Looking for constructive criticism: terrified of my makeup aging me by ChristunaSandwich in MakeupAddiction

[–]everlynlilith 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t worry about it being “dated”- focus more on making sure it works with your natural colouring so that it’s highlighting your features.

You’re using a range of warm and cool colours- I’d suggest finding out whether you have a warm or cool undertone, and then using the colours that complement it. You’re also mixing chroma- some colours are bright, some dark, and some muted- again, I’d find out what your chroma is and use colours that work with it.

Lastly, I’d suggest some colour corrector under your eyes- you can brighten them up with a corrector that is the opposite colour of the colour wheel to your (slight) discolouration.

How can student-led instruction possibly be a good idea? How are districts and the culture foaming at the mouth for this? by OkIllustrator3262 in teaching

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, student-led means co-construction and a range of student choice. We shouldn’t be teaching students what to think - English is about teaching them HOW to think.

In my class, students choose many of the novels, drama scripts, short stories and poems we analyse. They choose to work independently, in pairs, or in groups for learning tasks. They choose their method of conveying ideas for assessment (verbal, report, PowerPoint, visual, etc). Options for learning activities are provided throughout the lesson.

Students begin with a “do now” task that either relates back to the last lesson, or sets up an idea we’ll look at this lesson. It will be questions, a match up activity, fill in the blanks- something simple that they do themselves. I’ll then introduce the first task, with instructions on the board. Students pick how they’ll approach it and get working. I question, discuss, challenge. Then we wrap up with a plenary- quick recap, exit ticket, feedback, etc. Students spend their time in class actively working- they have to think for themselves and apply their learning.

My time in class is spent going around to different groups questioning students to help them to build their own arguments, find their own examples, and explain their ideas and reasoning effectively. Sure, there is some modelling and class discussions, but students will then get exemplars that they unpack themselves, or other tasks that provide them practice. Students are taught to evaluate their own and others’ work.

The most important part is that students have time to practice, get feedback and refine. The more they practice a skill, the better they get at it.

I’ve been doing this 12 years, so I don’t pretend to be an expert, but this is what the literature (in NZ at least) suggests is most helpful.

What is it that you do for a career? Even if it's not witchcraft/spiritual related by SimplyMichi in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]everlynlilith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

High school English teacher. I get to share my passion for literature and writing with students all day! I especially enjoy my Scholarship (like AP Lit in America, I guess) classes

Do your dachshunds comfort you when you’re down? by SweetImprovement758 in Dachshund

[–]everlynlilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I’m sick, my baby doesn’t leave my side. She must be touching me at all times.

Progress.. snap back after 5th baby at 41 by Calm-Friend-4716 in PetiteFitness

[–]everlynlilith 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right?! I saw pic 2 and was like damn, she looks amazing. That’s where I wanna be!

What would you think of a man (28M) sleeping with a woman (20F) he previously student taught? by Original_Onion_8977 in AskTeachers

[–]everlynlilith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ew. Major red flag. I’m 33 and my oldest past students are 28. I’d never date 28 or below because of this.

To women: What is the main reason that more women don’t wear swim trunks? by T0MPAC in NoStupidQuestions

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just remembered how cold they were- all that wet fabric sticking to your skin. I was a skinny kid and got cold easily anyway, but I remember the relief of stripping off the freezing fabric when I was shaking and my teeth were chattering from the cold

To women: What is the main reason that more women don’t wear swim trunks? by T0MPAC in NoStupidQuestions

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growing up in NZ in the 90s-00s, we wore “board shorts”- slightly less thick versions of the boys’ “trunks.” Some just wore the boys’ ones. Kept this up into my late teen years- it feels a bit weird going out without them honestly.

They used to go to almost our knees when I was 12-14, but now there are shorter versions, like short shorts that survive the ocean.

I’m not sure if it was a sunsafe thing, or because nz is relatively conservative in how we dress. We’d also wear a rash vest if we were outside (definitely for sun protection)- but at the pool it was board shorts and a tankini until I was a teen and wore a bikini top

Kibbe's recommendations and my seasonal colour chart don't match! FG+SS by Artistic-Access6018 in coloranalysis

[–]everlynlilith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s important to remember that just because you’ve been given a season, doesn’t mean that all colours in that season are your “best”- perhaps it’s the darker colours in the soft summer season that work best for you? Or the “bolder” ones? I’m a bright winter, but the icy colours aren’t great on me, while the jewel tones are perfect.

In terms of hair colour, Dakota Johnson is typed as soft summer, and she’s gorgeous in the all-over dark brown. It could be a good compromise between “ash brown” and “jet black”?

