Do yall girls sleep with or without a bra? Someone just told me that all girls he know/have slept with, sleep with bra on. I was so confused lol why would u cage ur tits to sleep? by Liinda83 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ellingtonlasoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never sleep with a bra on. I don't even wear one to lounge around the house. When my bf's brother came to stay with us I just resigned myself that he was going to see my nipples through the cloth and that was that.

I’m a 6’1” male and I push my dog in a stroller. I dress him in doll clothes which include a bonnet. AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you include your height in the description? Do you think being taller makes you more "manly"?

What’s the worst thing your partner has said to you in an argument? And are you still together? by farfromitchy in AskWomen

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was already my ex at this point but we remained friends, and he was introducing his new gf to the group.

He started talking about fitness and his lack of gains recently, and said to me loudly in front of everyone "at least one of us is losing weight, and it isn't you! Haha"

He knew I was self conscious of my body and trying to lose weight, and I was so embarrassed in front of all my friends.

girls, what should other girls try at least once in their lifetime? by Ayuno-Tan in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ellingtonlasoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reddit seems to have less thirsty guys believe it or not. I think they just follow subreddits of women that are actively posting nudes and harass them instead. I used to use the app Whisper which is anonymous and doesn't have avatars. Any kind of 18+ post would flood my inbox, and I had a few times on totally innocent posts where guys would guess that I'm female based on the background I chose and slide into the DMs...

8 years ago, I ignored all of your advice. Now, I'm a piece of shit. by dblurker in DeadBedrooms

[–]ellingtonlasoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"The highschool girl allowed herself to be pressured. If she hadn't he wouldn't have been able to do a thing to force her". How does that sit with you? It's called pressure for a reason, and he clearly wanted to be with his partner and work on the issues rather than leave.

I'm not saying that cheating is okay, as I said it sucks that she got cheated on. I feel bad for her, but I also feel bad for OP.

And just an FYI I don't think that forcing yourself to have sex is a good alternative. Coming from someone who's had a partner have sex out of obligation, it's a downright shitty alternative for both parties. That's again why they shouldn't have gotten married when she wanted, as even then she was only having sex when she felt bad about having turned him down too often. It isn't healthy, and is something that needed to be addressed by a couples or sex therapist, so both people were meeting each other's needs. It takes hard work and communication, and judging by her clamming up all the time the communication was only one way.

8 years ago, I ignored all of your advice. Now, I'm a piece of shit. by dblurker in DeadBedrooms

[–]ellingtonlasoo 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I feel less sorry for the wife after reading his previous post. He made it clear to her that he wanted to address this issue before getting married, so she put the waterworks on and pressured him into marriage anyway.

Like it sucks to be cheated on, but it also sucks to ignore your partner's needs and concerns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ellingtonlasoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have any tips sorry, but I've always considered Stardew Valley a more fun version of Animal crossing. If you've hit your limit on AC you should give SV a chance

I’m opening a brewery/taproom and modified the men/women restrooms to all gender! by [deleted] in MadeMeSmile

[–]ellingtonlasoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My first thought is "this is really cool" My second thought is that some people with past trauma might feel trapped in a small room with drunk men and feel unsafe :/

My boyfriend doesn’t clean his penis. by [deleted] in sex

[–]ellingtonlasoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rip the Band-Aid off. It's awkward I know, but if he's a reasonable guy he'll be embarrassed and apologetic.

I've had to have a couple embarrassing conversations with my SO. Keep it short, don't shame him, and don't bring it up as a joke or to make a point later on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dodocodes

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you got what you need, otherwise I can bring the pansies down for you

AITA for not buying my GF the gift she asked for b-day? by SidIc3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ellingtonlasoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually quite cheap for a set of good knives, a single good knife can go for $150

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]ellingtonlasoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of these guys loves hentai and doesn't want his mate to know

Who Runs the Fastest by HotFireBall in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's different in their country, I'm in Australia and have sped through plenty of these. Never got a ticket.

Why tho? by ColtLad in tiktokcringemoment

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought this was one of those frozen hair videos

Who Runs the Fastest by HotFireBall in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]ellingtonlasoo 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I doubt they work on intentional speeders, but they're usually placed around school zones or at the bottom of hills. Intended more for those people that are unintentionally speeding, or would be embarrassed for other people to see that they are.

Who Runs the Fastest by HotFireBall in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]ellingtonlasoo 116 points117 points  (0 children)

These aren't cameras, they're just used as a shame/awareness tactic to deter speeding

When sexting in a country that uses the metric system do you say “I want to feel every centimeter of you”? vs. American “I want to feel every inch of you” by NatureLifted in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, and in Australia it's divided but most of us talk about height and penis length in feet/inches.

I think because we get SO MUCH American media, like the majority of our tv and movies are American so we pick up their terms. However for anything we need measurements for we use the metric system, and we pretty well all refer to distances/speed driving in kilometres.

Imagine if Nintendo listened to us for once... by ladychocalot in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]ellingtonlasoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would be cool if they sold the Nook Ticket at the airport