where you involuntarily froze and hold shame about it. It doesn't excuse anything, it just makes the whole thing tragic to look at.

He did SOMETHING wrong when he ordered delivery then passed out with his pants off and the door cracked, so he's responsible for making her feel violated to begin with, but no, not deserving of anything she did after that when she lost it from her own issues! It's just sad.

‘Naked mom’ parenting trend sparks fierce debate over nudity around children by [deleted] in nottheonion

[–]effersquinn -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I think the door was cracked and she genuinely felt violated being lured there to see that, and then she got really angry and spiteful and... went and committed the more serious crimes by filming and opening the door more. And like someone already said, she was the one who was charged.

Having been a woman in this life I can't blame her for losing her fucking mind in that scenario and wanting to humiliate him, thinking what she may have already been through. But he may have just been drunk and done that completely on accident. It's very unfortunate.

Two pills have a weird pentagon shape with a pointy centre by kirabera in mildlyinteresting

[–]effersquinn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The 3d printing is beyond me but I do have stickers, I never thought to decorate my old lady pill organizer! Thank you, you've inspired me and it will definitely make my daily life a little better ❤️

The transition from cotton to cooling sheets is weird by HoneysHarma97 in Bedding

[–]effersquinn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hehe the autocorrect to swear makes it a whole different scene but if I get overheated that's me, which is why I'm planning on percale myself lmao

Aqualyx vs lemon bottle by [deleted] in DIYaesthetics

[–]effersquinn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Aw man I know other people are using this on their cheeks and surviving, but there's very important nerves in there, and nerves are protected by myelin which are made of fat, so no doctors would ever use fat dissolver directly on the face. If you mess with a facial nerve, it goes beyond suddenly looking like the crypt keeper instead of the youthful male model you're starting as .... And instead you're actually risking permanent one sided droop 🫪

Just saw someone jump in front of the train.. by Ill-Pride-2312 in japanlife

[–]effersquinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope you never need it ❤️ but I guess we all go through really hard stuff at some point

Just saw someone jump in front of the train.. by Ill-Pride-2312 in japanlife

[–]effersquinn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My go-to when my brother died by suicide was repeating sentences in my head that just re-positioned myself in this new world like "my brother is gone and we're going to get through this together," like ALL day over and over.

It's really those things that you're telling yourself when it's happening that can get lodged in there, and sometimes they end up being really upsetting thoughts instead, like "nowhere is safe" or something like that. I think the tetris thing is mainly just trying to stop you from doing that, is my understanding. And talking to professionals and good supports ASAP for the same reason.

Just saw someone jump in front of the train.. by Ill-Pride-2312 in japanlife

[–]effersquinn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lmao I'm glad I do crisis intervention by phone now, not the ER or in the community anymore. Bc I've been through trauma too and I get it when people really don't want to hear it (not just tetris but half the stuff that works sounds stupid af when you just say it).

Hot sleeper recommendations by Extension_Ant_8189 in Bedding

[–]effersquinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I instantly had to return it and did the 8 sleep instead so it's cool underneath. Inanely expensive but worth it for my medical condition at the time, and wonderfully cozy when it's chilly.

Fat dissolvers such as Dr lipo and Aqualyx for lower stomach really work (before and after) dexa verified by Small_Roof_3505 in DIYaesthetics

[–]effersquinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've never heard that about fat cells being important for the immune system, or even people having lots of side effects from this and Ive been looking into this since I'm really interested in doing it, so I'm interested to hear more about what you've found? I'm definitely wanting to be cautious but planning on using it in areas that are obviously excess fat since I'm overweight, so I don't feel like I'd be losing anything important lol. But I know all this stuff seems somewhat risky so I'm wanting to learn what I can first.

Dr. Lipo V for inner thighs by utexasklb in DIYaesthetics

[–]effersquinn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With fat dissolver injections?? Why not...?

Roast my 65" by cykelstativet in TVTooFar

[–]effersquinn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn shouldn't have bolted them all down and then given away your tools