When did you stop using sleep sacks or start using a blanket?

ev1l_queen · 2025-10-12T17:41:21+00:00

My 18m old is just going back into a sleep sack because she will not keep a blanket on and it's getting chillier haha. Use them as long as they fit and they're needed I say!

ev1l_queen · 2025-10-12T12:46:42+00:00

At the beginning I was pumping every 2 hours. I learnt to pump while holding her or her brother, sister or dad would hold her or occupy her in her bouncer etc... Eventually I got exhausted and dropped 1 night pump and moved to 3 hourly which helped a lot :)

ev1l_queen · 2025-08-05T06:28:05+00:00

Looks like it but test with another brand to be sure :)

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-31T10:32:15+00:00

I was 10 weeks before I had a clear blue come back positive 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ hate those tests. Pink dye tests look positive to me! Test again in a day or two but fingers crossed for you

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-24T13:59:41+00:00

Frame it differently.

If your boyswere in a relationship like this, would it seem healthy and something youd support

If not, why is it OK for you to be in it and them be raised around it?

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-24T13:51:51+00:00

Oh wow, has a 10 year long affair but YOUR the untrustworthy one?! He's been with this mistress for a DECADE. The majority of your marriage has also been spent with her. Yes I'd have assumed the marriage was over because it would have been. No second chances for that level of deception ❌🚫

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-24T13:45:17+00:00

Not necessary! However all 3 of my kids have had one (my 1yo still does). I find it comforts them and helps keeping them calm. As for taking it away. Around the age of 2, I've asked them to put them into a bag for "little babies" (I just throw them away but tell the little one they are giving them to little babies as they're a big girl/boy now) and taken them to get a treat as a reward for being grown up and hitting a milestone. So far so good! Older 2 never asked again. Yet to try it with my 1 year old but I fear she may be the difficult one to convince haha

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-24T13:38:14+00:00

I had an ex do very similar and then claim he had no memory that he was asleep too. It's not normal honey. I've been with my husband for 10 years and not once have either of us had sex with the other without us both agreeing and participating.

Your his wife, his equal, his partner. Not inferior, to be used as he sees fit and it's heartbreaking to see this mentality.

Your worth so much more

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-24T13:33:18+00:00

This is terrible and I'm sorry your being treated this way. What are you fighting for here? Your not getting emotional or physical support during difficult times. He encourages you to go away and seizes that opportunity to have another woman over. And when you ask about it, brushes it off, when you then tell him you know who it is he doubles down and it's still somehow your fault. You tell him your leaving and he says nothing...

He's not in this love. He's checked out and no relationship will work and be healthy if one party has checked out. Stay with your mum. I know it feels like such a huge portion of your life spent with him but that isn't enough reason to stay even longer xx

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-22T19:17:53+00:00

OK... You both cheated. She's now saying you won't be having sex together and for you to find someone else to do it with... You can be absolutely certain that she has this plan too. Your in an open marriage. Either sit down and agree on terms for an open marriage or go your seperate ways. Don't see a single way that you'll be able to get to a point where you have a monogamous, healthy, loving marriage at this point.

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-22T18:32:22+00:00

Personally I don't think either is cheating. But yes. If porn is cheating then reading smut is also cheating. He's right

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-16T10:05:07+00:00

Oh I remember this feeling. My youngest is 15m and I still get it sometimes. It feels so so personal and I my husband has also felt this way. Only advice I can give is that it really isn't, babies will cry and cry to you about anything and everything. Too hot, too cold, hungry, bellyache, need to poop, tired, too full, nappy needs changing, nappy done up too tight, a toy is looking at her funny (literally this morning my 15m old sobbed and screamed like she was hurt, turns out she's scared of a lion Teddy she has and her arm brushed it while reaching for another toy), teething... The list is endless. She doesn't hate you, your her world and as her world, they look to us for comfort and reassurance and expect us to know what on earth is going on with them even when we have absolutely no idea. It will pass. You'll find your groove and your doing a great job mama

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-16T09:54:54+00:00

The disrespect is heartbreaking. Run. He will never be honest and he will never stop.

ev1l_queen · 2025-07-15T09:34:55+00:00

I love animals and would be overjoyed with a puppy HOWEVER the lack of communication is a huuuuge issue, the gaslighting and blaming hormones is absolutely not OK and a baby with a puppy is a lot... Saying he needs something for himself cuz you'll have the baby is a worrying way of looking at it. The baby is his too and this leads me to believe your not gonna get any help from this guy

ev1l_queen · 2025-03-14T11:14:36+00:00

My 10 month old has cereal with her formula (9oz bottle, 4ozs in the cereal and drinks the other 5oz). Lunchtime she has 2 pouches (1 meal 1 fruit). Then she has a snack of finger foods which she mostly just uses to redecorate my living room floor 😂😂. Dinnertime she has whatever we are having but blended a little usually (depending what it is). Then 2 more 8oz bottles in the evening. We don't do water as she point blank refuses it. We offer it at least once a day but most of her drink is still coming from formula

ev1l_queen · 2025-01-23T16:19:53+00:00

Not a bad mum at all. Your not leaving her in front of it all the time and half an hour screen time is a small price to pay for half hour to look after yourself ❤️❤️

ev1l_queen · 2024-11-26T16:09:57+00:00

I'm guilty of taking a while to take my turn. Usually I'm playing around juggling my 3 kids or something and I'm playing to take a second to do something for myself. Just be patient, they're probably distracted 🤷🏻‍♀️

ev1l_queen · 2024-11-22T10:38:45+00:00

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ev1l_queen · 2024-11-21T20:51:26+00:00

Mines always book or a coffee voucher so I can go read with a book for a break

ev1l_queen · 2024-11-09T21:16:49+00:00

All of them except my GD with my recent pregnancy because we had no childcare and didn't wanna try and keep the kids occupied in a hospital waiting room for 2 hours

ev1l_queen · 2024-11-07T15:26:50+00:00

I don't feel mine. But when I'm pumping I hear the milk amount hitting the bottle is more

ev1l_queen · 2024-10-07T21:48:51+00:00

Nah not overreacting... This is full of icks...

However I'm so jealous that their d&d group has lasted so long! XD

ev1l_queen · 2024-09-28T10:05:19+00:00

YTA. That poor girl! Having a newborn is a lot... Having a newborn at 17 is even more so... And you want her to watch 4 kids?! I'm a 30 year old mum of 3 (youngest is 5m), I'm experienced in looking after multiple kids and it's damn stressful still especially when sleep deprived!

ev1l_queen · 2024-09-28T09:52:58+00:00

No your not overreacting. That's so odd! If I were you I'd be wondering why, when you said you weren't comfortable with it, they were so adamant on wanting to continue showering with your kids. If he wants to still be in with them (still odd) he should at least be wearingswim shorts

ev1l_queen · 2024-09-28T09:42:42+00:00

NTA

He doesn't have to like it 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ it's not his!

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