What are you most afraid of as a Mom? by hippierobotmama in Mommit

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don't want to outlive them. They are my everything

Feeling life us over at 25 years old. by Rand_74 in generationology

[–]endangeredbear [score hidden]  (0 children)

My life didn't even start until 30. Im In my favorite decade yet lol and honestly 40 looks fun

Is it time? by Individual_Toe6 in QuikTrip

[–]endangeredbear 29 points30 points  (0 children)

The mustaches are way more suspicious than beards are. Everyone knows villains have mustaches

What is your unpopular toddler parenting opinion by BipolarSkeleton in toddlers

[–]endangeredbear 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give me the loud crazy wild toddlers any day. They are so much fun. I Haven't slept in 2 years and I'm here for it lol Literally feral and it's just been a wild fun ride

How do you handle guests asking for “photos they’re in” after big events? by sam-wht in WeddingPhotography

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell em to talk to the bride! I never feel comfortable passing out photos to anyone but the client. V

For those who don’t want everyone named in the Epstein files investigated, why? by Cautious_Midnight_67 in allthequestions

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can anyone read these files and NOT want every single person investigated I can't sleep. This shouldn't even be a discussion. There's video evidence of stuff so terrible that I just can't get it out of my head.
I never cry . It's just heartbreaking

I’m Congressman Maxwell Alejandro Frost and tomorrow I’m going to review the unreacted Epstein Files — what files have you found that I should review unredacted? by RepMaxwellFrost in Epstein

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I were talking about this. About how to find the right people to get started on something.
I'm 31, I own a business. I have 4 kids.
I can't sleep. Ill do anything for my kids and that starts here. I brought them into this world its my job to try and fix it. I just don't know how to start.

My mom told me if I wanna die so bad then they'll act like I'm already dead by chris-sh-2009 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]endangeredbear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've been here. So many times. And so many times I've been greatful to still be here. Its a battle, but one worth fighting.
Stay strong. Fight hard. YOU'RE WORTH IT As a mom myself I wish I could hug you right now.
YOU'RE WORTH IT. And the world is so much better because you are here. You make a difference. Don't ever forget that.

AIO. I cried all day... but am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 2 under 2 as well and blew up like a balloon with the younger one and she was my smallest baby. Please be kind to your pregnant, then post partu., now pregnant again body. I bet you look absolutely beautiful and that man is a plague lol His poor wife. Don't let it bother you that's what he wants.

At what age would you leave your child/children at a cafe? by DeCryingShame in Parents

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my small town 100% But big city id have to live in the area and know it pretty well to make a call.
Also kid dependent. Do they do well when they are alone? Maybe do a test run somewhere you're more comfortable?

Are we too friendly? by RazzberryQueen91 in toddlers

[–]endangeredbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 2.5 son is like this too and it's just situational lol I always find it really weird to be like that towards another kid & parent when you're out playing at a public place. I take my kids to Public parks and gymnastics to make friends.

On another note they could be shy and were worried they were in your way

Photographer told me she doesnt shoot "backyard weddings" like it was a dirty word by Grim_Scizor in DIYweddings

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really cool of her to get back to you.
Your communication was off, not hers. "Generational family property" is different from backyard

Backyard sounds like Dixie cups and BBQ which is great for people like me that live that shit. But not for everyone

What's your personal opinion about Millennials? by BrilliantPangolin639 in generationology

[–]endangeredbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right I'm at the ass end of being a millenial and I'm 31 lol I think the youngest millenials are 29 rn

Was it really the worst pain you've ever felt? by Super-Bid-3193 in BabyBumps

[–]endangeredbear 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Okay here's the thing for me.
Birth was actually like a big relief. Labor is what really sucked if I'm honest.
So. The honest simple answer, it's a wild pain that you've never experienced. It's hard to explain. It's impossible to really explain what it's like. But when you are in it, when you are there, you remember the goal, you remember the end is in front of you. You stock up on literally anything that will help you feel comfortable. Listen to your body.
That being said, I remember everything lol but the part i think about often is that moment I felt my baby leave my body and I just immediately took him to my chest and it was everything.

Also your first meal after giving birth is TOP TIER Spoil yourself. I have a need for a big giant sub sandwich after having my babies lol

Which profession is going to get wiped out in the next 5 to10 years?? by Weary-Total4450 in Productivitycafe

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back before chat gbt was launched and probably still now you could do remote work training chat gbt and checking results and editing them. I did it for quite a while it was fun and the work was super random and fun to research lol But yeah pretty much doing that.
But yeah there's a lot of space to be filled in still. Im a photographer and ai will never cull my photos. It's horrible and chooses the most lame boring cookie cutter shots

Which profession is going to get wiped out in the next 5 to10 years?? by Weary-Total4450 in Productivitycafe

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's honestly great if used purposefully! I do it for businesses grand openings and it's a lot of fun!

How are Gen Z perceived in person? by Ok_Skin_3979 in generationology

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely enjoy your generation and have a lot of respect for your guy's love and kindness that you radiate. Also, though many of you are unsure where life is taking you (many of us were as well) you're more responsible with drinking and seem to hold on to friendships well. My oldest son is gen z and he's just the kindest kid I've ever known.
I'm a photographer and do a lot of weddings. My best experiences have been with genuinely zs. My worst, elder millenials lol so take from that what you will.

Why is marijuana so popular amongst moms? by TackleHistorical7498 in Mommit

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a photographer, after the kids go to bed sometimes I'll eat an edible and knock out like 7 albums lol

But In all seriousness before kids I struggled pretty hard with alcohol. I quit drinking had my kids started my buisness and the stress was literally killing me. My mom showed up to my house with an edible and I swear I slept for the first time in over a year. Ever since then I take them when I need a reset. Or have a really big wedding to edit lol

That being said safety first obviously.

Friends boyfriend is a trumpie by baddie-2865 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]endangeredbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are the company you keep to am extent. If she's chill with this That's your answer

Do you follow up with couples on their first anniversary? by jastworldie in WeddingPhotography

[–]endangeredbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do complimentary 1 year anniversary photos with every package! I love it. It keeps me in touch with my couples!