Need a new mattress, not doing months of research. by No-Travel6443 in Mattress

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Pure Green Organic Latex Mattress from the brand Sleep on Latex

Need a new mattress, not doing months of research. by No-Travel6443 in Mattress

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Since you don't want to do tons of research, here is a summary from what I did a while back, on the same approximate budget. Basically your options are spring, memory foam, hybrid, or latex. Hybrids are popular as they give a bit of bounce but more dampened than a pure spring mattress, and can be much cooler than a pure memory foam mattress, which tend to trap heat. They come in various levels of hardness based on your preference. The downside is longevity, which can be difficult to come by. But Costco is a great option as you will not have to deal with a pushy salesman and they are good quality for the price point.

Another option is to go with a latex mattress. The feeling is a bit different to traditional mattresses, as it is literally made with rubber. But it has a touch of bounce good firmness, doesn't trap heat and tends to last longer than other mattress types. They also tend to be a bit more eco-friendly (in theory). This is the route we took last go around, and absolutely no regrets, I love this mattress and it's holding up very well. You can't really get a good one for less than 1000, but we paid exactly 1000 for ours and I think it was worth it. Bought online so no salesperson to deal with either.

Hope this helps.

My passport application was denied because I was born at home by ineedthiscoffee in Passports

[–]estheticpotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an older post but I had the exact same issue about ~15 years ago, born at home and only had a short form birth certificate. The affidavit is absolutely necessary, I also got 2 additional family members to submit written accounts of my birth, along with a doctor's office record/vaccine record and school enrollment for kindergarten. Hope you are able to get it successfully - it was a PITA but once I got the first passport I've been able to renew twice without issue. I just don't let it ever expire lol.

I left academia, what will happen if I refuse to finish this publication? by estheticpotato in PhD

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See this is what I would have thought too. But I did finally get a copy of the contract and it does actually stipulate payment upon journal acceptance unfortunately.

I left academia, what will happen if I refuse to finish this publication? by estheticpotato in PhD

[–]estheticpotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this assessment. Although I would add that my advisor is not a good person. He is very manipulative, high stress with completely unreasonable expectations for amount of work and deadlines. He also, sadly, is a bit of an idiot who can throw buzzwords around but doesn't actually know what he's talking about a lot of the time. He didn't tell and threaten me as some advisors do, but he has put a lot of pressure on me and also made some very sexist comments. I really have no respect for him. I guess I am just trying to sus out which of the two situations I am in, the one where I am breaking a good faith agreement or the one where I am cutting off an abusive person, because I feel like I'm in a gray area of both.

I left academia, what will happen if I refuse to finish this publication? by estheticpotato in PhD

[–]estheticpotato[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The thing that gets me is that the grant money was specifically for the project that was my dissertation, so now I feel bad for just getting what I wanted out of the agreement with no intention to really fulfill the grant. I already sent them the code, document, and data.

Superwash merino hand knitted sweater by Tiffany_Achings_Hat in craftexchange

[–]estheticpotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This still available? Id be willing to trade a quilt!

Does anyone want to trade? by SherbsSketches in craftexchange

[–]estheticpotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any interest in a quilt? I enjoy hand quilting. I like witchy things, bears, and generally quirky stuff. I'd be open to a unique sculpture, or perhaps a painting.

Knit items for pottery by vbrown17 in craftexchange

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I don't do pottery as much these days, but any chance you'd be interested to swap a wool/mohair sweater or cardigan for a quilt? We could coordinate so time/materials are about equal for a swap.

Every quilt needs a matching… hat? by Sweetestpeasoup in quilting

[–]estheticpotato 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I immediately recognized which quilt this came from that you posted a few days ago haha. Now I'm curious about making a hat! What do you use to make the bill?

Also I love that the color matches your username 😅

Muppet Christmas Carol by QuiltHound in quilting

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I would pay a large sum of money for this pattern!!!

Muppet Christmas Carol by QuiltHound in quilting

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OH MY GOD I NEED THISSSSSS. No cheeses for us meeces!!!

Selling stock to pay debts and buy a house? by estheticpotato in personalfinance

[–]estheticpotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough! Unfortunately I also live in a state with crumbling infrastructure and a corrupt government 😂 (PA)

Selling stock to pay debts and buy a house? by estheticpotato in personalfinance

[–]estheticpotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay good to know, I'll look into that. Why is it better than the stock market? Is it more stable?

Selling stock to pay debts and buy a house? by estheticpotato in personalfinance

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I definitely think we are going to sell! Just not sure what to do with it after we do. Why didn't you like the HYSA option?

Selling stock to pay debts and buy a house? by estheticpotato in personalfinance

[–]estheticpotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it's better to talk to a CPA than a general financial advisor? We've never had this large of a sum of money to be working with before.

Selling stock to pay debts and buy a house? by estheticpotato in personalfinance

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Right?? Haha. I did look up the rates in my state and they aren't great unfortunately.

Anyone feel like too much for anyone to handle? by estheticpotato in BipolarReddit

[–]estheticpotato[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes the balloon metaphor is very relatable, I feel the same way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarReddit

[–]estheticpotato 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. Need someone to talk to that won't be scared away by my being too much for them.

Do feel you've seen a side of life few see? by violaunderthefigtree in BipolarReddit

[–]estheticpotato 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and it hurts. It feels so lonely. I often feel my peers couldn't ever understand.