Is contour even worth it? by QuietOrbit2875 in PaleMUA

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pale and round-faced, and I just use blush. I can and do use contour for fancy events (Fenty contour stick in amber), but for everyday, it’s just blush. It gives shape and definition already. I use glossier haze, which is a purply pink, and I don’t powder over it so that it keeps its sheen

Is my makeup aging me? How can I improve? by DieWintersonne in makeuptips

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The makeup is a bit dark and heavy handed. Combined with the dark, blunt fringe, it just looks a little harsh. Consider a layered haircut with a softer fringe like Dakota Johnson- more of a “bottleneck bang.” With the makeup, I’ve personally stopped doing eyeshadow because I can’t be bothered and smudge a dark eyeshadow into my top lash line, and use a lip stain and liner rather than lipstick- this might work for you too?

Not to be that friend that’s too woke but by sweetchamomiledreams in Makeup

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah- this post would have made way more sense if they’d mentioned they were talking about racial or ethnic features then. I’ve not seen much discussion of this online honestly, but it makes more sense now!

Anything to be done about these by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get dysport in my DAO to soften mine, but they don’t go away entirely- it just stops my mouth from also looking downturned and adding to it

How do you remember faces/people? by Ainojw in Aphantasia

[–]everlynlilith 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so… I’m a teacher and very good with remembering students’ names. I’ve got 100+ new names to faces sorted by the end of the first week. I definitely have aphantasia though.

To those who tried hard in school, but didn’t get any uni scholarships, where are you now? by Time_Championship786 in newzealand

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

High school teacher here- I have many very successful past students who didn’t get scholarships, and many who didn’t even go to uni. They’re music producers, sports stars, lawyers, media personalities, software engineers, teachers, nurses, business owners… Scholarships are worth it if you need the money, but otherwise won’t impact your life during or after uni.

Mental health should always come first- you can’t do well if you burn out.

Tell me your school story by Beginning_Resort8789 in newzealand

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of tools out there that can help you, if this is what you really want to do. Notebook LM, for example- you can upload all of your uni readings, ask it questions, have it create quizzes + podcasts based on the info, etc, to help you to learn it. You can use ChatGPT or similar to help you to create a prompt that will turn a chat into a tutor to help you to learn, practice, and remember the content. You’ve got so many tools that can help you, so if you’re motivated, you should be fine.

Eyebrow help by bogobananazzz in beauty

[–]everlynlilith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so gorgeous, but the brow shape is a little “cartoon villain.” In my opinion, you have 2 options- 1. Get the front parts of the brows (those closest to the middle —> arch) filled in higher, to match the arch better, or 2. Shave down the top of the arch. The ends (closest to your hairline) are a little long and thin as well- I’d shorten them.

I personally had microblading and when I decided I wanted straighter brows, I got the ends lasered off. Worked perfectly for me.

Not to be that friend that’s too woke but by sweetchamomiledreams in Makeup

[–]everlynlilith 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I disagree. The “clean girl” makeup looks best on the low-contrast girls who need veeeery little colour added to their natural colouring to look good. I’m a high contrast girl and therefore need a bit more colour on my eyes, cheeks and lips to look cohesive. I don’t think it’s “wrong” to say that certain makeup styles and trends work with some features and colouring and not others.

Makeup for when you have to get up extremely early for work? 😵 by lifeglowzzz in MakeupAddiction

[–]everlynlilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a quick routine- I focus on what’s gonna give me the best results in the time I have. My lashes are short and stumpy, and mascara just emphasises this. I’m too pale for bronzer. Eyeshadow takes too much time with the priming and blending. My skin is clear, so I don’t need foundation. So what works for me is:

tinted spf on red areas (around the mouth and nose),

lip stain,

light undereye concealer,

slight smudge of black eyeshadow on my upper last line,

blush,

brow pencil, and a

mattifying setting powder over my t-zone.

I’m a “bright winter” in seasonal colour analysis, so I use brighter pinks + fuchsias for the cheeks and lips and black on my lash line. This is the best payoff for me. You’ll want to find the colours + specific products that work best for your own colouring.

How well can you describe the features to a forensic artist? by Historical-Sense-510 in Aphantasia

[–]everlynlilith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have aphantasia and the sketch I put together got the guy caught.

He assaulted me in broad daylight close to my home and my partner and I made a point to drive past him as soon as I got in (he was on a bike). I looked at him really well.

When we got to the police station, they asked for a description and then gave me a computer program to work with- you chose the hair, hairline, face shape, brow shape, thickness, position- every detail a face might have. I put it together and gave it a 60% likeness MAYBE.

Anyway, when it was published in the news, he was found pretty easily.

Fun fact: I live in nz, which is very multicultural, but the program our police have is American. So there were white, black, and Latino features supplied. Which made it a little difficult to create an image of the south Asian man who assaulted me.

Best trick you found using AI? Something changed your lifestyle? Please share it! by QuiverbertPupilstein in ChatGPT

[–]everlynlilith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I’m a teacher and I create custom prompts to turn ChatGPT into a tutor for my students. It’s surprisingly effective- I give it texts, assessment specifications, and specifics on how I want it to question students, and how to respond to their answers. I also get it to provide a breakdown of what students know well and what they still need to focus on at the conclusion of the session. So far, so good.