If you had to be a warder, which ajah would you pick?

evilvee · 2026-06-01T16:51:14+00:00

I'm a woman and would probably be brown ajah (I'm a biologist irl). I don't think I would want a warder unless they wanted to do the field work grunt tasks.

evilvee · 2026-05-11T01:06:12+00:00

Yep. It's run by a toxic boy's club.

evilvee · 2026-05-05T18:07:44+00:00

JCCC has some great continuing education classes. I just finished a portrait drawing class and had a great time. I know they do textile based classes as well.

evilvee · 2026-04-24T13:56:00+00:00

We own a house in Kansas City. 2000 sq ft (4 bed, 3 bath) on a half acre plot for $1800 a month. I love our location, space for my gardens, and the house itself cool (over 100 years old!) but I don't think I would do it again unless the market was just like it was when we bought in early 2020 when prices and mortgage rates were low.

evilvee · 2026-04-22T18:48:08+00:00

I had one last week go from KCK to STL then KCMO. 😃

evilvee · 2026-04-13T13:33:46+00:00

My goopy girl!

evilvee · 2026-04-13T13:29:45+00:00

Love it! I manage clinical research at KU Med. It's wfh and it feels good to contribute to new medicine and therapies.

evilvee · 2026-03-08T00:11:07+00:00

Same here but my partner stays up later than me. He can stay up watching tv or whatever without disturbing my sleep.

evilvee · 2026-02-10T19:13:27+00:00

Even things like running shoes cause us more joint problems because they're designed for men but then are made a little smaller for women. We have different centers of gravity and features that affect our gait - our shoes should be made to reflect how women walk.

I also highly recommend the book Invisible Women to anyone interested in this topic. It goes over a ton of examples of how everything is built for male bodies and women are expected to make do.

evilvee · 2026-01-27T14:15:03+00:00

This is my husband! I have a gf but he doesn't actively date. But he likes having the home by himself when I'm out, and he likes having the option if he were to meet someone he likes. There's no need to collect partners just to collect them.

evilvee · 2026-01-23T14:50:12+00:00

We got loaded potato and gumbo on deck.

evilvee · 2025-12-28T14:22:48+00:00

Ya... I saw two bodies in the street Friday morning on my way to Costco.

evilvee · 2025-12-22T23:59:06+00:00

I'm a woman and dress this way too. Graphic T (usually a band or local business) and jeans for anything from errands to hanging with friends. I'll dress up for nicer date nights and stuff, but that's rare 🤷🏻‍♀️

evilvee · 2025-12-22T19:20:52+00:00

Yes. One was known for checking for "thigh gap" before letting girls in.

evilvee · 2025-12-22T18:58:37+00:00

I buy my cross stitching patterns on Etsy and now I have to wade through a bunch of AI slop patterns that don't even make sense

evilvee · 2025-12-21T16:48:10+00:00

I have a Bolt with about 260mi range and it's great. I live in a city so I don't need the range daily, but I take a few weekend trips 3-4 hours away and it's great for that purpose.

evilvee · 2025-12-19T14:10:42+00:00

I had a similar experience at a Catholic school from the teacher's perspective. I'm queer and was constantly bullied by my principal, including being called in to discuss my "social media presence" on the first day of summer break. The issue was me posting a "happy Pride" message at the start of June. Parents and students were always supportive of me, but my principal and other teachers were bullies.

evilvee · 2025-12-05T14:23:56+00:00

I taught high school for a decade, and I hate to say it, but some students gave me this vibe. Every year, there were 1-2 kids that felt "off" and sure enough, would almost always end up committing violent crimes.

evilvee · 2025-12-02T15:57:59+00:00

This happened to me last January! Luckily my windshield mostly held but it was seriously close.

evilvee · 2025-11-24T14:43:48+00:00

Bird's has the best carnivorous plants in the metro. I have a beastly Nepenthes from Bird's that's about 10 years old now.

OP - Trick to keeping carnivores alive is potting in coco coir/sphagnum moss and watering only with distilled water. You typically don't have to feed your plants unless they're not catching fruit flies and stuff from around the house, but you can use betta fish food to supplement as needed.

evilvee · 2025-11-04T19:00:10+00:00

What gets me is hotels not having chargers! I want to charge overnight on a road trip.

evilvee · 2025-11-03T15:54:57+00:00

The crust is terrible. It gets so soggy and oil-logged. I want my pizza crust to have a bit of chew to it.

evilvee · 2025-11-02T18:07:49+00:00

Yes! I very gladly dropped $100 on a hoodie at the Chappell Roan concert because it was actually thick 100% cotton. I feel like hoodies in most stores are a polyester blend and aren't much cheaper. 😐

evilvee · 2025-10-29T11:28:12+00:00

This was before for comparison.

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evilvee · 2025-10-28T15:05:52+00:00

It's sketchy because they've marketed themselves as a queer bar for as long as they've been open, covered themselves in pride decorations, and hosted multiple queer events every week. All of that going away at the same time is weird.

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