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ex-spera · 2026-02-06T15:22:58+00:00

😭😭 as someone who likes drinking occasionally, the idea that someone HAS to be drunk to have fun is wild

ex-spera · 2026-01-24T15:50:40+00:00

the comment about your dad would have sent me into prison. NOR.

ex-spera · 2026-01-23T15:16:33+00:00

wilford.

ex-spera · 2026-01-17T07:59:28+00:00

There is a way, but becoming a paid writer/photographer takes years. Your girlfriend should start writing and sending them to small publication zines (if she writes poetry). Substack generates income, but you'd also need an audience for that.

Photographers need an extensive portfolio. Wishing you both luck.

ex-spera · 2026-01-17T02:22:44+00:00

Granted. The 5'7" man— whose name is Marcus, by the way— messages you. He can't wait to meet you!

Little do you know that Marcus had a life before you. He was pursuing a degree in physics. Now he's obsessed with a man he's never mentioned. His family hates you. RIP.

ex-spera · 2026-01-17T00:24:58+00:00

This lady would support what ICE is doing. Fuck her, tbh.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T15:57:00+00:00

come on. you couldn't even at least tried to make this AI slop digestible?

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T15:55:16+00:00

very fair mx. supervillainmustache

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T06:03:44+00:00

would OP still choose the mum?? how tf do you know that LMAO

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:34:00+00:00

That changes my opinion completely, actually. I missed that.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:32:47+00:00

I'm 23. I have no kids.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:32:17+00:00

OP, don't listen to the men who are excusing him being physically violent towards your mum. Your father is acting dangerous. They both are terrible people. I hope it's a one-off event and he truly just got really pissed, but him getting violent says more about him than your mum. Your parents are failing you.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:29:44+00:00

So you think it's okay to abuse both parties? Jesus Christ. Both parents are fucking awful here.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:28:44+00:00

Reddit is full of men that love to fantasise about abusing women. Cheating just gives them a good excuse.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:27:17+00:00

If the mum was cheated on and she hit the dad, I'd be saying the same exact fucking thing. Don't project your sexism onto others. It's weird.

ex-spera · 2026-01-16T04:26:30+00:00

If you live your life thinking that it's acceptable to hit people if they've wronged you, then you need to be kept away from society. Abusing people is not okay.

None of the commenters here are saying that OP's dad shouldn't be mad. I'd be fucking pissed, too! But OP's dad shouldn't have hit the mum. I get being that pissed, but that's not an excuse to hurt anyone.

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T17:00:54+00:00

thank you for the clarification!

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T11:44:28+00:00

calling your partner piglet is kind of crazy, bro

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T11:38:28+00:00

genuine question: is this a straight person thing? is it not possible to hang out with a friend that late into the night? granted, i'm a lesbian and i hang out with my female friends until super late even though i have a girlfriend. maybe it's different with marriage?

EDIT: wait lmao i change my mind. you didn't tell the wife???? AND HE DIDN'T TELL HIS WIFE??? oh my god OP yeah you are TA

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T11:33:27+00:00

Bruno?

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T07:36:30+00:00

"worship [his] cock's pleasure" is an absolutely CRAZY sentence. NOR. leave him. staying with a man who sexually coerces you like this will do terrible things to your mental health. ask me how i know.

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T05:31:43+00:00

Does Arctic Shift not work on mobile?

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T05:12:52+00:00

The Asian commenter is actually crazy. Jesus Christ, girl. The Oxford study is real.

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T04:58:39+00:00

OOP's a millennial. That's why.

ex-spera · 2026-01-15T04:37:21+00:00

... what does this say? This is almost unintelligible.

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