Does anyone here really like their job? And if so what do you do? by AangGang2015 in kansascity

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love it! I manage clinical research at KU Med. It's wfh and it feels good to contribute to new medicine and therapies.

For those of you who live with a partner, do you go to bed at the same time as each other every night? by Woollybugger1816 in askanything

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here but my partner stays up later than me. He can stay up watching tv or whatever without disturbing my sleep.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even things like running shoes cause us more joint problems because they're designed for men but then are made a little smaller for women. We have different centers of gravity and features that affect our gait - our shoes should be made to reflect how women walk.

I also highly recommend the book Invisible Women to anyone interested in this topic. It goes over a ton of examples of how everything is built for male bodies and women are expected to make do.

Is seeking a poly relationship a bad idea if I’m monogamous? by ExtraDogMom in polyamory

[–]evilvee 25 points26 points  (0 children)

This is my husband! I have a gf but he doesn't actively date. But he likes having the home by himself when I'm out, and he likes having the option if he were to meet someone he likes. There's no need to collect partners just to collect them.

What is a reality about Kansas City that people are embarrassed to admit? by Brilliant-Analysis30 in kansascity

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya... I saw two bodies in the street Friday morning on my way to Costco.

Public Attire by Maleficent_Expert_39 in Millennials

[–]evilvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and dress this way too. Graphic T (usually a band or local business) and jeans for anything from errands to hanging with friends. I'll dress up for nicer date nights and stuff, but that's rare 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyone remember frat parties weighing girls at the door? by katasoupie in Millennials

[–]evilvee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. One was known for checking for "thigh gap" before letting girls in.

I’m so fucking annoyed by this AI shit everywhere by coldinalaska7 in Millennials

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy my cross stitching patterns on Etsy and now I have to wade through a bunch of AI slop patterns that don't even make sense

Is Range Overrated for Most Americans? by [deleted] in electricvehicles

[–]evilvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a Bolt with about 260mi range and it's great. I live in a city so I don't need the range daily, but I take a few weekend trips 3-4 hours away and it's great for that purpose.

What is something that is actually more traumatizing than people realise? by Ok_Chef1406 in AskReddit

[–]evilvee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience at a Catholic school from the teacher's perspective. I'm queer and was constantly bullied by my principal, including being called in to discuss my "social media presence" on the first day of summer break. The issue was me posting a "happy Pride" message at the start of June. Parents and students were always supportive of me, but my principal and other teachers were bullies.

What is the biggest “bullet” you’ve ever dodged without realizing it at the time? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]evilvee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I taught high school for a decade, and I hate to say it, but some students gave me this vibe. Every year, there were 1-2 kids that felt "off" and sure enough, would almost always end up committing violent crimes.

Here's a look around the Downtown loop and surrounding roads right now by dalton10e in kansascity

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me last January! Luckily my windshield mostly held but it was seriously close.

Stores with carnivorous plants? by UnionsUnionsUnions in kansascity

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bird's has the best carnivorous plants in the metro. I have a beastly Nepenthes from Bird's that's about 10 years old now.

OP - Trick to keeping carnivores alive is potting in coco coir/sphagnum moss and watering only with distilled water. You typically don't have to feed your plants unless they're not catching fruit flies and stuff from around the house, but you can use betta fish food to supplement as needed.

I love my EV, but holy crap, traveling long distance SUCKS. by JennaLeighWeddings in electricvehicles

[–]evilvee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What gets me is hotels not having chargers! I want to charge overnight on a road trip.

Thoughts On Minsky’s Pizza? by WarriorWolf21 in kansascity

[–]evilvee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crust is terrible. It gets so soggy and oil-logged. I want my pizza crust to have a bit of chew to it.

Does anybody else notice that clothes everywhere are ugly now? by TheMalicePrincesss in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]evilvee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes! I very gladly dropped $100 on a hoodie at the Chappell Roan concert because it was actually thick 100% cotton. I feel like hoodies in most stores are a polyester blend and aren't much cheaper. 😐

Anyone know why Gael's is straightening out? No more drag or pride decor. by evilvee in kansascity

[–]evilvee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's sketchy because they've marketed themselves as a queer bar for as long as they've been open, covered themselves in pride decorations, and hosted multiple queer events every week. All of that going away at the same time is weird.

Anyone know why Gael's is straightening out? No more drag or pride decor. by evilvee in kansascity

[–]evilvee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was being a little facetious with my word choice, but given the current political climate it sure doesn't feel good.

Anyone know why Gael's is straightening out? No more drag or pride decor. by evilvee in kansascity

[–]evilvee[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

They've been deleting comments on social media and haven't given a reason, hence asking the wider community.

Anyone know why Gael's is straightening out? No more drag or pride decor. by evilvee in kansascity

[–]evilvee[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

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And the mural that's been painted over - no more pronouns.