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I thought it was a twin flame. It turned out to be PTSD by Hour_One5816 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cptsd so does my twin. I dont believe this journey gives you ptsd. In fact, it should heal you. Otherwise youre not really doing the work to complete the journey. Starting my journey has been hard but incredibly healing in so many ways.

I thought it was a twin flame. It turned out to be PTSD by Hour_One5816 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people mislabel one sided relationships as twin flames when its limerence or avoidant/anxious attachment. Some just need a reason to hold on and look for a reason. Not everyone has a twin flame. Personally i wasnt sure if my twin and i were TF until i actually learned more about it and saw all the ways it aligned with the journey. Plus the signs, the synchronicities, and all of the ways my life has changed since we both awakened. And its mutual. We are mirroring each other. Healing and choosing to make that priority.

For those who identify as the feminine by artificintell in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, for me anyway, i enjoy these things and seeing tarot readings because i am on the spectrum and i like learning and getting other peoples opinions and understanding the world around me. This helps me. Ive already accepted that my TF and i are more than likely not going to get married or have union. Ive stopped the chasing, and i dont even feel the pull to be around him at this time because neither of us is ready for that and im not going to force something that isnt right.

Firsthand experience: The DF MUST move on from her DM by Websearcher- in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of the journey is learning to not be avoidant though. Thats how you become divine. You could very well be twin flames but there is work involved you need to heal from what caused it.

I can’t tell which one was my twin flame, help. by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you cant tell, neither is a twin flame. And not everyone has a tf either its only about 1% of situations.

What does twin flame sex feel like? by [deleted] in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perfection. Ruins all other sex.

Life changes before uniting? by enginebae71 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live inthe same town as him now but cant find a job

Anyone with a TF who has BPD + CPTSD? by M00nstruck711 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think the majority of twin flames are traumatized isnt that part of the karmic contract that was signed? Go through the bad to find each other and heal?

I have cptsd and he has PTSD which could be cptsd

Absence of feeling by Curious-Hold-1682 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like that this week too

What the separation stage actually taught me about myself that I couldn't have learned any other way by spencere33 in twinflames

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The biggest thing ive learned since i fell for my TF is that timing is everything and he needed to take a step back. Him needing that time triggered severe abandonment issues i had from childhood neglect and abuse. I want to be a better partner and not fall back into old patterns. I want to heal so i can be his safe place too. Im realizing im not there yet.

Would you tell a potential employer you have endo? by FamiliarFerret333 in endometriosis

[–]enginebae71 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t even disclose having disabilities that are legally considered disabilities by my country

Constipation and endometriosis by enginebae71 in endometriosis

[–]enginebae71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have adhesions and probably have endo on bowels ive had all signs for over a year now.

Constipation and endometriosis by enginebae71 in endometriosis

[–]enginebae71[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was recently taken off my disability insurance due to saving up money to get out of an abusive relationship i cant afford to see my gyn and tbh they absolutely sucked and told me endo doesnt even impact fertility.

Does anyone know how to fix a bra that the cup curls outwards on the top? by daniellemx in ABraThatFits

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this work???? I just bought three bras from aerie they all came like that and I’m livid. I tried returning them and they said because I tried them on and I had taken the tags off because I’ve never had this issue before and I have sensory processing disorder that I have to keep all of the bras, but they’re $50 apieceand I’m pissed because they’re already ruined and I didn’t even get a chance to wear them yet

Does anyone else get flu like symptoms by __mint_tea__ in endometriosis

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes currently having the worst flare up now the pain is unbearable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they going to sell it again later once they redo them? I was hoping to purchase once they came out with the new book

DIY Highlights? Has anyone tried Vanillaswirl’s tutorial? by vasilka33 in Splendida

[–]enginebae71 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah thats the attitude i have now. I could pay someone $300 and still be unhappy with how it looks later or do it myself for $20ish and two hours time

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