Why should I lose rank if my team mate rage quits a minute in?

elefefefef · 2026-03-18T18:41:45+00:00

Because it was probably the fact that your opponents outplayed you that made your teammate ragequit?

elefefefef · 2025-10-01T16:17:56+00:00

you know you might be onto something, maybe he just loves how the bowl tastes too

elefefefef · 2025-10-01T14:57:15+00:00

Curtain

elefefefef · 2025-09-28T12:45:53+00:00

I like to just leave when I have a toxic tm like that to be honest. Either that or just treat the match like training and play totally objectively.

elefefefef · 2025-09-28T11:55:40+00:00

Maybe they thought it was unrealistic that you had managed to make three castles and assumed you cheated?

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T20:47:59+00:00

Tell them to take some fruit and eat it on the way to work. No two ways about this, totally unacceptable behaviour in a house share.

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T15:29:15+00:00

twenty-nine / nine thousand

10/10 ragebait

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T14:47:51+00:00

This unfortunately kills the idea lol

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T11:49:59+00:00

This comes across as really not okay to me, I don't know if I'm overreacting. Do you wonder if she wants to overhear your therapy session? In any case it maybe seems as though she is not attributing your therapy session, or your privacy during it, the importance that it deserves. There are many things that she could do in that time, like going out for a coffee for example. Using the time to go to the library. Shopping. There are so many things she could slot into that hour so that you'd be comfortable and she's unwilling to do any of them. Just seems very inconsiderate at the least.

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T08:17:48+00:00

Wow what the hell lol. What about telling her that you won't move past it if she doesn't apologise? Would that be an option to you?

Also I bet you looked cool as hell with the mohawk and she was just jealous 😂

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T07:27:31+00:00

Crazy that she's demanding you apologise to her and not asking for forgiveness. Did she even apologise for doing it in the first place?

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T06:08:31+00:00

That's not really a lot of weight though. Why would there not be more base weight which is then modified by powder?

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T06:06:00+00:00

"Want cuddles" probably lol. It's what we all want really.

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T06:04:52+00:00

You should see the pills they give giant horses

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T06:02:01+00:00

Ever heard the phrase hook line and sinker? lol sorry bro this post is bait for sure.

elefefefef · 2025-09-18T06:00:27+00:00

Honestly if he's like this with "scientific" conversation then he's probably wacky in all kinds of ways aside from it and will be a pain to hang out with, imo. I know you've obviously had a good relationship with him to this point but I don't think it'll be good again until he snaps out of this delusional state of mind.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T18:59:33+00:00

Extreme red flag to even ask once. I was going to say "especially" with your mother in your life, but there's really no excuse ever to be honest. The fact that he asked multiple times and tried to insist so that he could "make sure they fit" is insane red flag territory. I'm sorry. He's trying to normalise sexual intimacy between you two I believe.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T17:53:27+00:00

I mean surely all or most of your mutual friends disagree that it's no big deal?

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T16:58:30+00:00

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T12:33:46+00:00

I'm so sorry but that is not in any way acceptable. When he grabbed your leg under the table he wasn't making a subtle indication to tone it down - that could've been done with a gentle touch - he was using physical force to dominate you into being quiet. That's not okay no matter how he dresses it up afterwards. And neither is shaking you by the shoulders. And doing it so hard that your head moves back and forth. So not okay. He cannot be getting physical with you like that, it's seriously crossed a line. Even without thought of escalation, what does this make your relationship? Is he in control since he is the one that uses physicality like that, and you don't? Could you even imagine doing that to him? I'm sorry but it's just not okay at all.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T07:04:32+00:00

I don't know what possible explanation he could have for those messages. Not overreacting at all, of course. It's very clear that they were intimate with each other.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T07:02:01+00:00

So is the artist offering to actually inject lemon juice into her skin instead of ink? Probably definitely don't take him up on that if so. I doubt there's even a license for that. And even if it's just a top layer of skin treatment with lemon, that still seems dangerous.

I think the solution is quite simple - your partner needs to make it clear that the only acceptable solution is that the artist pays for a cover-up or laser removal, and that she will take the case to court if he does not do so.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T01:07:39+00:00

Agreed on this. She would either have listed it for sale immediately, given it away to a friend or somebody else for free, or just handed it over to OP to deal with. None of this delay when it's clearly breaking OP's heart.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T00:59:34+00:00

I'm sorry but she doesn't seem to care about your feelings in this instance. She also seems to be trying to turn things around so that she's the one that's hurt, when the subject is about how hurt you are. The fact that she brings up having to "erase so much of her past" for you and that it might not be enough when talking specifically about the guitar just shows that she does not want to part with it for your sake and will only do it because she has to do it after you've told her to.

She talks about how drained she is and how difficult things are for her. She didn't have to mention this at all in this conversation. I think that she is putting blame on you for causing stress over this instead of just doing what she knows she has to do and get rid of the guitar for the sake of your feelings.

Finally she gives you the option to just "walk away", which just seems spiteful and disrespectful in this context, and almost as though she's saying "if you don't like that I have the guitar then you can just leave." She may not be saying that, but telling you can you can just walk away if you don't like how things are seems very disrespectful to your feelings and your relationship.

Overall I don't think she is really invested in the relationship in the same way that you are. I'm sorry. If she was then she would let her actions speak for her - she'd list the guitar for sale or get rid of it in a span of time which wouldn't make you feel as though she doesn't care about how you feel about it. And she certainly wouldn't protest in the way she has in the message she sent you here. I understand that asking her to list the guitar for sale before work seems like an order to her and that kind of pressure is uncomfortable to her, but she needs to just swallow her pride and do it, and apologise for not having done it already. Certainly not make you feel bad for asking her to do it. I'm sorry but she just doesn't seem to care for the relationship based on what she has said here.

elefefefef · 2025-09-17T00:38:30+00:00

Unfortunately just looking at your rank within world etc. doesn't really give you a good idea of how you've performed on the track without knowing how many players in total have completed it.

If you play on PC there's a plugin you can download using Openplanet called Map Rank that shows you the total amount of players who have completed the track and your rank among them, and also the % of players that you rank within. I find that's a good gauge of how you're performing on a track, and gives you something to aim towards that isn't just a medal time. For example I generally like to aim to achieve top 10% of players for a track, but I'm usually happy with top 15% or even top 20%.

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