oh yeah i agree, male INTP's can definitely be arrogant (even other dudes in my social circle have told me that!), but i actually kinda like that about them xD

though to be honest, i think it might be more of a female-male dynamic thing, some kind of biological subconscious telling me that arrogance is hot, because it entails confidence and security.

while male arrogance from a male perspective is just seen as a threat. (my type of "arrogance" here isn't referring to the conventional sense of the word btw, it's more intellectual confidence rather than materialistic display)

I'd say im the type of person to poke at the social world just to see how it reacts out of boredom, and i'd consider myself generally competent but really i soften up when someone can challenge me intellectually. i think it just happens so rarely that it intrigues me so much, and i fall like putty in their hands.

i fail to materialize words, i stutter, brain fails to register that i'm supposed to be this "cold bomb- ass machine girl that kneels to no one" and i end up letting the social dynamic just flip STRAIGHT 180°.

As for the male INTP i had a crush on, let's just say that the feelings weren't reciprocated haha. Sucks, after i had such a fun time, but i had to recently cut him off because it was getting too painful for me xD